Table of Contents
19 Introduction
21 Kri Kra, Kri Kra
25 Holding Space
28 From Theory to Lived Story
33 Foundation
35 Ma Po Clearing the Space
38 The Path Between My Mother and Me
43 The Quiet Path of My Second Mother
47 Love-Working the Space
51 Singing the Space
55 Holding the Space in Spite Of
59 Bouncing Down the Path
63 Beginning
65 About the "D" word
70 The Other "D" Word
79 Positions We Cannot Escape
85 Consumption Junction
91 To Be or Not to Be Sustainability
99 Appropriation as Colonization
107 To Speak the Unspoken
112 About Community and Support
117 Seven Directions
127 Middle
129 Tokenism Stepping Stone
135 Fortress of Information
143 Power Language
150 "Gezelligheid"
159 Insidious Domesticity
167 Power of Silence
173 Gentrimiwah?
181 Validation
191 End
193 Aho Metakuye Oyasin
197 Safe Enough to Be Brave
203 Care
209 Courage
216 Humility
225 Listening and Connecting
232 Speaking
240 Seeing
245 Embodiment
251 Environment
256 Patience
263 Neutral
268 Cracking
274 Transforming
279 Allyship
285 The Assist
291 Honoring and Celebrating
296 Ceremony
301 Holding Space
305 Index
313 Sources of inspiration
323 Image credits