Table of Contents
Foreword Margaret Cho ix
Introduction xi
Chapter 1 One Act, Many Pleasures 1
Receiving
Giving
Increasing Intimacy
Enhancing Lovemaking
Chapter 2 How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love Getting Head 10
The Four Fears
Building Blocks for Great Sex: Masturbation and Fantasy
Getting Connected
Being a Great Lick-ee
The Oral Sex Double Standard
Working Late
Chapter 3 Anatomy for Pleasure 31
Female Anatomy 101
The Sexual Response Cycle
The G-Spot and Ejaculation
Chapter 4 Health Considerations 45
Is Cunnilingus a Risky Behavior"
Is Rimming Risky"
Safer Sex
Flavored Vulvas
Air Embolism
Episiotomy
The Eroticism of Safer Sex
Chapter 5 Tastes and Textures 61
Hair: Velvet or Velcro"
Smell and Taste
Beard Burn
Menstruation
The Sweets of San Francisco
Chapter 6 Cunning Linguistics: Getting Started 76
Cunning Strategies and Suggestions
Foreplay Games for Lovers
Chapter 7 Oral Seduction 86
First Taste
Helping Hands
Female Genital Massage
Starting Licks
Tongue Techniques
What Your Mouth Can Do
Strokes and Combinations
Rhythm
How to Be a Mind Reader (Well, Almost)
Blue Denim Pussy
Chapter 8 As You Like It 108
Positions
Cunnilingus Positions for Injured or Disabled People
Tongue and Jaw Cramp
Penetration and Sex Toys
G-Spot Stimulation
More
Chapter 9 Tricks or Treats: Advanced Techniques 124
Erotic Pressure Points
Fire and Ice
A Little Pain
A Lot of Pain
Exercising Restraint
Rimming
Anal Penetration
Extreme Sports
The Party
Chapter 10 Independent Study: Erotic Books and Videos 149
Recommended Reading
Sex Guides
Erotic Videos
How-To Videos
Chapter 11 Resources 162
Online and Mail Order
Retail Stores
Canadian Resources
European Resources
Safer-Sex Resources
Sex Education Classes and Workshops: Organizations
Sex-Related Web Sites
Chapter 12 References 175
Books
Videos
Illustrations
1 One Act, Many Pleasures 2
2 Take a Look 13
3 External Anatomy 33
4 Internal Anatomy (Front View) 35
5 Internal Anatomy (Side View) 38
6 Safer Sex 53
7 Shaving 64
8 Cunning Strategy 78
9 First Taste 88
10 Orgasm 103
11 Doggie-Style 111
12 Enhancing Orgasm 126
13 Heightening Sensitivity 127
14 Increasing Pleasure 127
