Lies Young Women Believe: And the Truth That Sets Them Free (Companion Guide)

Lies Young Women Believe: And the Truth That Sets Them Free (Companion Guide)

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by Nancy Leigh DeMoss, Dannah Gresh, Erin Davis

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Go deeper into the truths of Lies Young Women Believe.

So you've read Lies Young Women Believe, but you want help internalizing its truths and applying them to your life? This companion guide contains questions and activities to help you do just that.

Each session is made up of the following features:

  • An


Go deeper into the truths of Lies Young Women Believe.

So you've read Lies Young Women Believe, but you want help internalizing its truths and applying them to your life? This companion guide contains questions and activities to help you do just that.

Each session is made up of the following features:

  • An overview of the chapter to be studied from Lies Young Women Believe and reminders of the lies discussed in that chapter
  • A daily personal study for the readers to complete during the course of the week, between youth group meetings. Each day's study includes a reading from Lies Young Women Believe and reflection questions
  • Questions to be discussed in youth group/small group setting

Ideal for small groups, Bible studies, classes, and individuals

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Lies Young Women Believe

By Nancy Leigh DeMoss Dannah Gresh Erin Davis
Moody Publishers
Copyright © 2009

Nancy Leigh DeMoss Dannah Gresh
All right reserved.

ISBN: 978-0-8024-7291-5



"You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free." John 8:32

Hey friend!

We are so excited that this book is in your hands. It means you are ready to do some serious work. And that, we believe, is going to lead you to some serious freedom.

When we wrote Lies Young Women Believe, we rolled up our sleeves and did some heavy lifting for you. We developed a plan to uncover lies that you might believe. As part of that plan, we surveyed 1000 teen girls to uncover 25 of the most commonly believed lies in your generation. Then we took that list of lies and set out to uncover God's Truth, praying all along the way that God's Spirit would direct our work.

If you read Lies Young Women Believe, you'll get a good glimpse at how you can be free. In essence, we introduced you to Truth in the book.

But being introduced to someone or something isn't the same as knowing that person or thing. Jesus said, "You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free." It's time for you to roll up your sleeves to move past the introductions. We want you to know Truth.

That's where this companion guide comes in. You have nine weeks of Bible study, personal application, and discussion suggestions in your hands. Think of this as your private journal for the next nine weeks. All you need to do is read the chapter or chapters in Lies Young Women Believe that correspond to the week of study you are about to begin. Then, keep this book close for daily, thought-provoking assignments that will take you from an introductory look at Truth to an intimate knowledge of Truth.

Well, what are you waiting for?

Let's get started!

Most of the Scriptures we quote will be from the English Standard Version of the Bible. Occasionally we'll use the New International Version. When we do, we'll put the handy-dandy "NIV" there so you will know where that verse came from! If you prefer to memorize from a different translation, that's totally okay.

Nancy, Dannah, and Erin



This week, you have a lot of reading to do. (It gets easier after this!) You'll read the introduction and chapters 1-3 in Lies Young Women Believe (LYWB). We'll digest things one chapter at a time, so read a chapter when the assignment appears.


"Back in the garden, Eve met an imposter with a diabolical agenda. He wanted Eve to become his slave by rejecting God and His purposes for her life. The serpent craftily asked, "Did God actually say, 'You shall not eat of any tree in the garden'?" (Genesis 3:1b). That's not exactly what God had said, but it certainly sounded similar. God had told Adam (and Eve) they couldn't eat from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil. Satan used a clever combination of half-truths and falsehoods posed as Truth. He began by planting doubts in Eve's mind about what God had actually said.... He wanted her to turn her back on God, to reject His Truth, and to believe his carefully crafted lies ... and she did. And that's exactly what the great Imposter wants you to do."

Lies Young Women Believe, p. 22


A critical element of this study will be concentrating your focus on the Truth found in God's Word. In order to saturate your life with this Truth and help you develop the discipline of meditation, we want to encourage you to memorize a Scripture for each week of this study. (You can do it! We know you've got tons of other information stored in your mind that's not nearly as important! The key to memorizing Scripture-or anything else-is review, review, review and use it in your life!)

Here's the verse we'd like you to memorize this week:

"Flee the evil desires of youth, and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart." (2 TIMOTHY 2:22 NIV)


READ Read the Introduction: Blazing Lies in LYWB.


Realize means "to make real or actual." That's what we want to do with this section of each day's study. We want to "make real or actual" the Truth that you've just read. This is where you'll roll up your sleeves and move from just being "introduced" to the Truth in the book to making it so real in your life that you "know" it.

1. Look up 2 Peter 2:19. Rewrite the verse in your own words in the space provided.

______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________

2. How would you answer the questions posed on page 13 of LYWB? It reads, "Do you feel as if your life is being controlled by powerful emotions-like fear, depression, anger, loneliness, jealousy, or self-pity? Are there harmful habits or destructive patterns you can identify in your life-things like cutting yourself, drinking, using drugs, or sexual activity-that you just can't seem to change or let go of?" Write your thoughts here.

______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________

3. Did you take the "what's-the-status-of-your-lying-embers?" quiz? In case you haven t, we've included it here for you to give it a try. Why not take it now.

Selecting one per pair, circle the word or set of words that reflect how you feel or respond most of the time.

(1) Relaxed or >>> Totally stressed-out

(2) Happy-to-be-single or Gotta-have-a-guy

(3) Good-with-what-ya-got or Ugly


(5) Definitely-taking-my-problems-to-God-first or Gotta-ask-my-friends-for-advice

(6) Got-just-enough-friends or > Lonely

(7) Friendly or > Totally PMS-ing


(9) In-control-of-my-tech-world or Would-die-without-text-messaging, Facebook, and more

(10) I Confident-in-my-stand-to-be-pure or Ashamed-to-stand-alone

(11) Content-with-what-ya-got or MUST-shop-now

(12) The-real-deal or Different-depending-on-who-I'm-with

(13) Walking-in-victory or Unable-to-overcome-certain-sins

(14) Content-to-submit or Angry-at-my-parents

(15) Confident-of-God's-protection or Afraid-of-Satan

Look at the words you circled. What might these words reveal about the status of your emotions and relationships?

4. Remember Erin's story in the introduction of LYWB? I She was controlled by fear and experienced panic attacks nearly every night of her life. Her fear was the result of believing lies, but it took her a long time to see that. The biggest lie she believed was "everyone leaves." What Scripture verse would you use to counteract that lie with Truth?


Respond means to "answer" or to "take action." We want you to do more than just realize the Truth. We want you to act on it! Each day we will guide you through a series of questions or activities designed to help you respond to the Truth you've encountered. This is where it gets personal as you apply Truth directly to your life. If you do this study as part of a group, we'll guide you back to discuss some of these questions with your group each week.

1. Often, it is easier to see the lies that others believe, than it is to see how you've been I deceived. What are some lies you see the young women around you, especially your friends, believing? ______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________

2. How would you like your life to change as a result of this study?

______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________


If you are going to dig deep, you will need to spend time praying about what you're learning in the Word during the course of this study. We've included space at the end of each day for you to journal. You can pray out loud, but we'd like to challenge you to record your prayers right here in this book. As you look back, you will be amazed at how God has faithfully responded to you. We'll get you started at the end of each day of study.

Jesus, I want to grow emotionally, spiritually, and relationally as a result of this study. I pray that You will reveal areas of bondage in my life and any lies I've believed that are keeping me enslaved. Show me the Truth I need to know to experience freedom, especially in the areas of ...

______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________



Read chapter one: The Deceiver in LYWB.


1. Consider today quiz time? Take stab at the following questions about Satan, and then check your answers by taking a deeper look at a few Scripture passages that tell us about God's arch-enemy.

A. If you could describe Satan's physical appearance, based on Scripture, what words would you use?

.... big and hairy .... black and scaly .... bright and beautiful .... short and slimy

It might be surprising to realize that Satan would best be described by the words bright and beautiful? Read 2 Corinthians 11:14 and Ezekiel 28:12.

How can the reality of Satan's appearance affect our tendency to believe his lies?

______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________

B. According to Scripture, what is Satan's native language?

.... Latin .... Lying .... Pig Latin .... Jive

Look up John 8:44 to be sure your answer is correct. (Though you probably don't need any help?) What does the writer mean when he writes that lying is Satan's native tongue?

______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________

C. Why was Satan cast out of heaven?

.... pride .... bad breath .... failure to clean his room .... shining his wings

Of course, Satan wasn't kicked out of heaven for not cleaning his room? Ezekiel 28:12-19 describes Satan's fall. Look it up. What specific character traits led to his downfall?

______________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________

2. Look up Genesis 2:15-3:10 in your Bible. We want you to thoroughly digest this story. (So much of this book hinges on your understanding of Eve's fall.) As you read the passage, fill in the blanks to review key thoughts.

* "The Lord God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it. And the Lord God commanded the man, '_________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ ...'" (2:15-7 NIV) "The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame. Now the serpent was more ________________________ than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, 'Did God really say, ______________________________________________ The woman said to the serpent, 'We may eat fruit from the trees in the garden, but God did say, '_________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________.' ________________________________________,' the serpent said to the woman. 'For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, _____________________________ ____________________________.' When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, __________ __________________________. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it. Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized _____________ _______________________; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves. Then the man and his wife heard the sound of the Lord God as he was walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and they hid from the Lord God among the trees of the garden. But the Lord God called to the man, 'Where are you?' He answered, 'I heard you in the garden, and I was _____________ because I was _________________________; so I __________________________.'" (2:25-3:10 NIV)

1. We're going to do some fill in the blanks on key Bible passages throughout this study. Just like the memory passages, the fill-in-the blank exercises are based upon the English Standard Version (unless they say "NIV"). If you don't have an ESV or NIV Bible, you can look up these verses online at


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Meet the Author

NANCY DEMOSS WOLGEMUTH is the host and teacher for Revive Our Hearts¿a radio program for women heard daily on over 700 radio outlets, reaching over 1 million listeners nationwide. Since 1980, she has served on the staff of Life Action Ministries, a revival ministry based in Buchanan, Michigan. Nancy has an exceptional gift for communicating biblical truth and has shared her burden for personal and corporate revival in conferences and retreats for over thirty years. Some of her books include The Wonder of His Name, The Quiet Place, Seeking Him, Choosing Forgiveness, Choosing Gratitude, A Place of Quiet Rest, Lies Women Believe, Lies Young Women Believe, A Thirty-Day Walk with God in the Psalms, Brokenness, Holiness, and Surrender.

DANNAH GRESH is a bestselling author and co-founder of Pure Freedom. Dannah's books include And the Bride Wore White , What Are You Waiting For: The One Thing No One Ever Tells You About Sex, and Lies Young Women Believe (co-authored with Nancy Leigh DeMoss), in addition to the Secret Keeper series. She is also a frequent guest for national radio, TV and print mediums. Dannah lives in State College, Pennsylvania, with her husband, Bob, and their three children.

A popular speaker, author and blogger, ERIN DAVIS has addressed women of all ages nationwide and is passionately committed to sharing God's Truth with others. She is the author of many books including Connected, Beyond Bath Time, and the My Name is Erin series. When she's not writing books, you can find Erin chasing down chickens and children on her small farm in the Midwest.

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2amberdawn2 More than 1 year ago
it will definitely help you move forward in your christian walk. ~me, 15 =)
Guest More than 1 year ago
I love this book it teaches you that you shouldnt look at how you look because you have an inner beauty outside doesnt matter. And when you think that you are ugly and dont have beauty, you are crushing God's heart because he made you guys healthy. well not all but you should turn around and see other people. God gets sad when you think of yourself ugly. the evil gets happy the serpent the mean serpent. so dont get him happy ladies be strong go with God!!!!!!!
Coey More than 1 year ago
It was a great book for teenagers and young adults! It really helps and explains a lot! If your having a problem or anything this is the book to tell somethings are lies! From the Father of lies himself (Satan)! I liked it! It was a kind of book that you read when you have spair time and really just to sit down and read. It is kinda like a book you'd want to study. It's a good read for an info book! =)
Tige More than 1 year ago
My daughter is using this book as a leader in her youth group. Has been a great tool for subject and content. The girls are really getting alot of good from this study.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I bought this and then found out it was the companion guide! Don't buy it! you can do nothing with it!
lynnde More than 1 year ago
I am thankful for this book which uncovers 25 profound lies that young women believe, but not only young women, even older women can identify with these lies. I appreciate the authors dependence on the WORD of God as the answer to issues concerning beauty and worth and guys and love. I applaud these authors who swim against the current in a culture that suppresses God's truths.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
We did this book as a Bible study. It was a good book for young women.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Great ~giggles~
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It's been a while since I've read the book. I used it with a small group of teenage girls and their mothers as a biweekly devotion. As soon as I started reading, I could definitely identify with everything! It was a great read, and the girls enjoyed it as well. It's a great tool to open us discussions. There are some issues that mom may forget to deal with/talk about. It may be best to have a forum where the girls are comfortable discussing the issues in depth to, hopefully, deal with them in a Christian manner. I wish I had this book as a teenager. A.C.-age 27
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Ya only get the cover, 5 pages of copywrite info, and not even a full page of some note for parents and teachers. Earasing it now ( but im sure the actual book is amazing)
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Hello, I just want to say that this book is great for younger people. It tell you the things that you should and shouldn't do! The girl bible study we are doing is hoing to study and talk about the book! I hope that you buy this book it is great and wounderful! It would be great for a gift for someone! :D
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jbfree More than 1 year ago
This book is no good in electronic format. The different fonts and images do not display well and its very confusing. Each page has such little text on it that it is hard to keep focused while moving from page to page. I feel that it might be a very useful companion guide in paper format, but as stated before, the ebook isn't designed well and it's confusing.
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