Table of Contents
Foreword ix
Introduction 1
Week 1 Getting Started
Day 1 The Summit 7
Day 2 Accountability 13
Day 3 You Can't Do This 17
Day 4 Damaged Goods 21
Day 5 Triggers 25
Day 6 The Fast 29
Day 7 Singleness Is Not a Disease 33
Discussion Question for Week 1 36
Week 2 Made for Love
Day 8 Something More 37
Day 9 People Are Not Things 41
Day 10 Your Intellect, Will, and Passions 45
Day 11 When Things Go Wrong 49
Day 12 Choices 53
Day 13 Virtue 57
Day 14 Love vs. Use 61
Discussion Questions for Week 2 65
Week 3 Physical Passions
Day 15 Writing the Rules 67
Day 16 How It Should Be 73
Day 17 Problems and Solutions 77
Day 18 Affection or Arousal 81
Day 19 XXX 85
Day 20 Breaking Through 89
Day 21 Revealing 95
Discussion Questions for Week 3 100
Week 4 Emotional Passions
Day 22 Two Types of Attractions 101
Day 23 Projectors 105
Day 24 The Fake Happy World 109
Day 25 The Holy of Holies 115
Day 26 Where Our Hearts Go … 119
Day 27 You Don't Need a Savior 125
Day 28 Besties 129
Discussion Questions for Week 4 133
Week 5 Dating
Day 29 Old Friends 135
Day 30 What's the Point? 139
Day 31 Starting Over 143
Day 32 Letting Go 149
Day 33 Ben and Rosie, or Teresa and John? 153
Day 34 From Friends to Dating 159
Day 35 God Has a Plan 165
Discussion Questions for Week 5 170
Week 6 Moving Forward
Day 36 Healing 171
Day 37 Emptiness 175
Day 38 Fear 179
Day 39 Hope 183
Day 40 Celebrate 187
Disscussion Questions for Week 6 190
Endnotes 191