The topic of marriage is challenging with itself, but when you add the
element of cheating and you create a powder keg of emotions that can
be expressed by every individual experience. Some arguments are
based in reality while others take on a life of their own. Just like the
rational and irrational person connected to the comment that is being
articulated. Then you have to consider if the interested party has ever
been in a serious committed relationship even similar or on the same
level as the legally binding contract of marital matrimony. At which
point the aspect of cheating must be applied as a term and condition
included into the conversation that is being debated. I have never
been married but I have been in situations that could have led to
the engagement process but because my level of trust in the other
partner was not sufficient to move forward in the procedure. I feel
as if I could interject my opinion in the discussion otherwise I
would have not even considered writing a book on this subject
matter. It would have been silly of me unless I was a comedian
or an ill-informed jester who is only interested in listening to the
sound of my own voice. I am not clown or an investigative news
reporter who thinks less of fact checking their source of information
for flaws or inaccurate statistics. Relations and infidelity are issues
that I am familiar with and I talk about frequently because they are
very relevant and prevalent in American culture and around the
globe. Now let's tackle the last portion of the equation. Cheating
in itself is an act of deception. Most women are more troubled
with the man that they love and care about lying to them than the
physical act of intimacy. And most men are usually more upset
that their lover chose a man of convenience who is usually a loser
in everyday life that has nothing going for him. A broke bum is
his replacement in so many cases. And when he finds out his anger
burns hotter than the flames of the inferno of Satan's lair. Why
would any wife choose a financially inept buffoon over a loving
providing husband? Men are just as comical in their choice of
replacement physical conquests. They usually choose a younger
damsel in need of saving such as a stripper or escort of some type
in search of a loving source of cash flow from an older gentleman
known as a sugar daddy. He provides the cash and she supplies
physical pleasure beyond his wildest dreams. She gives him the
sense of virility and masculinity that he is missing at home. This
in itself is a marriage of convenience and co-dependency that
will continue until it is discovered by his loving spouse or another
younger more excitingly exotic conquest comes along and rekindles
his youthful illusions. These sexual acts create a delusional sensation
as powerful as the most addictive drugs known to mankind. He will
move like a panther stalking his prey to get that love making
conquest one more time like a junkie anticipating their next fix.
