Conquer Me: Girl-to-Girl Wisdom About Fulfilling Your Submissive Desires

by Kacie Cunningham

Overview

Submissive women have needs just like anybody else. But how can a woman get her needs met when she's relinquished her power to her dominant partner? With warmth, wisdom and a down-to-earth approach, experienced submissive Kacie Cunningham analyzes the realities of the dominant-submissive lifestyle and suggests ways in which both partners can experience the greatest possible growth and pleasure. At the heart of the book is an emotion Kacie has dubbed "Conquer Me" — which she defines as "the submissive's internal demand for a show of strength." Without a clear understanding of "conquer me," both submissive and dominant may find themselves at odds — either fighting unhappily, or watching the passion ebb from their relationship. This book explains this unique need and how to get it met — essential knowledge for any submissive or couple who wants to get the most out of their D/s lifestyle.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781890159764
Publisher:	Greenery Press
Publication date:	04/01/2010
Pages:	163
Product dimensions:	8.74(w) x 6.10(h) x 0.40(d)

About the Author

Kacie Cunningham had her first real experience with kink when she was 18 years old, and has spent the last decade searching out better and safer ways of doing it. Some of her favorite non-kinky things to do are read, sew, knit, and bake, and she spends much of her time writing, loving, and laughing. At the time of publication, she has been with her Master for four years, and they live in Indianapolis, with their two dogs and two fish. They hope to one day find the perfect submissive girl to add to their family, but they aren't looking. This is her first book.

Table of Contents

Foreword Jay Wiseman xi

Introduction xvii

Terms of Endearment 1

And This One Time, at Pancake Camp 4

Nature or Nurture: The Great Debate 9

Power to Choose 13

Opposite but Equal - The Paradox of D/S 16

Bare Necessities 20

First Intermission 24

Conquer Me 25

Dark Secrets and Dirty Sheets 30

Ball-gags, Earplugs and Other Communication Barriers 33

"Tomorrow" 41

Dousing the Flames 44

Catechism and Chain 51

Second Intermission 56

The Perfect Master (And Other Mythical Creatures) 57

Active Dominance - Lead from the Front 62

Active Submission - On Your Own Two Knees 67

Submission Is a Gift - All Tied Up With String 72

Lovekink Bank and Trust 76

And Now, It's Time for a Parable 82

Crystal Balls, Soap Bubbles and Acceptance 87

This Is a Job For Super-Subbie! 93

Pride, Fear and Taboos 97

Topping from the Bottom or Is It? 102

Up, Up and Away! 108

Third Intermission 114

The Myth about Surrender 116

You Show Me Yours, I'll Show You Mine: Negotiating Your Kink 123

Punishment and Discipline - Spare the Rod, Spoil the Sub 131

Abuse 137

24/7 - Fantasy vs. Reality 146

The Vanilla Masquerade 150

Getting Back On Track 154

Last Intermission 161

Dear Reader 162