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Daughters of Madness: Growing Up and Older with a Mentally Ill Mother
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Overview
While the stories of these daughters are central to the book, Nathiel also offers her professional insights into exactly how maternal impairment affects infants, children, and adolescents. Women, significantly more than men, are often diagnosed with serious mental illness after they become parents. So what effect does a mentally ill mother have on a growing child, teenager or adult daughter, who looks to her not only for the deepest and most abiding love, but also a sense of what the world is all about? Nathiel also makes accessible the latest research on interpersonal neurobiology, attachment, and the way a child's brain and mind develop in the contest of that relationship.
Product Details
ISBN-13: | 9780275990428 |
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Publisher: | Bloomsbury Academic |
Publication date: | 03/30/2007 |
Series: | Women's Psychology |
Edition description: | New Edition |
Pages: | 224 |
Product dimensions: | 6.40(w) x 9.55(h) x 0.75(d) |
About the Author
Table of Contents
Foreword xi
Acknowledgments xiii
Introduction xv
Mother's Role in Our "Self" Development 1
The Research: Bonds and Brains 7
Early Childhood 19
Something's Wrong with Mom 23
What's Real? 24
Am I Bad? 27
When Mom Is Mean, or Just Doesn't Care 29
Why Doesn't Anybody Help? 30
Keeping Secrets 32
Making the Best of Things 33
Middle Childhood 37
Mom at Home 38
Mom and Me 46
Explanations 51
Who Am I? 56
Mom Goes to the Hospital 60
Mom in Public 64
Daughters Go out into the World 66
Keeping Family Secrets 68
Fathers and Siblings 72
Suicide Threats and More 76
Resilience 78
Adolescence 81
Mom at Home 82
Mom in Public 89
Psychiatric Treatment and Hospitals 91
What to Think? What to Feel? 99
Rites of Passage 101
Fathers andSiblings 103
Shame and Secrets 106
Psychological Fallout 109
Early Exits 113
Resilience 114
Young Adulthood 119
Going out into the World 120
Staying Connected with Home 124
Mom in the Hospital 126
Beginning Her Own Family 132
Fallout and Resilience 134
Adulthood 139
Mothers' Lives, Continued 140
Getting Along, or Not 142
Elderly Mothers 147
Mothers as Grandmothers 149
Hospitals and Psychiatric Treatment 150
More Fallout 153
Fallout for Siblings 157
Reflections 159
Reflections about Fathers 162
Afterthoughts 167
Some Final Reflections on Mothers' Lives 167
The Best and Worst of Being a "Daughter of Madness" 170
What Do We Need to Learn? 175
Short Biographies of Women Interviewed 181
Notes 187
Index 191
About the Series Editor and Advisers 195
What People are Saying About This
Victoria Secunda
"This is the most thoughtful, well-researched, and deeply moving book I have ever read on the effect upon daughters of mentally ill mothers. Susan Nathiel has an uncommon understanding of children's pre-verbal mental development and the degree to which a mother's emotional absence, unpredictability, or frightening behavior can permanently shape a daughter's world view. Written with extraordinary]gracefulness and balance, Daughters of Madness will be of immeasurable comfort to families of the mentally ill, and should be required reading for every student of psychology, general medicine, and law."
Victoria Secunda, author, When Madness Comes Home and When You And Your Mother Can't Be Friends
"This is the most thoughtful, well-researched, and deeply moving book I have ever read on the effect upon daughters of mentally ill mothers. Susan Nathiel has an uncommon understanding of children's pre-verbal mental development and the degree to which a mother's emotional absence, unpredictability, or frightening behavior can permanently shape a daughter's world view. Written with extraordinary]gracefulness and balance, Daughters of Madness will be of immeasurable comfort to families of the mentally ill, and should be required reading for every student of psychology, general medicine, and law."
Joan Hedrick
"This book will do an immense service for families with mentally ill parents. Beautifully organized and framed by Nathiel's compassionate analysis and guidance for change, these compelling stories of daughters whose childhood sense of self was disrupted by the mental illness of their mothers make it clear how mental illness is a family disease. The daughters' struggles are moving, painful and yet ultimately hopeful. This book will go a long way toward changing our attitudes toward mental illness in women with children."
Joan Hedrick, Author of the Pulitzer Prize-winning Harriet Beecher Stowe: A Life, Charles P. Dana Professor of History, Trinity College
"This book will do an immense service for families with mentally ill parents. Beautifully organized and framed by Nathiel's compassionate analysis and guidance for change, these compelling stories of daughters whose childhood sense of self was disrupted by the mental illness of their mothers make it clear how mental illness is a family disease. The daughters' struggles are moving, painful and yet ultimately hopeful. This book will go a long way toward changing our attitudes toward mental illness in women with children."