The Burden of Sympathy: How Families Cope with Mental Illness

The Burden of Sympathy: How Families Cope with Mental Illness

by David A. Karp
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Oxford University Press, USA
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The Burden of Sympathy: How Families Cope with Mental Illness

What are the limits of sympathy in dealing with another person's troubles? Where do we draw the line between caring for a loved one, and being swallowed up emotionally by the obligation to do so? Quite simply, what do we owe each other? In this vivid and thoughtful study, David Karp chronicles the experiences of the family members of the mentally ill, and how they draw "boundaries of sympathy" to avoid being engulfed by the day-to-day suffering of a loved one.
Working from sixty extensive interviews, the author reveals striking similarities in the experiences of caregivers: the feelings of shame, fear, guilt and powerlessness in the face of a socially stigmatized illness; the frustration of navigating the complex network of bureaucracies that govern the mental health system; and most of all, the difficulty negotiating an "appropriate" level of involvement with the mentally ill loved one while maintaining enough distance for personal health. Throughout the narratives, Karp sensitively explores the overarching question of how people strike an equilibrium between reason and emotion, between head and heart, when caring for a catastrophically ill person. The Burden of Sympathy concludes with a critical look at what it means to be a moral and caring person at the turn of the century in America, when powerful cultural messages spell out two contradictory imperatives: pursue personal fulfillment at any cost and care for the family at any cost.
An insightful, deeply caring look at mental illness and at the larger picture of contemporary values, The Burden of Sympathy is required reading for caregivers of all kinds, and for anyone seeking broader understanding of human responsibility in the postmodern world.

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ISBN-13: 9780195152449
Publisher: Oxford University Press, USA
Publication date: 05/28/2002
Pages: 340
Product dimensions: 7.80(w) x 5.10(h) x 1.00(d)
Lexile: 1310L (what's this?)

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Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Caregivers of the mentally ill are rarely understood or thought about,unless it is by others in the same boat. This book helps reveal the burdens of being a caregiver of someone with mental illness, the struggles they go through, and the sacrifices they make for those they love. Good reading for the caregiver, or to enlighten others who know people who are in this situation.