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Why Become a Christian? (Tough Questions Series)

Why Become a Christian? (Tough Questions Series)

by Garry Poole, Lee Strobel (Foreword by), Judson Poling, Debra Poling
This revised edition of Tough Questions, designed for use in any small group setting, is ideal for use in seeker small groups. Based on more than five years of field-tested feedback, extensive improvements make this best-selling series easier to use and more appealing than ever for both participants and group leaders.

The Tough Questions Series

How can an


This revised edition of Tough Questions, designed for use in any small group setting, is ideal for use in seeker small groups. Based on more than five years of field-tested feedback, extensive improvements make this best-selling series easier to use and more appealing than ever for both participants and group leaders.

The Tough Questions Series

How can an all-powerful God allow suffering? Is Jesus really the only way to God? Why should I trust the Bible?

Tough questions. Reasonable questions. The kinds of challenging questions you, or someone you know may be asking, that are worth taking time to explore.

In six sessions designed to get small groups thinking and interacting, each guide in the Tough Questions series deals frankly with objections commonly raised about Christianity. You’ll engage in the kind of spirited dialog that shows the Christian faith can stand up to scrutiny.

Why Would Anyone Think I’m Not a Christian?
Why All This Talk About Sin?
Why Can’t I Make It on My Own?
Why Is Jesus So Important?
Can Someone Like Me Really Change?
How Does Someone Actually Become a Christian?

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Why Become a Christian?

By Garry Poole


Copyright © 2003 Willow Creek Association
All right reserved.

ISBN: 0-310-24508-7

Chapter One


Why Would Anyone Think I'm Not a Christian

Mistaken Identity

Imagine turning on the evening news and hearing the top story: Christianity declared illegal! As you sit there in disbelief, the announcer states that anyone who is a Christian will be arrested and will stand trial. Special police forces are already at work, dragging Christians out of their homes.

You turn off the television, hands shaking. You never identified a particular religion to follow, but you were born into a Christian family. Is that enough to implicate you? You think of when you were growing up: your mother made sure you were baptized and attended Sunday school. You were even (you shudder) confirmed! You've visited churches several times over the last twenty years. You also remember that at work you've commented on your "Christian" heritage. Of course, you also know you're as honest, good, and kind as the next guy.

Oh no, you think. I'm toast!

You hear a sound outside. You sneak over to the window and close the blinds just as a dark blue police van pulls to a stop in front of your house. What will you do? Should you hide? Run out the back door?

There's a knock on the door. You brace yourself for the inevitable and open the door. Two police officers show their badges. You nod. They ask for your mother.

"My mother?"

"Yes, we have information she is here with you."

"Um, no, she flew back to Florida two weeks ago."

"We'll need to look around," one of the officers says as they walk in.

They quickly search through the house looking for any signs of your mother. After a few tense moments, they head out the door. "That's it."

"But ..."

They stop. "Yes?"

"Well, I just thought ... the new law ..."

"Don't worry. We're only arresting Christians, not their relatives," the other officer answers abruptly.

"So you're not here to question me?"

"Like I said," the officer repeats, "we're only arresting Christians."

In this scene, not being accused of being a Christian would come as a relief. Yet so many of the attributes expressed above are what many think identifies a person as a Christian. If you're born in a Christian family and you're not following some other religion-and are not an atheist-then by default you must be a Christian. Right? Especially if you have some Christian exposure in your background. That goes double if you've attended a Christian church with any kind of regularity. Surely that would qualify you to be arrested for being a Christian.

So what kind of evidence is needed to put a person in jail for being a Christian?


1. Describe an occasion when you (or someone you know) believed you had the necessary ticket to attend a special event but for some reason were denied entry.

2. If you were to identify someone as a Christian, what definitive factors or reasons would you look for to support that claim?

3. Which of the activities in the following list qualifies someone to be a Christian? Check all that apply and give reasons for your answer(s).

____ being born and raised in a Christian family

____ being baptized as an infant or an adult

____ being confirmed

____ attending church regularly

____ observing Christian holidays

____ reading the Bible occasionally

____ serving in the church

____ donating money to the church

____ being a good and kind person

____ participating in Communion

____ being a formal member of a church

____ obeying the Ten Commandments

____ praying frequently

____ having some kind of spiritual or emotional experience

4. What role do you think religious activity plays in being a true Christian?


Encountering Christ

As soon as we start pointing to things people do as proof that they're true Christians, we confuse what it takes to live as a Christian with what it takes to become a Christian. A man and a woman could walk arm in arm, kiss each other, even go to the same home at the end of the day-but that doesn't make them married. For that to be true, a moment must come when they go beyond dating and proclaim unreservedly, "I do." Likewise, people can be associated with spirituality and live out various Christian behaviors without encountering Christ in a significant and authentic way. It happens to people in cults all the time. So the definitive factor in being a Christian cannot be lifestyle oriented-it has to relate in some way to receiving Christ.

Having said that, one would expect someone who has encountered Christ to live an obedient Christian life. But an obedient life doesn't save the person-it is simply evidence that Jesus is present and is making his presence known through the person's life.

5. Do you think it is possible to have a false sense of security about being a Christian? If you answered yes, name some examples of false hopes. If no, why do you think a person can't be wrong about his or her claim to be a Christian?


Rude Awakening

The Bible warns of a kind of rude awakening that awaits those who are counting on religious activities to get them into heaven.

[Jesus said,] "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven.... Many will say to me on that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and in your name drive out demons and perform many miracles?' Then I will tell them plainly, 'I never knew you.'" -Matthew 7:21-23

6. The people referenced in the above verses were definitely busy doing religious things. What do you think is the difference between an actively religious person who enters the kingdom of heaven and an actively religious person who does not?

7. What is the correlation between initially becoming a Christian and living out one's life as a Christian?

8. Do you think a person, to be a true Christian, must be born into the Christian religion, or could he or she be converted into it, or both? Explain your answer.


You Must Be Born Again

The Bible records a fascinating encounter Jesus had with a religious man named Nicodemus. In the middle of their discourse Jesus replies, "I tell you the truth, no one can see the kingdom of God unless he is born again" (John 3:3). This man was not an atheist; in fact, he was well versed in the Bible and a respected teacher. Jesus was certainly not telling an irreligious person to start going back to church. Nor was he telling a hypocrite to stop his sinful actions. He was speaking to a devout member of a local synagogue-a leader, no less-informing him that something was missing in his life. Jesus revealed that this man would not be in God's kingdom unless he became born again.

9. What do you think it means to be born again?

10. What's the difference between being religious and being born again? Why would Jesus tell someone like Nicodemus, who was already very religious, to be born again?


11. In what ways are you similar to Nicodemus? How are you different?

12. If you were to encounter Jesus today, would he tell you there's still something missing in your life? Why or why not?

13. Why does talking about being born again often create negative images and angry reactions?


With this session you're beginning a journey. Keep in mind that you do not need to feel pressured to "say the right thing" at any point during these discussions. You're taking the time to do this work because you're looking for answers and because you're willing to be honest about your doubts and uncertainties. Others in your group would also benefit from hearing about what you'll be learning. So use these sessions profitably-ask the tough questions, think "outside the box," and learn from what others in your group have to say. But stay authentic about where you are in your journey.

To help you identify your progress more clearly, throughout this guide you will have opportunities to indicate where you are in your spiritual journey. As you gain more spiritual insights, you may find yourself reconsidering your opinions from session to session. The important thing is for you to be completely truthful about what you believe-or don't believe-right now.

14. Check the statement(s) below that best describes your position at this point. Share your selection with the rest of the group and give reasons for your response.

____ I still don't understand what it means to be a Christian.

____ I don't understand the difference between being a good person and being a Christian.

____ I understand how to become a Christian, but I don't think I am ready to take that step yet.

____ I'd like to learn more about what it really means to be a Christian.

____ I am glad to finally understand what being a Christian means.

____ If believing in Jesus is all it takes to be a Christian, it seems pointless to try to be a good person.

____ I now have a better understanding of how the Bible would say some people are Christians and others aren't, but I don't agree.

____ I wish someone would just tell me what hoops to jump through and I'd do it.

____ I am now sure that I am not a Christian.

____ I am still unclear about Christianity and whether I am a Christian or not.

____ I am sure that I am a Christian.

____ Write your own brief phrase here: ______ ________________________________________ ________________________________________

Scripture for Further Study

Isaiah 55:6-7 Romans 5:12-21

Matthew 7:15-27 Galatians 2:15-21

Matthew 22:1-14 Galatians 3:6-9

Mark 1:15 Ephesians 2:8-10

Mark 4:1-9 Colossians 2:6-7

Mark 8:34-38 Hebrews 3:7-15

John 3; 15 Hebrews 11

Acts 17:11-12


Excerpted from Why Become a Christian? by Garry Poole Copyright © 2003 by Willow Creek Association. Excerpted by permission.
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Meet the Author

As Willow Creek Community Church's key evangelism leader for over sixteen years, Garry Poole is the innovator of seeker small groups and a strategist of creative outreach initiatives. Passionate about reaching people for Christ, Garry and his team have trained thousands of leaders to launch seeker small groups in their own settings. His award-winning book, Seeker Small Groups, provides a detailed blueprint for facilitating small group discussions that assist spiritual seekers with investigating Christianity. He also wrote The Complete Book of Questions, a collection of 1001 conversation starters and numerous group study guides including The Three Habits of Highly Contagious Christians; The Tough Questions Series, and Experiencing the Passion of Jesus (with Lee Strobel) to accompany Mel Gibson’s film, The Passion of the Christ. In 2005, it became the first discussion guide ever to receive the prestigious Charles “Kip” Jordon Christian Book of the Year award. Garry lives in suburban Chicago.

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