The Average Family's Guide to Financial Freedom
Bill and Mary Toohey are average middle income people from a small Iowa town. Bill has been employed for 23 years as a Vocational Rehabilitation Counselor and Mary has worked for 20 years as an Office Manager for a small psychological firm. They started saving and investing in 1991 when their net worth was $63,000. Eight years later their net worth was $467,000. In other words, their assets increased by an average of more than $50,000 per year during that period while their income (not counting dividends and capital gains) averaged about $65,000 per year. But it wasn't always easy. They have three children, Colleen (24), Tim (22), and Meghann (14). Tim has been severely disabled since birth and despite the challenges of helping Tim cope with his chronic illnesses, the Toohey family has been able to achieve financial freedom on a modest income. They were able to build a sizable nest egg in eight years while encountering some of life's biggest expenses during the period. They helped to pay for their daughter's college education and wedding, paid cash for a new car, and made several expensive home improvements. Despite those major expenses the Tooheys still managed to save 46% of their gross income and were listed among the "Best Personal Finance Managers in America" in the December 1994 issues of Money magazine. The Tooheys' story, in an article written by Bill, appeared in the April 1997 issue of Money magazine. Mary co-authored an article published in the February 1998 issue of McCall's magazine. In May, 1997 Bill was invited to speak at Money magazine's Elgin Project seminar series. Money magazine "adopted" Elgin, Illinois and brought in speakers with expertise in personal finance. Former President Bush kicked off the event.

How did they do it? How do they think? How do they live? Is it possible to save so much and still have a decent life? Can my family do this? Get the answers to all these questions and more in a book written specifically for families with children who don't earn big bucks.
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The Average Family's Guide to Financial Freedom
Bill and Mary Toohey are average middle income people from a small Iowa town. Bill has been employed for 23 years as a Vocational Rehabilitation Counselor and Mary has worked for 20 years as an Office Manager for a small psychological firm. They started saving and investing in 1991 when their net worth was $63,000. Eight years later their net worth was $467,000. In other words, their assets increased by an average of more than $50,000 per year during that period while their income (not counting dividends and capital gains) averaged about $65,000 per year. But it wasn't always easy. They have three children, Colleen (24), Tim (22), and Meghann (14). Tim has been severely disabled since birth and despite the challenges of helping Tim cope with his chronic illnesses, the Toohey family has been able to achieve financial freedom on a modest income. They were able to build a sizable nest egg in eight years while encountering some of life's biggest expenses during the period. They helped to pay for their daughter's college education and wedding, paid cash for a new car, and made several expensive home improvements. Despite those major expenses the Tooheys still managed to save 46% of their gross income and were listed among the "Best Personal Finance Managers in America" in the December 1994 issues of Money magazine. The Tooheys' story, in an article written by Bill, appeared in the April 1997 issue of Money magazine. Mary co-authored an article published in the February 1998 issue of McCall's magazine. In May, 1997 Bill was invited to speak at Money magazine's Elgin Project seminar series. Money magazine "adopted" Elgin, Illinois and brought in speakers with expertise in personal finance. Former President Bush kicked off the event.

How did they do it? How do they think? How do they live? Is it possible to save so much and still have a decent life? Can my family do this? Get the answers to all these questions and more in a book written specifically for families with children who don't earn big bucks.
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Overview

Bill and Mary Toohey are average middle income people from a small Iowa town. Bill has been employed for 23 years as a Vocational Rehabilitation Counselor and Mary has worked for 20 years as an Office Manager for a small psychological firm. They started saving and investing in 1991 when their net worth was $63,000. Eight years later their net worth was $467,000. In other words, their assets increased by an average of more than $50,000 per year during that period while their income (not counting dividends and capital gains) averaged about $65,000 per year. But it wasn't always easy. They have three children, Colleen (24), Tim (22), and Meghann (14). Tim has been severely disabled since birth and despite the challenges of helping Tim cope with his chronic illnesses, the Toohey family has been able to achieve financial freedom on a modest income. They were able to build a sizable nest egg in eight years while encountering some of life's biggest expenses during the period. They helped to pay for their daughter's college education and wedding, paid cash for a new car, and made several expensive home improvements. Despite those major expenses the Tooheys still managed to save 46% of their gross income and were listed among the "Best Personal Finance Managers in America" in the December 1994 issues of Money magazine. The Tooheys' story, in an article written by Bill, appeared in the April 1997 issue of Money magazine. Mary co-authored an article published in the February 1998 issue of McCall's magazine. In May, 1997 Bill was invited to speak at Money magazine's Elgin Project seminar series. Money magazine "adopted" Elgin, Illinois and brought in speakers with expertise in personal finance. Former President Bush kicked off the event.

How did they do it? How do they think? How do they live? Is it possible to save so much and still have a decent life? Can my family do this? Get the answers to all these questions and more in a book written specifically for families with children who don't earn big bucks.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780471416272
Publisher: Wiley
Publication date: 06/25/2001
Pages: 256
Product dimensions: 5.61(w) x 8.74(h) x 0.67(d)

About the Author

Bill Toohey is the author of The Average Family's Guide to Financial Freedom, published by Wiley.

Mary Toohey is the author of The Average Family's Guide to Financial Freedom, published by Wiley.

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Introduction

Winter 1991. My wife and I are in our late thirties. We have a daughter about to finish high school, a son with severe disabilities and health problems, and a daughter in elementary school. Our total income is only a little more than $34,000. We have a mortgage, car payments, and huge college bills looming ahead. Most of our small $63,000 savings is tied up in our home equity and in a retirement plan at work. The economy is in the tank and my job is at risk.

Winter 1999. Our daughter has a college degree that is completely paid for, we own our home and two cars, free and clear, and the value of our assets is $467,000.

Hi. I'm Bill Toohey. My wife, Mary, and I are just average people, working regular jobs, earning modest incomes. We love our family, have great friends, and enjoy our low-key lives. We've never intended to achieve fame, build a fortune, or earn big bucks. Like most Americans, our interests have led us into careers that don't pay a lot. We're not exactly poor, but we've always been closer to poor than to rich. In fact, I've never broken through $40,000 at my job and Mary has only recently topped $20,000 at hers.

I'm a state vocational rehabilitation counselor. If you have a disability and you are looking for help to enter the workforce, I'm the guy you come to. I've been doing that for about 23 years. Mary has been managing a small professional office for more than 20 years. We don't earn big salaries and, like most people, we never will. But hey, many of us don't want to be attorneys, physicians, administrators, and business owners. We're drawn to other things, and that's good, because we need teachers, police officers, farmers, social workers, nurses, carpenters, secretaries, retail clerks, and meat cutters. Most of us are doing what we want, what we're cut out to do. We're living the lives we choose. We go to work, do our jobs as best we can, and look forward to weekends. Life is good. But there are economic trends that pose threats to families like ours and probably pose hazards for your family, too.

Companies are downsizing and employees who keep their jobs are burning out from trying to keep up with more work and fewer people to do it. Pressure to be totally productive is intense. Factory lines are speeding up and previously rare conditions caused by excessive repetitive movement, like carpal tunnel syndrome, are now common. Good full-time jobs with benefits are on the decline whereas part-time jobs with no benefits are increasing.

Trying desperately to hang on to their standard of living, husbands and wives are working more hours. Author Juliet Schor, in her book The Overworked American: The Unexpected Decline of Leisure, tells us that work hours are on the rise:

In the last twenty years the amount of time Americans have spent at their jobs has risen steadily. Each year the change is small, amounting to about nine hours, or slightly more than one additional day of work. In any given year, such a small increment has probably been imperceptible. But the accumulated increase over two decades is substantial. When surveyed, Americans report that they have only sixteen and a half hours of leisure a week, after the obligations of job and household are taken care of. Working hours are already longer than they were forty years ago.*

*J. Schor, The Overworked American: The Unexpected Decline of Leisure (Basic Books/ Harper Collins, 1991, pp. 1-2).

In late 1990, Mary and I sat down and had a heart-to-heart talk about our future. Our perception of the workplace had changed in the sense that job security didn't exist anymore, and even if it did, we wanted to have more time with each other and with our family. We didn't want our family's financial fate to be in the hands of politicians and chief executive officers (CEOs). Although we both had benevolent employers at the time, there were storm clouds on the horizon. We needed an exit, and as we saw it, the only escape was to save money; enough money to cover most of our basic living expenses for the rest of our lives. But it had to be done quickly because we never knew when the axe would fall. Our mission: to save as much as we could. Fast.

In only 8 years we added over $400,000 to our bottom line on an income (not counting dividends and capital gains) averaging about $65,000 per year. It wasn't easy because we had more expenses than usual during that period. We paid cash for a new car, covered the costs of many medical expenses and orthodontia, helped our daughter pay for her wedding and get a debt-free college education, extensively remodeled our son's room, plus we made some expensive home improvements and repairs like all new kitchen appliances, new roofs, and new central heating and air conditioning. Yet we ended that 8 years with $404,000 more than the $63,000 we started with. We're closing in on half a million just 8 years after we started. In fact, we now have enough to cover the following expenses for the rest of our lives:

  • Food
  • Clothing
  • Shelter House
    Heat
    Air conditioning
    Utilities
    Phone
    House maintenance and repairs
    House insurance
    Property taxes
    Appliances
    Household furnishings
    Cable TV
    Internet access
  • Transportation Car
    Car insurance
    Car license
    Car maintenance and repairs
  • Dental
  • Miscellaneous expenses
  • Some medical expenses

That's right. We have everything covered now except for part of our medical expenses. In other words, without ever lifting a finger in paid employment, we'll always have hot meals on the table, a car to get where we want to go, and a cozy home to live in. How did we do it? This book will tell you how.

In recent years we have taken our story public in hopes of helping other families achieve financial freedom. After being named among the "Best Personal Finance Managers in America" by Money Magazine in 1994, we authored an article that summarized our financial strategies and was published in the April 1997 issue of Money Magazine. Some of our strategies were also featured in the February 1998 issue of McCall's magazine in an article co-authored by Mary. In 1997, we were invited to share our story at Money Magazine's Elgin Project, an event in which Money celebrated its 25th anniversary by "adopting" Elgin, Illinois, in an effort to raise the financial I. Q. of an entire community. We have also taken our message to college students in a seminar we've designed specifically for that age group. Unfortunately, our seminars, magazine articles, and newspaper coverage can only scratch the surface of our strategies because of time or space constraints. This book tells it all-- how one average family went all the way to financial freedom in only a few short years and how you can do it, too.

Financial freedom is a vague term meaning different things to different people. Some might think they aren't really free unless they're so rich they can buy anything they want while never needing to work again. Is that financial freedom? There are probably some free-spirited vagabonds out there who are free with only a tent and whatever will fit into a backpack. Is that financial freedom? We have given this matter considerable thought in our own situation and arrived at a definition that probably isn't too far off the mark for most families:

A family has achieved financial freedom when they are able to pay for all of their living expenses, for the rest of their lives, utilizing their assets and 10 to 15 hours of work per week, per spouse, until Social Security, Medicare, and pension eligibility.

Millions of middle-income families can achieve that goal. But wouldn't it be better to pile up enough to be free from the need to work at all? We don't think so. Here's why:

  • Work has value beyond a paycheck. We all need to get out of the house and be with other people on a regular basis. Without interpersonal contact, life would be dull, and work provides an excellent opportunity for the regular social interaction we all need.
  • The workplace provides access to information. "Who's a good car mechanic?" "Where's the best Italian restaurant in town?" "Where can I find some professional grade lawn edging?" "I need a pediatrician. Who's good?" We've saved a ton of time and money, and have avoided many headaches by consulting coworkers.
  • Work keeps us sharp. It forces us to exercise our brains in complex and rapidly changing situations. It provides stimulating challenges and the opportunity to solve real problems and help others.
  • A job provides the opportunity to develop lifelong friendships.
  • Work is an excellent way to contribute something to the world. We all want to stand for something and a job is a good place (though certainly not the only place) to do that.
  • Work contributes to happiness. In his book The Pursuit of Happiness: Who Is Happy-- and Why? David Myers states: "Happy, too, are those who gain the sense of control that comes with effective management of one's time. Unoccupied time, especially for out-of-work people who aren't able to plan and fill their time, is unsatisfying. Sleeping late, hanging out, watching TV, leave an empty feeling."*

*D. Myers, The Pursuit of Happiness: Who Is Happy-- And Why (New York: William Morrow, 1993, p. 116).

In my work as a rehabilitation counselor I've learned that most of us really want and need to do some work. People with severe disabilities usually choose to work, even if they have disability income or family support. They may not need employment to pay the bills but still they choose to work. Our 22-year-old son, Tim, is a good example of this. He works part-time as a Wal-Mart greeter. He loves his job and could care less about money. His coworkers are like family to him. What about wealthy people like Bill Gates and Warren Buffett? Surely they don't need to work! But they do. Although many in the workforce may dream of quitting altogether, most who really have the choice to quit, don't. So, we have concluded that, for us, work is both good and necessary. But there are two problems with work that just cannot be ignored:

1. Work consumes far, far, too much of our time and life energy. As a couple, Mary and I work about 75 hours per week in our regular jobs. That doesn't include preparation time, commuting time (minimal for us, but significant for city dwellers), unwinding time, and other work projects, in addition to our regular jobs, that we pursue on the side because we love doing them. For most of us, work is our life and that's not healthy.

2. When we are totally dependent on a job to provide all of the necessities of life for ourselves and our children, we give our employers far too much power over us. We've all read about factory workers who have wet themselves because they weren't granted permission to use the bathroom. We've all seen safety violations resulting in injury and death. We've all experienced pressure to be productive or out the door.

The solution? Accumulate enough so you can cover all living expenses utilizing your assets and 10- 15 hours of work per week per spouse. You'll reap most of the benefits of work while avoiding most of the problems. You'll be working one or two days a week and pursuing your passions the rest of the time, while your peers are slugging it out to hang on to their full-time jobs. Your life will be better. Less worry, less anxiety, less fear-- time to do what you really want to do. It's possible. You can make it happen. This book breaks new ground. It is unusual for families with children to accumulate enough wealth to make a difference in a short time unless they are high earners. Our family has a formula that works. It could work for your family, too.

Are you a little cynical about the personal finance industry's hype and exaggerated claims? Does the whole area of personal finance conjure up negative images of things like boredom, complexity, and hopelessness? If you don't trust professional money managers but want to know how to manage your money and achieve more freedom, this book is for you. We have no conflicts of interest. Although we recommend specific investments, we do so only because we feel they're the best. Our strategies are based on real life experiences, involving day-to-day issues faced by most families. Unfortunately, the financial services industry doesn't understand these issues and has left middle-income families behind. They're using strategies designed for the wealthy and applying them to average families even though they usually fail.

This is not a radical or extreme book. It will guide you and your family toward financial freedom using sensible, realistic, logical, and reasonable strategies. Yes, it may seem radical to suggest that families with children earning modest incomes can achieve financial freedom, but we won't propose that you implement extreme changes to get there. In fact, the point of this book is to provide strategies to achieve financial independence without earning more money, relocating, or changing jobs. Ours is a moderate, non-threatening approach. What we have done, you can duplicate, and you won't need to make extensive changes or even suffer to do it.

We won't mislead you by claiming that this process is easy. It's not. Doable, yes. Stimulating, yes. Incredible relief if you make it, yes. Easy, no. For example, some of the concepts you need to learn to invest your money appropriately might be difficult to grasp. But you can do it. All you need to do is read, then read some more, then read some more. When we were just getting started, we took a week off work, got a pile of books, and plowed through them. We can recall the howling wind and subzero temperatures as we sat in our comfy recliners with the pile of books at our sides. It was a week that changed our lives. You can do that. We include a list of excellent, carefully hand-picked resources.

This book is understandable, informal, and conversational: We say what we'd say if you were sitting in our living room. It will challenge you to analyze how you do things and make creative adjustments so you can build assets without suffering. Because you aren't paid a lot, you simply can't afford to make big mistakes with your money, so you need to keep your head in the game and make smart choices. Learning, thoughtful reflection, and creativity lead to smart decisions and financial freedom without suffering. Anyone can just stop spending their income and pile up money, but it takes careful planning and creativity to build assets while still enjoying life. We built a large nest egg, we did it fast, and we did it without suffering. Your family can do that, too. You, too, can take your average family all the way to financial freedom. This book will show you the way.

Table of Contents

BUILDING A MONEY-SAVING MINDSET.

Love: The Impact of Money on Relationships.

Crisis: Maintaining Normalcy in a Crisis.

Comfort: How to Be Comfortable in a Modest Home.

SPENDING LESS IS EASIER THAN SAVING MORE.

Saving: Why Saving Doesn't Work.

Spending: The Double Whammy of Spending Control.

Borrowing: Despising Debt.

NECESSITIES AND A FEW EXTRAS.

Home: Choosing the Right House Will Make You or Break You.

Wheels: Car-Buying Secrets.

Entertainment: Having Fun Without Breaking the Bank.

Splurge: Coming Up for Air.

BIG TICKET MONEY SAVERS.

Research: Money-Saving Strategies for Big Ticket Purchases.

Scholarship: A Debt-Free College Education for $7000!

Taxes: Taking Advantage of Tax Breaks.

SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFE.

Supplies: Office Supplies You Must Have.

Files: Building a Bulletproof Filing System.

Sleep: The Costs of Losing Sleep.

PRACTICAL MONEY-SAVING SKILLS.

Maintenance: Make Your Things Last Forever.

Skills: Do It Yourself and Save.

BE YOUR OWN FINANCIAL EXPERT.

Planners: The Best Financial Planner for You Is You.

Foundation: Building Your Financial Future on Solid Footing.

Homework: Investing Knowledge ... Where to Get It.

INVESTING.

Bonds: Smoothing Out the Dips.

Cash: A Risky Investment.

Choosing: Drowning in a Sea of Choices.

Dumb Moves: Our Investment Mistakes.

RETIREMENT.

Plans: IRAs, Roths, 403(b)s, 401(k)s, SIMPLES, SEPs, Keoghs ...

Enough: Keeping Our Money from Petering Out Before We Do.

Threats: A Sample of Things That Can Go Wrong.

PARENTING.

Supper: We Raise Our Kids at Dinner.

Indulge: Spending Money on Kids.

Discipline: Chaos Poses a Threat to Your Family's Financial Health.

Afterword.

Index.
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