From [a] heartbreaking premise, Alam plumbs still more heartbreaking questions about the power and limitations of maternal love, and the implacable persistence of racial divides.
That Kind of Mother’s greatest triumph is its insistence on complicating the rescue narrative of transracial adoption without resorting to dogmatic indictments of its characters….the novel also reveals the extent to which Alam is attuned to the concerns and candor of women.
Alam explores questions [of race, class, and privilege] with exquisite tenderness, palpable detail, and excruciating empathy.
A rich, complex, beautifully observed story about the collision of class, race and family. Motherhood is an overwhelming and joyful job and this book takes on the minutia of that domestic sphere with quiet, but incendiary power.
Complex and absorbing.
“Absorbing... Alam poses important questions about race, privilege, and the nature of family
In this novel, the issues he addresses are parenting, race, class, and privilege, and he explores these fraught topics with his trademark wit and sensitivity, never pandering or veering into cliche.
Quietly brilliant...Alam’s unerring yet unobtrusive eye asks uncomfortable questions: Can motherhood ever look beyond race? Can we learn to recognize the terrible blindness of our respective cultural perspectives?.... A stunning accomplishment.
Booklist (starred review)
Dives deep into big questions about parenthood, adoption, and race...With his unerring eye for nuance and unsparing sense of irony, Rumaan Alam’s second novel is both heartfelt and thought-provoking.
Mothers were big at the box office in 2017 (think: Lady Bird , mother!, I, Tonya ). Rumaan Alam promises the same return on investment with his second novel.
[A]n exploration of race, class, and power — as well as a fascinating look at the evolution of one woman’s mind over decades. Alam is uniquely well-suited to write this story of adoption.
This gorgeous book calls into question all our assumptions - about family and tribe, race and loyalty, privilege and paucity. Brave, sharp and empathetic, Rumaan Alam shows us motherhood as I’ve never seen it: at once a quotidian labor and a radical and transformative excavation of the self.
This is a thought-provoking story about family, race, and the bond between mothers.
I read That Kind of Mother slowly, to savor it... [it] is a novel that is also a way of helping contemporary readers with our current silences and fraught dialogues.
Alam details Rebecca’s transforming journey of motherhood and interracial adoption with delightful irony. Boundaries of family and friendship expand in this thought-provoking read, revealing universal truths about parenting.
Christian Science Monitor
That Kind of Mother is a thought-provoking story about what happens when a beloved nanny dies, leaving her own child motherless. Exploring themes of race, privilege, and family, Alam’s second novel will leave you thinking about it long after finishing.
One of the glories of this novel, as it tracks Rebecca through 1999, is its compassionate exploration of individuals reaching across racial and class divides to create family.
If you want something smart, relevant, and compassionate…pitch-perfect…quite special.
Alam’s second novel, about two families brought together by the death of a beloved nanny, expertly and intrepidly blends topics of the zeitgeist, including race, privilege, and motherhood, without sacrificing elegant prose and signature wit.
Coming off his celebrated debut Rich and Pretty , Rumaan Alam’s sophomore novel returns to themes of family and culture in a powerful tale of a white mother raising a black son.
Riveting..an outstanding depiction of motherhood and cross-racial adoption...The tensions of privilege and identity are brilliantly set against the backdrop of wealthy American cities, and Alam’s pacing is phenomenal...An astonishing book.
In Rebecca, [Alam] has created a flawed and sometimes irritating character who fully and completely loves her childrenadopted and biological, black and whitebeyond reason, because she is their parent . It is that all-consuming, passionate and annoying parental love that resonates and gives this book its value. It also rings true. In this sense, both the author and the character he searched both inside and outside of himself to create ultimately perform the jobs they were meant to do.
The New York Times Book Review - Helen Schulman
Riveting..an outstanding depiction of motherhood and cross-racial adoption...The tensions of privilege and identity are brilliantly set against the backdrop of wealthy American cities, and Alam’s pacing is phenomenal...An astonishing book.” — Washington Post
“That Kind of Mother’s greatest triumph is its insistence on complicating the rescue narrative of transracial adoption without resorting to dogmatic indictments of its characters….the novel also reveals the extent to which Alam is attuned to the concerns and candor of women.” — The Atlantic
“Laced with humor and remarkably rich in detail…thrills in its attention to nuance…Alam’s generous rendering rings authentic.” — Entertainment Weekly
“Alam’s second novel, about two families brought together by the death of a beloved nanny, expertly and intrepidly blends topics of the zeitgeist, including race, privilege, and motherhood, without sacrificing elegant prose and signature wit.” — Vogue.com
“Coming off his celebrated debut Rich and Pretty , Rumaan Alam’s sophomore novel returns to themes of family and culture in a powerful tale of a white mother raising a black son.” — Entertainment Weekly
“[Alam’s] is a voice we want to read on just about every issue. In this novel, the issues he addresses are parenting, race, class, and privilege, and he explores these fraught topics with his trademark wit and sensitivity, never pandering or veering into cliche.” — Nylon Magazine
“From [a] heartbreaking premise, Alam plumbs still more heartbreaking questions about the power and limitations of maternal love, and the implacable persistence of racial divides.” — Huffington Post
“Alam explores questions [of race, class, and privilege] with exquisite tenderness, palpable detail, and excruciating empathy.” — Marie Claire
“If you want something smart, relevant, and compassionate…pitch-perfect…quite special.” — LitHub
“One of the glories of this novel, as it tracks Rebecca through 1999, is its compassionate exploration of individuals reaching across racial and class divides to create family.” — BBC.com
““Absorbing... Alam poses important questions about race, privilege, and the nature of family” — Boston Globe
“That Kind of Mother is a thought-provoking story about what happens when a beloved nanny dies, leaving her own child motherless. Exploring themes of race, privilege, and family, Alam’s second novel will leave you thinking about it long after finishing.” — Popsugar
“Alam details Rebecca’s transforming journey of motherhood and interracial adoption with delightful irony. Boundaries of family and friendship expand in this thought-provoking read, revealing universal truths about parenting.” — Christian Science Monitor
“Alam’s sharp narrative asides—lines like “Some percentage of the things she did for the children were actually for her”—carry such weight and truth that we trust his route toward the bigger question of the book: are we ever ready for the pain and joy that life delivers.” — The Millions
“This is a thought-provoking story about family, race, and the bond between mothers.” — Bookish
“This gorgeous book calls into question all our assumptions - about family and tribe, race and loyalty, privilege and paucity. Brave, sharp and empathetic, Rumaan Alam shows us motherhood as I’ve never seen it: at once a quotidian labor and a radical and transformative excavation of the self.” — Danzy Senna, author of New People
“Complex and absorbing.” — Oprah.com
“I read That Kind of Mother slowly, to savor it... [it] is a novel that is also a way of helping contemporary readers with our current silences and fraught dialogues.” — The Millions
“[A]n exploration of race, class, and power — as well as a fascinating look at the evolution of one woman’s mind over decades. Alam is uniquely well-suited to write this story of adoption.” — Refinery29.com
“Mothers were big at the box office in 2017 (think: Lady Bird , mother!, I, Tonya ). Rumaan Alam promises the same return on investment with his second novel.” — In Style
“Dives deep into big questions about parenthood, adoption, and race...With his unerring eye for nuance and unsparing sense of irony, Rumaan Alam’s second novel is both heartfelt and thought-provoking.” — Celeste Ng
“A rich, complex, beautifully observed story about the collision of class, race and family. Motherhood is an overwhelming and joyful job and this book takes on the minutia of that domestic sphere with quiet, but incendiary power.” — Stephanie Powell Watts, author of No One is Coming to Save Us
“Quietly brilliant...Alam’s unerring yet unobtrusive eye asks uncomfortable questions: Can motherhood ever look beyond race? Can we learn to recognize the terrible blindness of our respective cultural perspectives?.... A stunning accomplishment.” — Booklist (starred review)
“Incisive...Alam skillfully tackles issues of race and parenthood...The novel offers a memorable depiction of a mother’s journey as her children grow and her marriage collapses.” — Publishers Weekly
“Alam proves he is a writer brave and empathetic enough not only to look at life from the perspective of another gender and era, but also to boldly dive in and explore controversial topics...Alam cements his status as that kind of writer: insightful, intrepid, and truly impressive.” — Kirkus Reviews (starred review)
Riveting..an outstanding depiction of motherhood and cross-racial adoption...The tensions of privilege and identity are brilliantly set against the backdrop of wealthy American cities, and Alam’s pacing is phenomenal...An astonishing book.
12/01/2017 As with his celebrated debut, Rich and Pretty, Alam takes a women's-eye view to give us a larger picture. Panicked about raising her baby, first-time white mother Rebecca invites understanding African American hospital staffer Priscilla to be her nanny. Rebecca, who quickly comes to see her own advantaged position, takes the next step when Priscilla dies in childbirth by adopting her son. But being the white mother of a black child has consequences. With a 100,000-copy first printing.