Nice Teams Finish Last: The Secret to Unleashing Your Team's Maximum Potential
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Nice Teams Finish Last: The Secret to Unleashing Your Team's Maximum Potential
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Overview
This guide provides the antidote to the common tendency of conflict, giving managers, team leaders, members, and facilitators the practical support they need to battle "the nice trap" and start getting results.
Conflict naturally exists in most organizations--even in those that never make waves. In the case of the more subdued teams, author Brian Miller explains that there's a much deeper problem going on: the conflict doesn't go away, but instead it manifests itself in passive-aggression, mediocrity, and a molasses-like inability to get anything done.
In Nice Teams Finish Last, you will learn:
- how to hone skills such as constructive criticism,
- provide clear and honest communication,
- and discover how to lean in to the kind of conflict that drives innovation and quality without hurting feelings or creating enemies.
Clear, sharp feedback, and constructive challenges are just what teams need to go from NICE to BOLD and reap all the benefits that come with that radical transformation--including more satisfaction with your workplace culture (not less). Complete with helpful team assessments and easy-to-use planning sheets, Nice Teams Finish Last provides the eye-opening tools teams need to achieve very nice results!
Product Details
| ISBN-13: | 9780814413937 |
|---|---|
| Publisher: | AMACOM |
| Publication date: | 05/19/2010 |
| Pages: | 224 |
| Product dimensions: | 6.00(w) x 8.90(h) x 0.70(d) |
| Age Range: | 18 Years |
About the Author
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Introduction
A few years ago, I was driving in southern Maine with a friend, talking about teams. I was lamenting how so many teams never quite realize their full potential. The team members all know what needs to happen for them to be wildly successful, but each is waiting for someone else to do it. Individual accountability is what’s lacking, was my thought. My
friend taunted me, ‘‘Brian, remember: There’s no I in team.’’ a shot back, ‘‘Yes, but there’s a me in there somewhere!’’
Teams are made of individuals. They are a group of me’s.
But as long as everyone keeps believing there is no I in team a they can continue to abdicate to others—often the team leader—the responsibility for their team’s success. It shouldn’t be all on the team leader’s shoulders to make the team work. Each member has responsibility.
Is Your Team Too NICE?
This book is for people who want to step up and accept responsibility for the success of their team. Over the years,
I’ve learned that the foundation of any team’s success is open and honest communication. Unfortunately, our society has taught us that acting this way can hurt people; so we ‘‘play nice’’ with each other. In this book, I dispel the myths of NICE teams and show you how any team can become
BOLD, simply by following some basic principles of communication.
If you are a NICE team, you will learn communication skills that will transform how you interact with each other.
Because the focus is on individual responsibility, you need to know what is not in this book.
/ I won’t be teaching team leaders how to lead a team (except by example, as a member of the team).
/ I won’t be showing you how to create or lead a culture change, beyond the shift that naturally occurs when you apply the skills contained here.
/ Nor will I be telling you how to resolve conflict. (What a will do, though, is give you the tools you need to avoid unnecessary conflict in the first place.)
Chapter 1 is all about NICE teams. I expose the seven myths that are common for teams that are stuck in NICE.
Then I describe the nine classic team members. Each of them has his or her own motivation to be NICE.
There is a lot of information about the team member types, and here’s why. If you’re going to initiate or lead a change in your team’s dynamics, you need to understand these types in order to improve your chances of success. Understanding how different things motivate people is critical to appealing to their collective conscience. The Team Member
Style Assessment in Appendix 2 helps you identify which team member style you have, as well as the other styles found in your team, so that you can address them effectively.
When NICE teams realize that NICEness is stymieing their potential, they often err by going to the other extreme:
FIERCE. In Chapter 2, I describe the seven myths of FIERCE teams, as well as how the nine team members adjust in a FIERCE environment.
Your Goal Should Be a BOLD Team
BOLD is the delicate balance between NICE and FIERCE.
In Chapter 3, I show how the myths of NICE and FIERCE
become truths for BOLD teams. When the nine kinds of team members rise to BOLDness, each can make a unique and valuable contribution.
Becoming BOLD
These are all good concepts, but how do you put them to work? That’s what Chapter 4 is about. Here you find the four basic principles of BOLD communication. It all starts with how team members interact with each other. These principles can be applied to just about any interaction in a team setting.
The next three chapters show how to apply the BOLD
principles to the most common team interactions.
/ Chapter 5 is about giving feedback: how to share your reactions with others.
/ Chapter 6 deals with making requests: how to ask for what you want or need from others.
/ Chapter 7 covers disagreeing: how to share differing opinions and viewpoints.
In each chapter, I divide the topic into easy-to-follow steps built on the four basic BOLD principles.
Finally, Chapter 8 is for team leaders. The aim of this book is primarily to guide and encourage team members to become BOLD, so I won’t get into traditional team leader topics (such as how to be a team leader, how to hold people accountable, or how to manage change). I will give you some direction, tips, and exercises for leading your team toward BOLD. You’ll find even more help in the appendixes a where I’ve included assessments and worksheets that can help you apply what you learn from the book.
True, there is no I in team. But there is a me. And it’s time for all of the me’s on your team to stop waiting around for somebody else to create the ideal team. So let’s start with the me who’s holding this book right now.
Be bold, be bold, and everywhere be bold.
——-Herbert Spencer
Table of Contents
Contents
Acknowledgments
Introduction
1. NICE Teams Are . . . Well, NICE!
2. The Opposite of NICE Is MEAN, Isn’t It?
3. The Sweet Spot Between NICE and FIERCE: BOLD
4. BOLD Principles
5. BOLD Feedback
6. BOLD Requests
7. BOLD Disagreements
8. Become BOLD
Appendix 1: NICE Team Assessment
Appendix 2: Team Member Style Assessment
Appendix 3: BOLD Conversation Assessment
Appendix 4: BOLD Feedback Planning Sheet
Appendix 5: BOLD Request Planning Sheet
Index
About the Author