Finding Kansas is a memoir like no other, written by an unlikely author who at first never dreamed he would find even one reader. When he was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome at age 20, Aaron Likens began to collect his thoughts and experiences on paper-the highs, the lows, the challenges, and the unexpected joys. What he found was hope -- not only for himself, but also for others with Asperger's. Now a sought-after speaker and blogger, he is passionate about sharing his insights into this often misunderstood condition.
Aaron has another passion, too: the world of auto racing. A successful flag man at racing events across the country, Aaron calls racing his Kansas-a place where he feels safe, confident, and normal. For others on the autism spectrum, Kansas might be trains, history, or the weather. It is here where, like Aaron, they find freedom, and the possibility for growth and change
Finding Kansas brings us into Aaron's world and, in the process, offers a richly observed, deeply thoughtful, and sometimes painful picture of what it's like to live on the autism spectrum.
|Publisher:||Penguin Publishing Group|
|Product dimensions:||5.50(w) x 8.20(h) x 0.90(d)|
|Age Range:||18 Years|
About the Author
Table of Contents
Foreword Mark A. Cameron, Ph.D., MA xiii
A Few Words About My Son xvii
The Best Day 1
Game Theory 31
Las Vegas 87
Film Theory 98
The Darkroom 104
What Does It Mean... 110
Small Things 118
A Friend Gone 124
Finding Kansas: The Situational Handicap 135
What Has Become...? 146
Fear Versus Fear 149
Crippled in Addiction 156
The Hazards of "Firsts" 167
Media and "Firsts" 171
One Thousand Outcomes 177
The Conscious Coma 180
Invisible Reminders 183
Tomorrow Is an Eternity Away 191
If I Were Dying of Thirst... Would I Ask for a Glass of Water? 194
The Limit of "Coulds" 198
Asperger's Geometry 200
The Fourth Wall 203
In the End 210
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
We went to a two week study program for parents and children. His video we watched was so eye opening and several symptoms, though the same for us was done for completely different reasons and had different causes. His expereiences coupled with Temple Grandin's and her broad spectrum of knowledge and assisstance was most helpful in dealing with my grandson. I appreciate them greatly!
As an educator it was fascinating feeling through the author.
Aaron Likens has done remarkable things but first he started out as a seriously annoying disruptive kid. He hated school; most kids do, but Aaron HATED school. He was bored, mostly, but also not functioning on the same level as his peers. By the time he was six, Aaron couldn’t play monopoly with his dad because he always won. Always. Taken to counseling he was compared to….wait for it…..the Unabomber or possibly a serial killer. Thankfully that didn’t happen because we would have missed out the wonderful various of life that Aaron gives us in FINDING KANSAS. Aaron has autism in the form as Asperger’s Syndrome. “Asperger's syndrome, also called Asperger's disorder, is a type of pervasive development disorder (PDD). PDDs are a group of conditions that involve delays in the development of many basic skills, most notably the ability to socialize with others, to communicate, and to use imagination.” Thank you Wiki! He wasn’t diagnosed until he was in his early twenties and his father did us all a favor by getting him a journal and encouraging him to write down his thoughts. They make up this book. Usually I don’t do short stories but this isn’t – it’s a compilation of thoughts, reminiscing girls, jobs, Life and auto racing. You soon learn that auto racing IS Kansas. A place of joy and comfort where Aaron is completely in control and where he excels. Aaron loves racing like most of us loves our kids; and that is also part of the Asperger’s: he can remember events down to the last drop of water but he cannot remember the people he was with. Racing is when he feels he is meant to be. Too bad the Powers That Be don’t agree. A great story written by an amazing individual. A Must Read for those with Aspergers in the families and a Must Read for all the rest of us because it will completely change your frame of reference.
I just attended a presentation by the author last night and sat simply amazed. The hour and a half flew by and honestly, I could have sat listening to him for the entire night. A wonderful speaker. My daughter is 14 and has Asperger's Syndrome. It was so enlightening to listen to him explain what goes on in his head and how he responds to certain situations. Makes me rethink how I approach issues my daughter has. I bought this book from him last night and expect to read it over and over. If you have someone in your family on the Autism Spectrum, this book is a must have and will take a prominent place in your library.
This is THE book to get concerning autism.
I bought a copy of this book from the author two weeks ago, and quite frankly I was amazed. I have a nephew with Asperger's Syndrome and I always thought that my brother and his wife were bad parents. Man, have I been a stupid uncle.
This young man's book has helped me understand the depth of this disorder. It's one thing to read about the symptoms. It's another thing to have someone open their life so I could fully understand how painful it is to be on the outside of the world and want in so badly.
"Finding Kansas" should be on the "A" list for every teacher, therapist, pastor, doctor, parent, relative, or friend of anyone with Asperger's.
I can't wait to see if Mr. Likens will become part of the speakers available for conference because I'm going to show up.