31 Days to a Happy Husband: What a Man Needs Most from His Wife

by Arlene Pellicane

Overview

What does a man need most from his wife? Arlene Pellicane, author of 31 Days to a Younger You, asked numerous husbands that question. Based on their answers, Pellicane identified five keys that will give wives a new appreciation and understanding of how to love and care for their mates.

• Domestic tranquility—A husband needs a peaceful haven.
• Respect—A husband needs to be honored in his home.
• Eros—A husband needs a fulfilling sex life.
• Attraction—A husband needs to be attracted to his wife.
• Mutual activities—A husband needs to have fun with his wife.

Along with identifying a husband’s needs, Pellicane provides practical instruction to motivate and equip wives to show their husbands the care and affection they long for. Every day a wife is either building her husband up or tearing him down. This book offers wives a 31-day, no holding back, life-changing building program for their marriages.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9780736946322
Publisher:	Harvest House Publishers
Publication date:	08/01/2012
Series:	Faith Thomas Series
Pages:	208
Product dimensions:	5.50(w) x 8.50(h) x 0.46(d)

About the Author

Arlene Pellicane is an author and speaker who formerly served as the associate producer for Turning Point Television with Dr. David Jeremiah. Arlene and her family make their home in southern California.

Table of Contents

Introduction: Are You Still Dreaming? 9

Marriage Quiz: Do You Have a Happy Husband? 15

Guide 1 Domestic Tranquility

Day 1 From Chaos to Calm 19

Day 2 Super Daddy 25

Day 3 Take a Number 31

Day 4 Money Talks 37

Day 5 Working Blues 41

Guide 2 Respect

Day 6 Alpha Dog 47

Day 7 Big Hunk 51

Day 8 Don't Go Changing 55

Day 9 20,000 Words 59

Day 10 Brew It 63

Day 11 Cue the Knight 69

Guide 3 Eros

Day 12 Numero Uno 77

Day 13 Free to Be Me 81

Day 14 Garlic Killed My Love Life 85

Day 15 Clear and Present Danger 89

Day 16 Stranger in the Night 95

Day 17 From Sunday School to the Locker Room 99

Day 18 Process Not Perfection 105

Day 19 Snuggle Power 109

Guide 4 Attraction

Day 20 Chocolate Anyone? 117

Day 21 Extreme Home Makeover 123

Day 22 I Still Do 127

Day 23 Happy Wife, Happy Life 131

Day 24 No Drama Divas Here 135

Day 25 Timeless Beauty 141

Day 26 Lovers' Lane to the Empty Nest 145

Guide 5 Mutual Activities

Day 27 Date Night 153

Day 28 He Time, She Time 159

Day 29 It's Supposed to Be Fun 163

Day 30 Unstuck 167

Day 31 To the Eiffel Tower 171

Conclusion: Now Let's Talk About Me 175

Daily Affirmations of the Happy Wife 179

Notes 181

The Wives of Happy Husbands Club Discussion Guide 185

Acknowledgments 193

What People are Saying About This

From the Publisher

“31 Days to a Happy Husband gives every wife the tools she needs to have a joyful home. You’ll learn how to set biblical priorities that may save your marriage or change the dynamic of your relationship from good to great. Arlene shares her own experiences along with expert advice from many happy husbands to help you have a happy husband yourself!”
—Beverly LaHaye, founder, Concerned Women for America and bestselling author of The Act of Marriage

“We believe in the great advice in 31 Days to a Happy Husband because we know Arlene and her husband, James—and he is happy! Arlene is always practical and personal, so this book is likely to make your husband very happy you bought it.”
—Pam and Bill Farrel, authors of over 35 books, including 52 Ways to Wow Your Husband, Red-Hot Monogamy, and best-selling Men Are Like Waffles—Women Are Like Spaghetti

“Arlene Pellicane knows exactly what a husband needs. 31 Days to a Happy Husband is a delightful, entertaining, and intensely practical roadmap to your husband’s heart. The day it is released, I’m putting it in my wife’s hands!”
—Dr. David Clarke, marriage seminar speaker and author of Kiss Me Like You Mean It and I Don’t Love You Anymore

“As a woman who has been married for 40 years (obviously a very young bride), I plan to have just as much fun, if not more, in the next 40. 31 Days to a Happy Husband is going to help make that happen. I thank you, Arlene, and so does my hubby, John!”
—Kendra Smiley, speaker and author of best-selling Journey of a Strong-Willed Child (coauthored with her happy husband)

“When it comes to loving our husbands, most of us need more than a pep talk—we need a coach who understands where we’re coming from and how to get us to that sweet God-spot in our relationship. Well, meet Coach Arlene. She’s been there, done that in her marriage and will give you not just the steps but the motivation to take your marriage from roommates to making room for the most important man in your life.”
—Kathi Lipp, national speaker and author of The Husband Project

“Here’s fresh help and hope from popular author and speaker Arlene Pellicane. You’ll find wisdom that works and new ideas that challenge you to stretch and grow. Arlene points the way to a happier, healthier marriage relationship—starting from right where you are today. An excellent, well-organized resource for wives!”
—Dr. David Frisbie, executive director, The Center for Marriage and Family Studies, Del Mar, California

“Wives ask us all the time, ‘How can I encourage my husband to grow and change? How can I help him become the man God calls him to be?’ As Arlene wisely reminds us here, the answer is not more nagging or more begging. Instead, we can use our God-given role as wives to support, nurture, and respect our husbands—watching as God works through our open and available hearts. I am glad to recommend Arlene’s new books to wives of all ages!”
—Lisa Frisbie, author of Becoming Your Husband’s Best Friend

“Sound, practical wisdom for any wife who wants to bless her husband and be the wife God has called her to be.”
—Bob Lepine, cohost,FamilyLife Today

“What a delightful book! With her touching stories, biblical insights, and practical helps, Arlene Pellicane walks you through a fun yet meaningful adventure of investing in your husband’s happiness and ultimately, yours. Enjoy the read, as well as the rewards!”
—Cindi McMenamin, author of When a Woman Inspires Her Husband and When Couples Walk Together

“If you’re going to talk about a happy husband—and a happy wife—you have to talk about a mutually fulfilling sex life. Arlene’s book helps you identify roadblocks to intimacy while discovering true passion. No doubt you will benefit from this 31-day journey to greater joy inside and outside the bedroom.”
—Dr. Clifford and Joyce Penner, authors of The Gift of Sex

“A meaningful read for any wife who wants to get closer to her husband.”
—David Jeremiah, bestselling author, pastor, and founder of Turning Point Ministries

“Arlene is so great at making her reading material relatable to all women. I loved 31 Days to A Happy Husband. I followed all 31 days and seen great results with me and my husband. All of her suggestions were reasonable and I love the spiritual aspect, which sets Arlene’s book apart. I am happy, my husband is happy and that makes a happy home. I have highly recommended this insightful book to all my girlfriends.”
—Alisha Hickey

Editorial Reviews

31 Days to a Happy Husband gives every wife the tools she needs to have a joyful home. You’ll learn how to set biblical priorities that may save your marriage or change the dynamic of your relationship from good to great. Arlene shares her own experiences along with expert advice from many happy husbands to help you have a happy husband yourself!”
—Beverly LaHaye, founder, Concerned Women for America and bestselling author of The Act of Marriage

“We believe in the great advice in 31 Days to a Happy Husband because we know Arlene and her husband, James—and he is happy! Arlene is always practical and personal, so this book is likely to make your husband very happy you bought it.”
—Pam and Bill Farrel, authors of over 35 books, including 52 Ways to Wow Your Husband, Red-Hot Monogamy, and best-selling Men Are Like Waffles—Women Are Like Spaghetti

“Arlene Pellicane knows exactly what a husband needs. 31 Days to a Happy Husband is a delightful, entertaining, and intensely practical roadmap to your husband’s heart. The day it is released, I’m putting it in my wife’s hands!”
—Dr. David Clarke, marriage seminar speaker and author of Kiss Me Like You Mean It and I Don’t Love You Anymore

“As a woman who has been married for 40 years (obviously a very young bride), I plan to have just as much fun, if not more, in the next 40. 31 Days to a Happy Husband is going to help make that happen. I thank you, Arlene, and so does my hubby, John!”
—Kendra Smiley, speaker and author of best-selling Journey of a Strong-Willed Child (coauthored with her happy husband)

“When it comes to loving our husbands, most of us need more than a pep talk—we need a coach who understands where we’re coming from and how to get us to that sweet God-spot in our relationship. Well, meet Coach Arlene. She’s been there, done that in her marriage and will give you not just the steps but the motivation to take your marriage from roommates to making room for the most important man in your life.”
—Kathi Lipp, national speaker and author of The Husband Project

“Here’s fresh help and hope from popular author and speaker Arlene Pellicane. You’ll find wisdom that works and new ideas that challenge you to stretch and grow. Arlene points the way to a happier, healthier marriage relationship—starting from right where you are today. An excellent, well-organized resource for wives!”
—Dr. David Frisbie, executive director, The Center for Marriage and Family Studies, Del Mar, California

“Wives ask us all the time, ‘How can I encourage my husband to grow and change? How can I help him become the man God calls him to be?’ As Arlene wisely reminds us here, the answer is not more nagging or more begging. Instead, we can use our God-given role as wives to support, nurture, and respect our husbands—watching as God works through our open and available hearts. I am glad to recommend Arlene’s new books to wives of all ages!”
—Lisa Frisbie, author of Becoming Your Husband’s Best Friend

“Sound, practical wisdom for any wife who wants to bless her husband and be the wife God has called her to be.”
—Bob Lepine, cohost,FamilyLife Today

From the Publisher