Naked at the Helm: Independence and Intimacy in the Second Half of Life
At age thirty-nine, Suzanne Spector found herself looking at what conventional 1950s thinking had brought her. Yes, she was a wife, mother of three, and successful school director. But she was also neglected in a sexless marriage, and feeling and as if the passion and juice of life had passed her by.

She began with two questions: Who am I, really? and Is it too late?

After divorcing her husband, Suzanne set out to discover who she was as an independent woman with curiosity, questions, and lust for life. Tracing more than four decades of self-discovery and intellectual, spiritual, and creative exploration, Naked at The Helm is Spector’s story of becoming the captain of her own ship in midlife. Her adventurous journey led her from a nude beach on Ibiza at forty-one to a Siberian banya at fifty-five to a hot love affair at eighty. Her intellectual quest, meanwhile, led to a second career as director of a world-renowned psychology center, while deep friendships with women, including her daughters, sustained and nourished her through decades of global travel.

These probably would not be the tales your mother or grandmother would tell about her life, but this eighty-six-year old’s ebullient memoir of the second half of her life will move you to weave some rich new yarns into the tapestry of your own story. And no, it’s not too late.
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Naked at the Helm: Independence and Intimacy in the Second Half of Life
At age thirty-nine, Suzanne Spector found herself looking at what conventional 1950s thinking had brought her. Yes, she was a wife, mother of three, and successful school director. But she was also neglected in a sexless marriage, and feeling and as if the passion and juice of life had passed her by.

She began with two questions: Who am I, really? and Is it too late?

After divorcing her husband, Suzanne set out to discover who she was as an independent woman with curiosity, questions, and lust for life. Tracing more than four decades of self-discovery and intellectual, spiritual, and creative exploration, Naked at The Helm is Spector’s story of becoming the captain of her own ship in midlife. Her adventurous journey led her from a nude beach on Ibiza at forty-one to a Siberian banya at fifty-five to a hot love affair at eighty. Her intellectual quest, meanwhile, led to a second career as director of a world-renowned psychology center, while deep friendships with women, including her daughters, sustained and nourished her through decades of global travel.

These probably would not be the tales your mother or grandmother would tell about her life, but this eighty-six-year old’s ebullient memoir of the second half of her life will move you to weave some rich new yarns into the tapestry of your own story. And no, it’s not too late.
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Naked at the Helm: Independence and Intimacy in the Second Half of Life

Naked at the Helm: Independence and Intimacy in the Second Half of Life

by Suzanne Spector
Naked at the Helm: Independence and Intimacy in the Second Half of Life

Naked at the Helm: Independence and Intimacy in the Second Half of Life

by Suzanne Spector

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Overview

At age thirty-nine, Suzanne Spector found herself looking at what conventional 1950s thinking had brought her. Yes, she was a wife, mother of three, and successful school director. But she was also neglected in a sexless marriage, and feeling and as if the passion and juice of life had passed her by.

She began with two questions: Who am I, really? and Is it too late?

After divorcing her husband, Suzanne set out to discover who she was as an independent woman with curiosity, questions, and lust for life. Tracing more than four decades of self-discovery and intellectual, spiritual, and creative exploration, Naked at The Helm is Spector’s story of becoming the captain of her own ship in midlife. Her adventurous journey led her from a nude beach on Ibiza at forty-one to a Siberian banya at fifty-five to a hot love affair at eighty. Her intellectual quest, meanwhile, led to a second career as director of a world-renowned psychology center, while deep friendships with women, including her daughters, sustained and nourished her through decades of global travel.

These probably would not be the tales your mother or grandmother would tell about her life, but this eighty-six-year old’s ebullient memoir of the second half of her life will move you to weave some rich new yarns into the tapestry of your own story. And no, it’s not too late.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781647420857
Publisher: She Writes Press
Publication date: 08/09/2022
Pages: 280
Product dimensions: 5.50(w) x 8.50(h) x (d)

About the Author

Suzanne Spector is a graduate of Barnard College and holds a master’s degree from the Columbia University School of Social Work. She was Coordinator of the American Montessori Teacher Training Program, then founded and directed The Center for Open Education, an innovative school, before becoming the Director of the Center for Studies of the Person. At age fifty-six, she earned her PhD from The Union Institute. At age seventy-seven, she began to write. Her essays My Path to CSP and A Deeper Listening were published in the anthology A Place to Be: CSP at Fifty (2017) . Her short story Dancing Heart Emoji won the 2019 SDMWA Memoir Showcase Award and was published in Shaking the Tree: Volume Three (2021). Naked at the Helm was accepted for publication by She Writes Press when Suzanne was eighty-five years old. She lives in San Diego, CA.

Table of Contents

Part I My 40s: Stripping

The Couch Crunch 3

Opa 8

Second Adolescence 16

Hello, World 23

Playmate 33

Leaving Home 37

Cracking the Shell 42

Starting Over 53

Motorcycle Mama 58

Zigzag 65

Part II My 50s: Shining

Destiny Calls 77

Mirror, Mirror 80

Lights On 85

Getting Perspective 88

Buon Giorno 92

Setting the Tone 98

Travel Buddy 104

My Way 109

Life Calling, Again 114

The Pinnacle 123

Part III My 60s, Exploring

Stripping Again 135

Summer Embrace 138

Woman with a Capital W 149

On the Edge 153

Deer Dancing 156

Best Male Friend 162

Changing of the Guard 169

Stretching Myself 183

Part IV My 705: Being

Jumping In 189

Art and Soul 195

Best Friend Still 213

Full Circle 220

The Organ Recital 229

New Passion 240

Part V My 80s: Celebrating

Surprise! Surprise! 249

Taking A Bow 256

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