Table of Contents
Foreword xi
Author's Note on Language xvii
A Note to the Reader xix
32 Other People's Opinion of My Parenting Is None of My Business 1
1 What's in a Diagnosis? 5
2 My To-Do List 19
3 Diet 29
4 ABA 39
5 Insurance 55
6 Medicines & Supplements 71
7 Grief 75
8 Dealing with Questions 83
9 Friends, Family & People You Want to Stick in a Cuisinart 87
10 Finances, Funding & Grants 93
11 Work 99
12 Love & Marriage 105
13 School & the Dreaded IEP 111
14 Therapists, Teachers & Other People Who Mean Well 119
15 Playdates with Neurotypical Moms 127
16 The Court of Public Opinion 133
17 To Disclose or Not to Disclose 137
18 Teenage Years 143
19 Self-Advocates 153
20 Cancer, Eviction, Fires & Floods 157
21 Gratitude & Farting Rainbows 163
22 Finding Your Niche 169
23 Giving Back 173
24 When You Can't Go On 175
25 Language & Functional Communication 179
26 R words: Retarded, Recovery, Remission, Resentment 185
27 Parting with Friends 191
28 Holidays 195
29 Social Skills 203
30 Taking Advice 207
31 The Cliff, Adulthood & Employment 209
32 Other People's Opinion of My Parenting Is None of My Business 217
A COVID Addendum 221
My Favorite Resources 225
Autism hive's 100 Things to Do with Your Kids 235
References 243