131 Dirty Talk Examples: Learn How To Talk Dirty with These Simple Phrases That Drive Your Lover Wild & Beg You For Sex Tonight:

131 Dirty Talk Examples: Learn How To Talk Dirty with These Simple Phrases That Drive Your Lover Wild & Beg You For Sex Tonight:

by Elizabeth Cramer


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Are you one of those people who want to spice up their love life with the addition of dirty talk, longing to hear certain words or phrases whispered, moaned, growled, or simply uttered but just plain don't know how to get started?

The first thing to understand is that dirty talk isn't dirty. There's nothing shameful or wrong about it.

Men and women are hard-wired differently. Men like to hear, while women like to visualize, and that's completely natural too. A man wants to hear what their partner wants done to them, or wants to do for them before it's done. Hearing the words, screamed, moaned, whimpered, or whispered just flat out does it for most men.

Women like to hear the words and imagine what those words or phrases will mean to them, how their partner will react, or how something will feel, even seconds or milliseconds beforehand, giving their brains time to process the possibilities, thus heightening the sensations.

In this guide you will learn 131 tried-and-tested, proven-to-work phrases you can use for getting your partner in the mood, during foreplay, during & after love making. Both for-man & for-woman phrases are included. You will learn many ways to get started talking dirty and how to build it up gradually so you are comfortable & sound confident when you say them. Using correctly they will make your lover addicted to your voice & drive him/her wild in bed.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781987066258
Publisher: Barnes & Noble Press
Publication date: 04/30/2019
Series: Better Sex Educational Series , #1
Pages: 82
Sales rank: 170,932
Product dimensions: 5.00(w) x 8.00(h) x 0.17(d)

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131 Dirty Talk Examples: Learn How To Talk Dirty with These Simple Phrases That Drive Your Lover Wild & Beg You For Sex Tonight 4.6 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 17 reviews.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I like for my man to be aggressively expressive with me. But since he is a little on the shy side I got this book so we could both read it. It did wonders. It made it easier for him to communicate with me while making love. I love that and for me the dirtier the better. If I don't hear dirty talk then I think something is wrong. I need reassurance. This book is a really great book especially for the beginner. Now your next book should be 131 Dirtier Talk Examples. I highly recommend this book to anyone who has ever feared "dirty" talk. I think dirty talk is totally hot!! 
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This book is really good! Not only does it give you tips and ideas, it even starts off with why people enjoy dirty talk. Having a little extra information than needed is always an amazing thing to me. It takes into consideration your personal comfort zones so you can even go at your own pace. The biggest thing with dirty talk, as you might have guessed, is communication, but not just in the bedroom. Once it's finished with comfort zones, it starts giving ideas that are organized by how dirty and kinky they are. You can pick and choose any ones that you want from the book depending on what you and your partner want and enjoy. It's a very inclusive and easy to understand book that I'd recommend to anyone who's looking to spice things up.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
There's more ways of spicing up your love life than adding expensive toys or lingerie. What if I told you that you could do it tonight and all it would cost you was the cost of this book? There's no tricky positions. There's no risqué activities. All it takes is your mouth, your tongue, and your imagination. Dirty talking has been long under rated. With our social opinions on keeping sex privet, too many people feel uncomfortable saying the words that get our partners worked up. That's where this book comes in. Starting with the basics, how to get started and get your partner involved, and taking you through some sweet nothings to get your engine going, this book is just what you need to get your love life steaming. Don't have time for the physical deed? Tease your partner for later with a quick whisper of what you'd like to do later. Step into the digital age with a steamy text or email. In a long distance situation? The phone can be your best friend to get through those long lonely nights. From the warm up, the foreplay, and on to the deed, there's something to be said for it all. I know I'll be using some of these myself tonight!
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I liked this book and found it very helpful and insightful. I tend to be shy with dirty talk and my husband is always complaining that he wishes I would say more sexy things. It’s just not natural to me to talk dirty but I have realized, after reading this book, that it is a hugely important thing to do. It is a simple thing that I can do to satisfy him and make him feel sexy and wanted.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Not everyone is comfortable talking dirty in the bedroom. These are some rather iconic examples of things you can say to your lover at various points in a lovemaking session. Most of the phrases here are simple and, if you have ever watched a pornographic movie, you have likely heard them all before. You won't find any new things to say, just the tried and true classics.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
For someone who really enjoys sex and sometimes wants to spice it up, this was a great read. As with all relationships, sometimes the sex can get a little boring, or basic, or you just get used to it after a while. But my partner and I read through this together and absolutely had to try some of these situations out. It came with some laughter, but that is part of what made it so fun. We’d never done any role playing before but what we came to find out was that some roles definitely worked for us and others… well not so much, but everything is definitely worth trying once (or more than once if you really like it). Then it’s possible to switch up the roles too! I think our favorite chapter was chapter eight. Going through this book was really eye opening for both my partner and I.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This book really delves into an intimate concept that I was hesitant to explore before. It eases you into how to approach the topic, when the right time is to talk about with your partner and obviously what kind of phrases you can use and what they might entail. There is a good mix of phrases for men and women, as well as levels of intensity and vulgarity, and all got me a little hot and bothered just reading them, so clearly they work!
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This book attempts to explain the importance of talking dirty with your partner, and how you shouldn’t be ashamed of it. There are reasons mentioned why you should try talking sexy to your partner, as well as ideas on how to start incorporating it into your routine. The most helpful part of the book are the lines that are given as examples you can use, which number over 100, are pretty easy to utilize, cover a wide range of topics and situations, and come with extra pointers. I would recommend this book to anyone that wants a little help spicing up their life in the bedroom, and doesn’t know where to start.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Very fun book to read. I've read some dirty phrases over the internet but I find them gross than sexy. There are phrases that can actually turn on someone and phrases than can be gross. These are the phrases I need to "hopefully" turn on my partner. It also explains how and why the phrase is effective. I definitely learn something sexy and dirty with this book. I would recommend it to anybody.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I bought this book because my husband works long hours, and by the time we get done working, have dinner, get the kids into bed, and clean up, we’re both exhausted. I thought introducing a little dirty talk into our day might keep us both excited enough that we could get around the exhausted parent part of our day, enough to become excited lovers again. When I first read the book, I thought “there is no way I’m going to be able to do this!” However, I gave it a chance, and started off exactly how the author suggests. I was thrilled with the results, and so was my husband. It was definitely a great book for us, and I’m happy to say that I manage to whisper a few sweet nothings into my husband’s ear before he leaves for work, and it keeps him anticipating our evenings together much more than he did in the past!
neilmignol More than 1 year ago
I would do just about anything to get my partner to be wild in bed or just to make love making more fun. I got this book recently and I was amazed by the content of this book. It has help me to develop my sex life in so many different ways, I can see the changes and I'm actually loving it. If you are shy in bed, or you want to be more attractive when around your lover, This book will help you to release your inner thoughts. Just by following the simple phrases that are easy to use, it will help to put you on the right track in releasing your inner thoughts.
crystalclearJH More than 1 year ago
I thought parts of the book were hot and others were very tame and romantic. Things like your hair smells good or I like the way your skin feels. Some things in the book I would not feel comfortable saying but practice makes perfect! It is a good book I would recommend to everyone who wants some spice in the relationship!
rwinner52 More than 1 year ago
I got this book because it was recommended to me by a friend. I want to talk dirty to my wife but I never know what to say. This book not only offered so many wonderful things to say but it explained a lot of the phrases too so you know the reasons behind them and how to say them in a correct way. It lists the sayings based on the best times to use them such as during foreplay or during orgasm. Reading this book gave me many new ideas and lots of new things I can say to turn on my wife. It's not just for men there are lots of great things for women too. I highly recommend sharing it with your partner. This is a book I will refer to many many times.
margaretdaniels More than 1 year ago
The best message this book brings is that it's not only OK to verbalize about sex, the words will add to the pleasure. The advice for both men and women also makes it more appealing. Too many relationships never develop the depth that talking about fantasies and desires will bring. Doing things that are a little out of the comfort zone allows couples to demonstrate how committed they are to each other and have fun doing it. Communication is key and in sex it is crucial.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I wanted to do something out of my comfort zone to show my partner how committed I am to this relationship. I was always shy away from dirty talks but after reading this book, I can confidently do it. At first it felt silly but with practice now it comes out naturally. The examples in this book are easy to remember and apply. I liked that they are categorized in different situations. It definitely spices things up in our bedroom!
crystalwhittingham More than 1 year ago
Some people might see this book and think 'who needs a book for something so simple?' but the fact is some people just aren't good at talking dirty.This book is perfect for those that are not good at talking dirty because it starts by explaining why this taboo subject is not as "dirty" as people think and explains why talking dirty is good for setting the mood and spicing things up. It also provides 131 dirty talk phrases so you don't have to worry about saying something awkward if you don't know what to say. Even if you're not new to dirty talk the 131 examples can give you some new ideas so that you're not constantly using the same lines.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
If I could rate this a zero or a minus number I would. Completely disappointed with the limited range of the examples. It seems as if the author listened to the sound track of a couple of adult films and copied down what the actors said.  Here's a few examples: "I love it when you do that", "Make me" "Touch me there"  - seriously? None of these examples were helpful. If you've been in an intimate relationship for more than a month, you've said all the examples, trust me.  Nothing in this "book" about how to get over your inhibitions, how to build the erotic drama, how to talk with your partner about your or their fantasies except, "Tell me your fantasy, in detail" . You'll be better off paying a bit more cash for an actual book written with some guidance, skip this one.