Table of Contents
Foreword Marc Benioff xi
Introduction: There's a Woman in the Men's Room xv
1 The Power to Flow 1
Audacity, or a Delicious Eff-You Attitude 9
Gratitude Keeps You Flowing 12
When It's Time to Shoot the Rapids 16
Toss Your Life Preserver 19
The Urgency and Fear of True Commitment 21
2 Be the Boss of Your Own Career 25
Be Prepared to Zig and Zag 27
The Case for Going Corporate 33
Intrapreneurship, or How to Move a Mountain 37
The Boss of Your Own Story 41
Earn a Boss's Paycheck 46
3 You Have More Power Than You Think 53
Developing Gravitas 58
Sexual Harassment Is a Crime 63
4 How to Get an a in Attitude and an F in Victim 69
Better a Bitch than a Victim 72
In the Room with Investors 77
Riding Out Business Lows 82
5 People Power 91
Your First Sponsor Is Your Boss 93
Seek Hyper-Local Sponsorship 96
The Place for Mentors 102
The Power of Other Women 105
Build Momentum with the Right Team 109
6 Entering the Men's Room 113
Become an Insider 116
Make Allies in Your Office 120
Join the Men's Club 125
Male-Female Networking Hacks 127
7 Guilt and Other Challenges of Working Parenthood 131
No More Mommy Guilt 136
Shaping Your Career and Your Parenting Together 139
Family Leave and the Co-Parenting Unicorn 147
When Parenthood Makes Entrepreneurs of Employees 152
8 Quitting, Failing, Reentry, and Rebirth 155
Breaks Are Not Blemishes 160
A Blueprint for ReEntry 162
Disaster Recovery 165
The Upside of Disaster 170
Quit or Stick It Out? 172
9 Power up the Organization 175
Guardrails Against Bias 177
Say No to Quotas 182
Take Your Values to Work 184
Epilogue: Starting from Scratch 189
About the Author 230