Table of Contents
Key Word Quick Reference 1
Introduction 7
Different People You Might Meet 9
The Everything Knower 9
The Self Guider 12
The Wise Leader 14
The Learner 16
The Worker 17
The Pretend Everything Knower, Pretend Self Guider, or Pretend Wise Leader 19
The Misguided Person 21
The Bad Guy 22
Playing With You 24
Helping You 26
Checkboxing Ways 28
How Many to Bother With Your Problems? 33
How Different People Handle Advantages and Disadvantages 39
Way 1: Use Their Advantage to Help the Group 40
Way 2: View People Who Do Not Have That Advantage as Less Than the People in Your Group 41
Way 3: See Your Advantage as Not a Real Advantage 43
Way 4: All at Once 43
Testing to See What Kind of Person They Are 44
Testing to See If Someone Is an Everything Knower 44
Testing to See If Someone Is a Self Guider 45
Testing to See If Someone Is a Wise Leader 48
Testing to See If Someone Is a Worker 51
Testing to See If Someone Is a Pretending Person 53
Testing to See If Someone Is a Misguided Person 53
Testing to See If Someone Is a Bad Guy 57
Getting Along With People 59
Reasons to Do or Not Do Something 59
Being Naturally Impelled 59
Being Impelled by Others 61
Being Limited 66
For-the-best Limits 69
Care Control Reasons 72
How a Learner Could Get Along With an Everything Knower 76
How a Learner Could Get Along With a Self Guider 77
How a Learner Could Get Along With a Wise Leader 78
How a Learner Could Get Along With Another Learner 80
Teasing 80
Ways of Deciding Who Gets What 84
Bothering 87
Threats and Conflict 88
How a Learner Could Get Along With a Worker 92
A Worker Who Cares for You 94
Workers Who Don’t Care for You 96
Trying Things Your Way 96
Trying to Make Workers Happy 99
How a Learner Can Get Along With a Pretending Person . 100
Pretending People and Rules 103
How Often to Give Pretending People Another Chance 104
Communicating With Pretending People Based on the Damage They Cause You 105
Can a Pretending Person Be Convinced to Try Other Ways? 107
When Caretakers Take Away Things You Really Need 109
Getting Along With Someone Who Is Nogentive 114
Pretending People’s Thoughts About You 118
Talking to Friends About Pretending People 119
How a Learner Could Get Along With a Misguided Person 120
How a Learner Could Get Along With a Bad Guy 123
How Other Types of People Get Along With and Communicate With Each Other 124
How to Get Along With a Worker If You Are a Worker 124
Pretending Person Getting Along With a Wise Leader 124
Pretending Person Getting Along With Another Pretending Person 125
To be a Wise Leader Who Gets Along With a Learner 125
How to Get Along With a Wise Leader If You Are a Wise Leader 128