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Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground

Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground

by Chris Tompkins


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"[A] powerful treatise on creating a more accepting world." Publishers Weekly, Starred Review No matter who we are or where we come from, we all play on the same playground. There are certain collective societal messages we hear growing up that we either consciously or subconsciously believe. As a result, we develop certain belief systems from which we operate our lives. Raising LGBTQ Allies sheds light on the deeper, multi-faceted layers of homophobia. It opens up a conversation with parents around the possibility they may have an LGBTQ child, and shows how heteronormativity can be harmful if not addressed clearly and early. Although not every parent will have an LGBTQ child, their child will jump rope or play tag with a child who is LGBTQ. By showing readers the importance of having open and authentic conversations with children at a young age, Chris Tompkins walks parents through the many ways they can prevent new generations from adopting homophobic and transphobic beliefs, while helping them explore their own subconscious biases. Offering specific actions parents, family members, and caregivers can take to help navigate conversations, address heteronormativity, and challenge societal beliefs, Raising LGBTQ Allies serves as a guide to help normalize being LGBTQ from a young age. Creating allies and a world where closets don’t exist happens one child at a time. And it begins with each of us and what we say, as much as what we choose not to say.

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ISBN-13: 9781538136263
Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield Publishers, Inc.
Publication date: 05/14/2021
Pages: 256
Sales rank: 465,979
Product dimensions: 5.90(w) x 8.60(h) x 1.10(d)

About the Author

Chris Tompkins is a teacher, TEDx speaker, spiritual life coach, and LGBTQ inner-advocate based in Los Angeles, California. More importantly, he’s an uncle of five. Chris believes all kids are the future and teaches social-emotional learning throughout Southern California.

Table of Contents

Acknowledgments Introduction Section I: Awareness 1: MFTP Part 1: We All Play on the Same Playground: What We Believe and Why 2: MFTP Part 2: Language Matters: The Meaning Behind Our Words 3: MFTP Part 3: Change Our Beliefs, Change Their Story Section II: Willingness 4: Gender, Sexuality, and Santa Claus: An Easy Approach 5: Benign Neglect: Not Communicating Is Still Communicating 6: Shame: Prevention vs Treatment 7: Trauma, Resilience, and Human Dignity: Raising a New Generation Section III: Change 8: Building a New Playground: 6 Simple and Effective Steps 9: New Messages, New Playground, New World: A Mother’s Faith 10: New Toys: Instructional and Interactive Exercises 11: Uncle Chris: The Journey of a Soul Bibliography Index About the Author

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