Table of Contents
Introduction 9
Part 1 Enneagram Basics
What is the enneagram? 12
What are the nine enneagram types? 14
Stress type and security type 18
Wings 19
Using the enneagram for empowerment 20
How to find your enneagram type 23
Quiz: What's your type? 24
Getting to know the enneagram types 27
Type 1 The Visionary 28
Type 2 The Connector 32
Type 3 The Luminary 36
Type 4 The Artist 40
Type 5 The Philosopher 44
Type 6 The Advocate 48
Type 7 The Explorer 52
Type 8 The Warrior 56
Type 9 The Diplomat 60
Part 2 The Enneagram and Self-Empowerment
Start with self-compassion 66
Respond mindfully to stress 68
Live out your strengths 70
Empowered thinking 74
Negative thinking traps 76
Empowered thinking by type 78
Live by your values 88
Common core values 92
Self-care for each type 94
Part 3 The Enneagram and Relational Empowerment
Relationship empowerment 106
The three subtypes 108
Subtypes and relationships 112
The three stances 116
What are boundaries? 118
What can you control? 120
The compliant stance 122
The withdrawn stance 124
The assertive stance 126
Setting healthy boundaries 128
The three centers of wisdom 132
Head, heart, and body 134
Centers of wisdom and relationships 136
References 140
Index 141
Acknowledgments 144
About the Author 144