Follow Your Own Lead!
The Next Generation Leader has been challenging young Christians eager to learn, grow, and lead in ministry or in the marketplace since its original release in 2003. Now with an all-new look, this repackaged version continues to advance the mission of the first release. Mentoring young leaders as they face the unique issues of a changing world has been pastor and bestselling author Andy Stanley’s passion for more than a decade. Here he shares material from his leadership training sessions, developed to address essential leadership qualities such as character, clarity, courage, and competency. This is the perfect guide for any new leader—or for the mentor of a future leader!
Straight Talk to Tomorrow’s Leaders
Five characteristics mark the man or woman who will shape the future.
Drawing on two decades of experience mentoring a rising generation, seasoned visionary Andy Stanley shows how to:
-Discover and play to your strengths
-Harness your fears
-Enlist a leadership coach
-Maintain moral authority
“Capable men and women will eventually catch, pass, and replace the current generation of leaders,” says Stanley. “Embracing these essentials, you will not only excel in your personal leadership, but also ensure a no-regrets experience for those who choose to follow you.”
“ Andy Stanley ’s The Next Generation Leader will equip the messengers to stand a little taller with a vision of hope and promise as they engraft these timeless principles into their daily lives.”
—Dan T. Cathy, president and CEO, Chick-Fil-A Corporation
“It’s obvious that what Andy Stanley has to say in The Next Generation Leader comes straight from the gut of someone who is in the leadership game and is winning at it.”
—Bill Hybels, senior pastor, Willow Creek Community Church
“ Andy Stanley offers a fresh perspective on ageless truths that will be of enormous benefit to today’s leaders and to future generations.”
—Patrick S. Flood, chairman and CEO, HomeBanc Mortgage Corporation
Story Behind the Book
Andy Stanley, the senior pastor of the North Point Ministries campuses with a cumulative congregation of more than twenty thousand, admits he has one single, core passion. He lives to train and mentor young leaders to be the best they can be! He sees the “next gen” need for quality Christian resources on leadership and wrote this book entrenched in leadership himself, desiring to guide the up-and-coming young men and women who will shape our future.
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About the Author
Communicator, author, and pastor, Andy Stanley founded Atlanta-based North Point Ministries in 1995. Today, NPM is comprised of six churches in the Atlanta area and a network of ninety churches around the globe collectively serving nearly 185,000 people weekly. As host of Your Move with Andy Stanley, with over seven million messages consumed each month through television and podcasts, and author of more than twenty books, including The New Rules for Love, Sex & Dating, Ask It, How to Be Rich, Deep & Wide, Visioneering, and Next Generation Leader, he is considered one of the most influential pastors in America. Andy and his wife, Sandra, have three grown children and live near Atlanta.
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THE NEXT GENERATION LEADER
published by Multnomah Books
© 2003 by Andy Stanley
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09 10—20 19 18 17 16 15
Introduction . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9
COMPETENCE—DO LESS, ACCOMPLISH MORE
1. You Are Doing Too Much! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17
2. Doing the Right Things . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29
3. Finding Your Groove . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34
COURAGE—COURAGE EST ABLISHES LEADERSHIP
4. First In . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 49
5. Just a Stone’s Throw Away . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 57
6. Three Expressions of Courage . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 69
CLARITY—UNCERT A INTY DEMANDS CLARITY
7. Leading in the Shadow of Uncertainty . . . . . . . . . 79
8. I’ll Tell You When We Get There . . . . . . . . . . . . 87
9. Managing Your Uncertainty . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 92
COACHING—COACHING ENABLES A LEADER TO GO F A RTHER, F A STER
10. Listening, Learning . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 103
11. The King Who Wouldn’t Listen . . . . . . . . . . . . 110
12. What Coaches Do . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 119
CHARACTER—CHARACTER DETERMINES THE LEADER’S LEGACY
13. A Nonessential . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 131
14. The King Who Followed . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 142
15. The Leader Worth Following . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 151
Epilogue . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 161
Notes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 163
DO LESS, ACCOMPLISH MORE
YOU ARE DOING TOO MUCH!
The secret of concentration is elimination.
[Dr. Howard Hendricks]
It is both natural and necessary for young leaders to try to prove themselves by doing everything themselves. It is natural because, as a leader, you want to set the pace even as you demonstrate that nothing is beneath you. It is necessary because most of the time nobody is around to help. But what may initially be natural and necessary will ultimately limit your effectiveness.
Perhaps the two best-kept secrets of leadership are these:
1. The less you do, the more you accomplish.
2. The less you do, the more you enable others to accomplish.
As a young leader, my biggest mistake was allowing my time to be eaten up with things outside my core competen- cies. I devoted an inordinate amount of my first seven years in ministry to things I was not good at—things I would never be good at. At the same time, I invested little energy in developing my strengths.
I am a good communicator. I am not a good manager.
I am a good visioncaster. I am not good at follow-up. I know how to prepare a message. I am not good at planning an event.
And yet early on I did nothing to hone my communica- tion skills. Instead, I spent a great deal of time trying to become a better manager and a better event planner. When it came to communication, I would often wing it because the time I should have used to prepare talks had been con- sumed by other things. And this was the one area in which I could wing it.
The problem was that somewhere along the way I had bought into the myth that a good leader has to be good at everything. So I operated under the assumption that I had to upgrade my weaknesses into strengths. After all, who would follow a leader who wasn’t well-rounded?
After graduate school I went to work for my dad. As a minister to students my primary responsibilities revolved around developing a strategy for involving junior high and high school students in the life of the church.
The fact that this was my first job opportunity after grad school, combined with the reality that I was working for my dad, sent me into the workforce determined to succeed. I felt the need to prove myself by working harder than every- one else around me. I came in early and went home late. I was in constant motion.
But I did not work smart. The majority of my time was devoted to tasks I was not good at. I was eight years into my career before I realized that my real value to our organiza- tion lay within the context of my giftedness, not the number of hours I worked.
From that point forward I began looking for ways to redefine my job description according to what I was good at, rather than simply what I was willing to do. I discovered that there were some balls I had no business juggling. When I finally mustered the courage to let ’em fall to the floor and roll over in the corner, I began to excel in juggling the two or three balls I was created to keep in the air in the first place.
My success attracted others who were committed to the same cause. While we shared the same passion for students, our skill-sets were different. It wasn’t long before they began picking up the stray balls I had let fall. The responsibilities I was reluctant to relinquish turned out to be opportunities for others. The very activities that drained me fueled other team members.
Consequently, I began to do more communicating and less event planning. I learned how to spend the majority of my time at the thirty-thousand-foot level while remaining accessible to team members who were closer to the action. I spent more time strategizing and less time problem solving. I became far more proactive about what I allowed on my calendar. I became more mission-driven rather than need- driven, and now I want to give you that same vision as it relates to your core competencies:
ONLY DO WHAT ONLY YOU CAN DO.
This might seem unrealistic from where you sit today. You might even laugh out loud. But once you get past the seeming improbability of this axiom, write it down and work toward it.
What are the two or three things that you and only you are responsible for? What, specifically, have you been hired to do? What is “success” for the person in your position?
Now let’s slice it even thinner. Of the two or three things that define success for you, which of those are in line with your giftedness? Of the tasks you have been assigned to do, which of them are you specifically gifted to do?
That is where you must focus your energies. That is your sweet spot. That is where you will excel. Within that narrowed context you will add the most value to your organi- zation. Success within that sphere has the potential to make you indispensable to your employer.
Best of all, you will enjoy what you do.
“Impossible!” you say. “I can’t afford to focus my ener- gies on only a percentage of my overall responsibilities!”
Maybe not yet. But you owe it to yourself to identify the areas in which you have the highest probability for success. You owe it to your employer to identify the areas in which you could add the most value to your organization. You can’t aim for a target until you have identified it. We’re talk- ing about a mind-set here, a perspective, a way of thinking. This is a vision. This is something you must work toward to maximize your potential as a leader.
During the 2001 baseball season, Greg Maddux of the Atlanta Braves had a batting average of .253—average by professional standards. Yet he is one of the most highly sought-after players in the National Baseball League. Why? Because in his role as pitcher, he struck out 173 batters the previous year. His skill with a bat is not what makes him an indispensable part of the lineup. His ninety-mile-an-hour fastball does.
Should he spend more time working on his hitting? Maybe—but certainly not at the expense of his pitching.
Identify the areas in which you are most likely to add unique value to your organization—some- thing no one else can match—then leverage your skills to their absolute max. That’s what your employer expected when he put you on the payroll! More importantly, leveraging yourself generates the greatest and most satisfying return on your God-given abilities.
The moment a leader steps away from his core compe- tencies, his effectiveness as a leader diminishes. Worse, the effectiveness of every other leader in the organization suffers too. In time, a leader who is not leading from the right “zone” will create an unfavorable environment for other leaders.
Let me explain. Using John Maxwell’s one-to-ten leadership scale, score yourself as a leader1. If you are an exceptional leader, give yourself an eight or a nine. If you consider yourself an average leader, give yourself a five or a six. For the sake of illustration, let’s say that when you’re at the top of your game you are a seven.
Maxwell argues that at a seven, you will attract followers who are fives and sixes. If you were a nine, you would attract sevens and eights. In other words, leaders attract other lead- ers whose skills come close to matching but rarely surpass their own.
Perhaps you’ve known the frustration of working for some- one whose leadership skills were inferior to yours. It probably wasn’t long before you were looking for another place to work. On the other hand, you might know the thrill of working for leaders whose leadership skills were superior to yours.
Such environments probably brought out the best in you.
Now, back to my point. Assuming you are a seven, you will be at your best when you are in your zone—that is, when you are devoting your time to the things you are naturally gifted to do. That’s when you operate as a seven. And as a seven, you will attract fives and sixes. And, if you are secure, other sevens.
Furthermore, you may have seven potential, but outside your core competencies you will lead like a six. If you con- tinue in that mode, you will lose the devotion and possibly the respect of the other sixes around you. In time, you will dumb down the leadership level of your entire organiza- tion—everybody suffers.
Like most good principles, this one is somewhat intuitive. It makes sense. Yet many a leader has leaned his shoulder into the wind and forged ahead, determined to do it all and do it all well. In fact, you may get into a head-versus-heart battle of your own as you reflect on the implications of this idea. No doubt your heart leaps with excitement at the thought of con- centrating on the areas in which yo u naturally excel. Intuitively you know that’s the way to go. But your head says, “Wait a minute—it can’t be that simple!”
After challenging hundreds of leaders to play to their strengths, I have identified five primary obstacles to a leader adopting this way of thinking.
1. THE QUEST FOR BALANCE
The first thing that sometimes keeps next generation leaders from playing to their strengths is that the idea of being a balanced or well-rounded leader looks good on paper and sounds compelling coming from behind a lectern, but in reality, it is an unworthy endeavor. Read the biographies of the achievers in any arena of life. You will find over and over that these were not “well-rounded” leaders. They were men and women of focus.
We should strive for balance organizationally, but it is not realistic to strive for balance within the sphere of our per- sonal leadership abilities. Striving for balance forces a leader to invest time and energy in aspects of leadership where he will never excel. When the point person in an organization strives for balance, he potentially robs other leaders of an opportunity to perform at the top of their game.
My current context for leadership is the local church. Like most churches, ours has a component that focuses exclusively on high school students. The person who tackles that responsibility is usually someone who excels in leading people from the platform. Student pastors are often animated, pied-piper individuals.
The fellow who leads that charge at North Point is not. Kevin Ragsdale is a great example of a singularly focused, highly effective leader. Yet Kevin’s strength is administra- tion. By his own admission, Kevin is not a great platform personality. Rather than waste his time trying to become proficient in an area where he may never excel, Kevin has trained and mentored a group of individuals who are gifted communicators and visioncasters.
In other words, Kevin is not well-rounded in his leader- ship ability, but his organization is well-rounded. He focuses on what he is gifted in and empowers others to do the same. Consequently, anyone who walks into our student environ- ments will be wowed by the excellence of communication, but equally impressed by the quality of the programming and the organization that supports it.
When a leader attempts to become well-rounded, he brings down the average of the organization’s leadership quotient—which brings down the level of the leaders around him. Don’t strive to be a well-rounded leader. Instead, discover your zone and stay there. Then delegate everything else.
2. FAILURE TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN AUTHORITY AND COMPETENCE
The second reason leaders don’t always play to their strengths is that they have yet to distinguish between authority and competency. Every leader has authority over arenas in which he has little or no competence. When we exert our authority in an area where we lack competence, we can derail projects and demotivate those who have the skills we lack.
On any given Sunday morning I have the authority to walk into our video control room and start barking out orders. The fact that I don’t know the first thing about what’s going on in there does not diminish my authority. Eventually the crew would do what I asked them to do. But the production would suffer horribly. If I were to do that Sunday after Sunday, our best and brightest volunteers would leave. Eventually our paid staff would start looking for something else to do as well.
There is no need to become an expert in, or even to understand, every component of your organization. When you try to exercise authority within a department that is outside your core competencies, you will hinder everything and everyone under your watch. If you fail to distinguish between authority and competence, you will exert your influence in ways that damage projects and people.
To put it bluntly, there are things you are responsible for that you should keep your nose out of.
3. INABILITY TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN COMPETENCIES AND NONCOMPETENCIES
Leaders who are successful in one arena often assume com- petency in arenas where in fact they have none. As a result, they miss opportunities to leverage their strengths. As we will discuss later, success is an intoxicant, and intoxicated people seldom have a firm grasp on reality. Successful leaders tend to assume that their core competencies are broader than they actually are.
Worse, the more successful an individual is, the less likely it is that anyone will bring this unpleasant fact to his attention. Consequently, a leader considered an expert in one area is often treated as an expert in others as well.
Leaders who are not in touch with their own weaknesses feel that they are as good as anybody else in their organiza- tion at anything that pertains to leadership. Many have even bought into the false notion that great leaders have no weak- nesses. In their minds, to admit weakness is to diminish their effectiveness. Such leaders tend to hide their weak- nesses, assuming they ever discover them.
Recently I received a call from a board member of an international organization. He wanted my advice about how to handle a conflict between the board and the founder of the organization, who was serving as president. The presi- dent was a gifted visioncaster who had raised a great deal of capital for the company. In fact, the success of this organiza- tion was due in large part to his ability to communicate effectively to a wide range of audiences.
But he was not a particularly great businessman. The board wanted to hire a top-notch CFO, but the president believed he could continue to oversee that aspect of the organization in his role as president. In recent days the president had made decisions that raised questions about his business savvy. It was apparent to everyone except him that he needed to stay out of the business side and focus his attention on what made him and the company successful to begin with. His problem was not IQ; it was insight. He just didn’t get it.
In general, an inability to own up to personal shortcom- ings is often rooted in some sort of insecurity. This can be easy to see in others but next to impossible to see in our- selves. It takes a certain amount of personal security to admit weakness.
And the truth is that admitting a weakness is a sign of strength. Acknowledging weakness doesn’t make a leader less effective. On the contrary, in most cases it is simply a way of expressing that he understands what everyone else has known for some time. When you acknowledge your weak- nesses to the rest of your team, it is never new information.
Some leaders don’t play only to their strengths because they feel guilty delegating their weaknesses.
This is where I struggle. I assume everybody hates to do the things I hate to do. For years I felt guilty delegating responsibilities that I really didn’t want to get involved with in the first place. It took me a while to realize that the leaders around me were energized by the very things that drained the life out of me.
As I mentioned earlier, planning and producing events is not one of my strengths. Planning just about anything is terribly stressful to me. Early in my career I would apolo- getically delegate event planning, incorrectly assuming that everyone dreaded this type of thing as much as I did. Yet I assumed I was doing everybody a favor when I took respon- sibility for planning and producing events.
Fortunately for our entire organization, I discovered that I was surrounded by leaders whose adrenal glands went into overdrive at the prospect of planning an event. Not only were they good at it; they enjoyed it! I have to laugh when I think about how diplomatic my leadership team was as they pried my hands from certain events.
Remember, everybody in your organization benefits when you delegate responsibilities that fall outside your core competency. Thoughtful delegation will allow some- one else in your organization to shine. Your weakness is someone’s opportunity.
5. UNWILLINGNESS TO DEVELOP OTHER LEADERS
There is some truth to the adage “If you want it done right, do it yourself.” Sometimes it really is easier and less time- consuming to do things yourself than to train someone else. But leadership is not always about getting things done “right.” Leadership is about getting things done through other people. Leaders miss opportunities to play to their strengths because they haven’t figured out that great leaders work through other leaders, who work through others. Leadership is about multiplying your efforts, which auto- matically multiplies your results.
As one author put it:
We accomplish all that we do through delegation— either to time or to other people…. Transferring responsibility to other skilled and trained people enables you to give your energies to other high- leverage activities. Delegation means growth, both for individuals and for organizations.2
Every once in a while I will hear someone in leadership complain about the performance or competency of the people around him. When a leader can’t find someone to hand things off to, it is time for him to look in the mirror. We must never forget that the people who follow us are exactly where we have led them. If there is no one to whom we can delegate, it is our own fault.
Many examples in history underscore the centrality of this catalytic leadership principle. Each illustrates the fact that you never know what hangs in the balance of a decision to play to your strengths.
Oddly enough, it was the prudent application of this principle that enabled the fledgling first-century church to consolidate its gains and capitalize on its explosive growth, without losing focus or momentum.