The Blessing: A Memoir

The Blessing: A Memoir

by Gregory Orr
The Blessing: A Memoir

The Blessing: A Memoir

by Gregory Orr

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Overview

Hailed on its original publication as "eloquent testimony to the engaging power of art in a man's life" (Washington Post), this deeply moving memoir, long out of print, is reissued with an illuminating new afterword.

When acclaimed poet Gregory Orr was twelve years old, he shot and killed his brother in a hunting accident. From the immediate aftermath—a period of shock, sadness, and isolation—it quickly became clear that support and guidance would not be coming from his distant mother. Nor would it come from his father, a philandering country doctor addicted to amphetamines. Left to his own devices, the boy suffered.

Guilt weighed on him throughout a childhood split between the rural Hudson Valley and jungles of Haiti. As a young man, his feelings and a growing sense of idealism prompted him to activism in the civil rights movement, where he marched and was imprisoned, and then scarred again by a terrifying abduction. Eventually, Orr’s experiences led him to understand that art, particularly poetry, could work as a powerful source of healing and meaning to combat the trauma he carried.

Throughout The Blessing, Orr articulates his journey in language as lyrical as it is authentic, gifting us all with a singular tale of survival, and of the transformation of suffering into art.


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781571313867
Publisher: Milkweed Editions
Publication date: 08/13/2019
Edition description: Reprint
Pages: 256
Product dimensions: 5.50(w) x 8.40(h) x 0.80(d)

About the Author

Gregory Orr is the author of more than ten collections of poems, including, most recently, The Last Love Poem I Will Ever Write. He is also the author of several volumes of essays, criticism, and memoir, including Poetry as Survival and A Primer for Poets and Readers of Poetry. Orr is the recipient of a Guggenheim Fellowship, two fellowships from the National Endowment for the Arts, and the Award in Literature from the American Academy of Arts and Letters for The Blessing. Orr was the founder and director of the MFA Program in Writing at the University of Virginia, and the longtime poetry editor of the Virginia Quarterly Review. He lives in Charlottesville, Virginia.

Read an Excerpt

Do I dare to say my brother's death was a blessing?

Who would recoil first from such a statement? A reader, unsure of its context, but instinctively uneasy with the sentiment? Or me, who knows more of the context than I sometimes think I can bear, having spent most of my life struggling with that death because I caused it? Can I keep my own nerve long enough to work my way through the strangeness of that word?

In French, the verb blesser means "to wound." In English, "to bless" is to confer spiritual power on someone or something by words or gestures. When children are christened or baptized in some Christian churches, the priest or minister blesses them by sprinkling holy water on their faces. But the modern word has darker, stranger roots. It comes from the Old English bletsian, which meant "to sprinkle with blood," and makes me think of ancient, grim forms of religious sacrifice where blood not water was the liquid possessing supernatural power -- makes me remember standing as a boy so close to a scene of violence that the blood of it baptized me.

To wound, to confer spiritual power, to sprinkle with blood. There is something about the intersection of these three meanings that penetrates to the heart of certain violent events of my childhood. I feel as if life itself were trying to reveal some mystery to me by making those three sources meet in my own life. To wound. To cause blood to flow out of a mortal body. To stand so near that I was spattered with the blood of it. And yet I did not die. Why was I spared? Now that I am in my fifties, I am finally brave enough to ask that aloud, although it is a question that has moved like an underground river below my whole life since that day, moved there with the steady, insistent rhythm of a heartbeat, as if the words themselves made the earth pulse through my feet. Why was I spared? I'm not sure there is any answer to my question.

I know I don't expect the answer to come from anyone else. I don't even expect it to come from me. Maybe it's because I'm a poet and I've spent my adult life believing words have the power to reveal what is hidden, but I believe the answer to my question emerges from this odd word itself, this "blessing" that conceals within its history such terrible words as "wound" and "blood."

Table of Contents

Contents

Part One
Blessing
Guns
The Accident
Meanings
Child Mind
Numb
The Field
Cain Continuing

Part Two
Alcove
Renssalaerville
Germantown
The Ditch
House Calls
Bottles
Books
New Heights
The Chiron

Part Three
After
Returning
A Dream
The Old House
Visitors
Plans
Haiti
My Mother’s Letters
The Paths
Voodun
Last Letter
The Operation
Leaving
The Green Bird

Part Four
Back to Germantown
Inga
School
The Maidens of Hades
The Thread of Poetry
The Excursion
College
Aftermath
Mississippi
Jackson
After the Long Day
Hayneville
Safe and Sound
The Other Field

What People are Saying About This

Robert Coles

Here is so very much of life's pain, but also its possibilities.
— author of The Spiritual Life of Children

Dorothy Allison

[Orr] has given us the making of a poet, showing us how he survived what would otherwise have destroyed him.
— author of Bastard Out of Carolina

Mark Doty

. . [Orr's] resulting search for the strength to make a life in the face of isolating sorrow, guilt, and grief.
— author of Firebird and Heaven's Coast

Kathleen Norris

This book is not about surviving pain so much as developing a writer's instinct for transforming it.
— author of Dakota and The Cloister Walk

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