Table of Contents
Foreword Dave Ashley Willis ix
Introduction Amber xiii
Section 1 External Triggers
Chapter 1 When You Married Mr. Wrong or Ms. All Wrong (Amber) 3
Chapter 2 When the House Is a Mess (Amber) 9
Chapter 3 When You Are Married to a Backseat Driver (Guy) 16
Chapter 4 When Finances Cause You to Clash (Amber) 23
Chapter 5 When Life Gets Too Busy (Amber) 30
Chapter 6 When You Need to Pray Together (Amber) 38
Chapter 7 When In-laws Cause Friction (Guy) 44
Chapter 8 When Your Life Looks Different Than You Thought It Would (Amber) 50
Chapter 9 When You Parent Differently (Guy) 58
Chapter 10 When an Idol Makes Three in Your Marriage (Amber) 66
Chapter 11 When Sex Is Missing from Your Marriage (Amber) 74
Chapter 12 When You or Your Spouse Is Sick or Injured (Guy) 79
Chapter 13 When Your Roles Are Not Defined (Amber) 85
Chapter 14 When Your Spouse Is Having an Emotional Affair (Amber) 94
Chapter 15 When There Is No Spiritual Leader (Guy) 102
Chapter 16 When Your Spouse Is Dishonest (Amber) 109
Section 2 Internal Triggers
Chapter 17 When You Feel Misunderstood and Lonely (Amber) 117
Chapter 18 When You Are Weary and Exhausted (Amber) 126
Chapter 19 When Your Marriage Ebbs and Flows (Amber) 132
Chapter 20 When You Are No Longer Friends (Guy) 140
Chapter 21 When Communication Is Broken (Amber) 146
Chapter 22 When One of You Needs an Attitude Adjustment (Amber) 155
Chapter 23 When You Need a Vision for Your Marriage (Guy) 162
Chapter 24 When Your Personalities Clash (Amber) 169
Chapter 25 When You Need to Know That God Sees You in Your Triggered Marriage (Amber) 175
Chapter 26 When Your Upbringings Were Different (Amber) 184
Chapter 27 When Your Family Needs You but You Want Alone Time (Guy) 192
Chapter 28 When You Don't Feel Loved (Amber) 199
Chapter 29 When Past Wounds Surface (Amber) 206
Chapter 30 When Your Feelings Are Hurt (Guy) 214
Chapter 31 When Your Marriage Needs a Do-Over (Amber) 219
Acknowledgments 229
Notes 233