Dr Kreedman presents a truly new and powerful approach to working through both individual and relationship difficulties. Throughout her book, Dr. Kreedman opens the doors to her office, invites the reader inside, and in detail reveals her therapeutic process. She wants the reader to be able to take control of their own destiny and she does that by giving them the tools that she uses to help those in her practice. Dr Kreedman's focus is different in that she sees beyond the immediate problem and goes right to the core. She puts in one book a complete approach to understanding both the individual and the couple. She helps readers understand what makes them tick. Without question, the reader will become empowered as they gain insight into themselves and control over undesirable reactions as they relate to others, Through Why Love Stops, How Love Stays, readers can have the knowledge for healing themselves and their relationship.