Winning Marriage: The Inside Story of How Same-Sex Couples Took on the Politicians and Pundits--and Won

Winning Marriage: The Inside Story of How Same-Sex Couples Took on the Politicians and Pundits--and Won


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Ten years ago no state allowed same-sex couples to marry, support for gay marriage nationwide hovered around 30 percent, and politicians everywhere thought of it as the third rail of American politics—draw near at your peril. Today, same-sex couples can marry in seventeen states, polls consistently show majority support, and nearly three-quarters of Americans believe legalization is inevitable.

In Winning Marriage Marc Solomon, a veteran leader in the movement for marriage equality, gives the reader a seat at the strategy-setting and decision-making table in the campaign to win and protect the freedom to marry. With depth and grace he reveals the inner workings of the advocacy movement that has championed and protected advances won in legislative, court, and electoral battles over the decade since the landmark Massachusetts ruling guaranteeing marriage for same-sex couples for the first time.

From the gritty battles in the state legislatures of Massachusetts and New York to the devastating loss at the ballot box in California in 2008 and subsequent ballot wins in 2012 to the joyous victories of securing President Obama’s support and prevailing in the Supreme Court, Marc Solomon has been at the center of one of the great civil and human rights movements of our time. Winning Marriage recounts the struggle with some of the world’s most powerful forces—the Catholic hierarchy, the religious right, and cynical ultraconservative political operatives—and the movement’s eventual triumph.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781611684018
Publisher: University Press of New England
Publication date: 11/12/2014
Pages: 368
Product dimensions: 5.90(w) x 9.10(h) x 1.60(d)

About the Author

MARC SOLOMON is the national campaign director for Freedom to Marry where he directs programs to win marriage nationwide. In 13 years of work on marriage equality, he has led the campaign to protect marriage in Massachusetts and played key roles in New York, Illinois, California, New Hampshire, Maine, and elsewhere. He has innovated programs to make advances with both the Democratic and Republican Parties, and has led efforts to enlist elected officials and business leaders to the cause. He is a regular media spokesperson—on television and radio and in print.

Table of Contents

Foreword by Governor Deval Patrick
Author’s Note
The Decision Heard ’round the World
Tying the Knot
Do-or-Die Elections
Organizing for the Fight
Defying Gravity
Sealing the Deal
How Did This Happen?
The Republicans
Sealing the Deal (Redux)
Losing California
Preparing for the Ballot
The Final Stretch
Fierce Advocate?
Cementing a Legacy
Courting Justice
State Victories and Other Key Milestones, 2003–2013

What People are Saying About This

Bob Woodward

“Winning Marriage is a deeply reported and deeply felt insider’s account of the marriage equality movement. Astute, committed, and fair-minded, Solomon’s story chronicles the political sea change on marriage equality. Solomon is an authoritative voice, observer, and participant. This is an important history about how America is changing.”

Dee Dee Myers

“In Winning Marriage, Marc Solomon tells the riveting story of the long battle for marriage equality, with its strategic discipline and internal conflicts, principled leaders and committed adversaries, unexpected setbacks and lucky breaks. Even though I knew where each chapter would end, I was drawn into Marc’s detailed, carefully researched and deeply personal account — and it left me wiping my eyes and pumping my fist. I can’t wait for the ultimate epilogue.”

Christine Chavez

“Solomon's powerful account of this enormously successful civil rights battle is both an inspiration and a hugely important guide for strategists, organizers, and everyone else who seeks to take on the system and create what my grandfather called ‘a revolution of the mind and heart.’”

Chris Hughes

“It’s hard to imagine a more thorough, lively account of the fight for marriage equality coming from someone who labored on the front lines for over a decade. Marc traces in careful detail the emergence of the first major social movement of this century in a way that will inspire activists on the side of justice and equality for decades to come.”

Chris Anderson

“As one of the key players in the quest for marriage equality, Marc has an amazing story to tell. This movement was years in the making, yet the speed and manner in which opinion on the topic has changed is breathtaking. Marc’s ringside narrative of this achievement is inspiring and historic.”

Barney Frank

“Marc Solomon's book is one of the most valuable I've read about the fight for legal equality for LGBT people. It is by far the best, and most accurate, of the accounts to legalize same-sex marriage. His narration demonstrates the crucial role that the intelligent, disciplined approach to the political process played in the successes we have won.”

Eric Garcetti

“The recent and unprecedented victories we’ve seen in the battle to secure marriage equality would not have been possible without Marc Solomon. In Winning Marriage, he delivers a compelling and moving inside story.”

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RobHuttmeyer More than 1 year ago
This book tells of the process for securing marriage equality in various states across America.  The book is a narrative discussing the behind-the-scenes action in Massachusetts, New York, and the process of transformation of President Obama.  This book is especially helpful as it is told by the head of the Massachusetts effort.  This book is just as interesting for the way a group of dedicated activists change public opinion on a cultural issue as well as the aspects of how to run a campaign.  The book explains how and why the marriage equality movement changed its tactics in order to create the social change that came about in such a short time.