First You Then Him: A Former Trainwreck's Guide to Becoming Then Finding A Healthy Partner
Learn how to create your own happiness. I'm talking about becoming a happy girl in love with life, proud of who you are and what you are becoming-with or without a man.

Wish you had a big sister to take you by the hand and explain with brutal, loving honesty why things aren't working in your life?

After two decades of making all the wrong decisions with life and men, Ninya has learned valuable lessons about both.

First You: The first half of the book will inspire your journey toward self-worth and happiness. Bite-sized lessons infused with humor and the occasional swear word, end with an important takeaway question that will have you on the path to discovering yourself in no time.

Then Him: The second half of the book is about finding him, a healthy partner to share your awesomeness with, someone who is completely compatible with the real you. Short chapters with takeaway questions will help you crush your insecurities, finally recognize what a healthy relationship looks like, and step into the partnership you deserve.

This is your chance to become a kick-ass, solid, strong woman who stands on her own two feet with all the tools you need to add the perfect partner to your life.

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First You Then Him: A Former Trainwreck's Guide to Becoming Then Finding A Healthy Partner
Learn how to create your own happiness. I'm talking about becoming a happy girl in love with life, proud of who you are and what you are becoming-with or without a man.

Wish you had a big sister to take you by the hand and explain with brutal, loving honesty why things aren't working in your life?

After two decades of making all the wrong decisions with life and men, Ninya has learned valuable lessons about both.

First You: The first half of the book will inspire your journey toward self-worth and happiness. Bite-sized lessons infused with humor and the occasional swear word, end with an important takeaway question that will have you on the path to discovering yourself in no time.

Then Him: The second half of the book is about finding him, a healthy partner to share your awesomeness with, someone who is completely compatible with the real you. Short chapters with takeaway questions will help you crush your insecurities, finally recognize what a healthy relationship looks like, and step into the partnership you deserve.

This is your chance to become a kick-ass, solid, strong woman who stands on her own two feet with all the tools you need to add the perfect partner to your life.

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First You Then Him: A Former Trainwreck's Guide to Becoming Then Finding A Healthy Partner

First You Then Him: A Former Trainwreck's Guide to Becoming Then Finding A Healthy Partner

by Ninya
First You Then Him: A Former Trainwreck's Guide to Becoming Then Finding A Healthy Partner

First You Then Him: A Former Trainwreck's Guide to Becoming Then Finding A Healthy Partner

by Ninya

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Overview

Learn how to create your own happiness. I'm talking about becoming a happy girl in love with life, proud of who you are and what you are becoming-with or without a man.

Wish you had a big sister to take you by the hand and explain with brutal, loving honesty why things aren't working in your life?

After two decades of making all the wrong decisions with life and men, Ninya has learned valuable lessons about both.

First You: The first half of the book will inspire your journey toward self-worth and happiness. Bite-sized lessons infused with humor and the occasional swear word, end with an important takeaway question that will have you on the path to discovering yourself in no time.

Then Him: The second half of the book is about finding him, a healthy partner to share your awesomeness with, someone who is completely compatible with the real you. Short chapters with takeaway questions will help you crush your insecurities, finally recognize what a healthy relationship looks like, and step into the partnership you deserve.

This is your chance to become a kick-ass, solid, strong woman who stands on her own two feet with all the tools you need to add the perfect partner to your life.


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781734546460
Publisher: Ninya
Publication date: 10/15/2020
Pages: 316
Product dimensions: 5.00(w) x 8.00(h) x 0.71(d)

About the Author

I've always been a risk-taker, so at 44 I decided to follow my dream, leave everything behind and become an author. It has been a roller coaster ride with a punishing learning curve, but if it were easy, everyone would do it. I love to travel and a trip to Scotland with a complete stranger was the inspiration for my memoir. I also seem to attract crazy experiences and people into my life like a magnet that gives me a never-ending supply of interesting storylines. My writing is fast-paced on purpose because as a reader I hate pages and pages of description. I've been known to throw books across the room and yell out, Come on already, get to the good stuff! If you love a good dirty joke, a cup of coffee so strong you can chew it, and have killed more cats with your curiosity than you can count, I might be your soulmate. My current projects include Velvet Guild, Scotland with a Stranger: A Memoir, AnaStasia, and First You Then Him: A Former Trainwreck's Guide to Becoming then Finding a Healthy Partner. Visit me online www.shop.ninya.us

Table of Contents

First You

What do I know?

How to Use this Book

Who Are You?

Fear of Authenticity

Where's the Self Love, Sista?

Self Abuse

A Penny for Your Thoughts? Should be at Least a Dollar

The Lessons You Need to Learn

The Most Important Renovation Project

Be A Finisher

Well-Rounded

Your Intuition Knows. LISTEN

Get in the Flow

Unlucky

Codependent Much?

The Codependent's Cupboard

Boundaries

Energy Vampires

Dead Inside

Empaths Beware

Fear or Love

Decision Spinning

The Waiting Place

People Don't Change, But You Can

Who Gives A Shit What Other People Think?

Your Anxiety is a Liar

Survivor

Overthinking & Overreacting: No Fun for Anyone

Micromanaging Kills Brain Cells

The Twenty-Four-Hour Wallow Rule

Drop a Plate

Sleeping, Eye Twitches, and Pain, Oh My!

Alignment and Adjustments

Procrapination: The Subtle Art of Never Reaching your Dreams

You Can't Make Everyone Happy

Creation Builds Worlds Or Destroys Them

The Dream

You're Never Going to Be Done

Don't Cheat

Then Him

Safety First and Getting Back in the Dating Pool

Relationship Addiction

Just No! And Abusers

Love is...

You Are the Problem, But You Are Also The Solution

Daddy Issues

Heal? What Do You Know?

Why Being a Chameleon Does Not Serve You

Games Are For Children and Parties

The Myth of the One that Got Away

The Drama Mama

The Poop Suitcase

Get Out of Your Head

Bad Boys are Bad for a Reason

Don't be a Chaser

Don't Go All In Until He Does

Fast and Furious

He's Never Gonna Change

If Everyone is a Narcissist, You're Not Ready

Fixer-Uppers

Care Take Overs

What Red Flags?

Your (Girl)Friends Know

But We've Been Together for Years... The Lie of Time

Know When to Fold 'Em

Clean Breaks

Healthy Needs

Partnerships

Hold My Hand While I Fix Myself

Are You a Flower or A Gardener?

Zodiac Signs, Love Languages, and Myers Briggs Personality Test

The List

Let's Talk About Sex, Baby

It's Just Money, Honey!

Kids: The Cutest Baggage Out There

The Venn Diagram of Us

It's Impossible to Fuck Up the Right Thing

He is Not Your Everything

You've Made it to the Final Question

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