Two great spiritual masters share their own hard-won wisdom about living with joy even in the face of adversity.
The occasion was a big birthday. And it inspired two close friends to get together in Dharamsala for a talk about something very important to them. The friends were His Holiness the Dalai Lama and Archbishop Desmond Tutu. The subject was joy. Both winners of the Nobel Prize, both great spiritual masters and moral leaders of our time, they are also known for being among the most infectiously happy people on the planet.
From the beginning the book was envisioned as a three-layer birthday cake: their own stories and teachings about joy, the most recent findings in the science of deep happiness, and the daily practices that anchor their own emotional and spiritual lives. Both the Dalai Lama and Archbishop Tutu have been tested by great personal and national adversity, and here they share their personal stories of struggle and renewal. Now that they are both in their eighties, they especially want to spread the core message that to have joy yourself, you must bring joy to others.
Most of all, during that landmark week in Dharamsala, they demonstrated by their own exuberance, compassion, and humor how joy can be transformed from a fleeting emotion into an enduring way of life.
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About the Author
His Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama, Tenzin Gyatso, describes himself as a simple Buddhist monk. He is the spiritual leader of Tibet. He was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize in 1989. He lives in exile in Dharamsala, India. He was born in 1935 to a poor farming family in northeastern Tibet and was recognized at the age of two as the reincarnation of his predecessor, the Thirteenth Dalai Lama. He travels extensively, speaking in favor of ecumenical understanding, kindness and compassion, respect for the environment, and, above all, world peace. For more information, please visit www.dalailama.com.
Desmond Mpilo Tutu, Archbishop Emeritus of Southern Africa, became a prominent leader in the crusade for justice and racial conciliation in South Africa. He was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize in 1984. In 1994, Tutu was appointed as Chair of South Africa’s Truth and Reconciliation Commission, where he pioneered a new way for countries to move forward after experiencing civil conflict and oppression. Archbishop Tutu is regarded as an elder world statesman, a leading moral voice, and an icon of hope. Throughout his life, he has cared deeply about the needs of people around the world, teaching love and compassion for all. For more information please visit www.tutu.org.za.
Douglas Abrams is an author, editor, and literary agent. He is the Founder and President of Idea Architects, a creative book and media agency helping visionaries to create a wiser, healthier, and more just world. Doug has worked with Desmond Tutu as his co-writer and editor for over a decade, and before founding his own literary agency, he was a Senior Editor at HarperCollins and also served for nine years as the Religion Editor at the University of California Press. He believes strongly in the power of books and media to catalyze the next stage of global evolutionary culture. For more information please visit www.ideaarchitects.com.
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“Is joy a feeling that comes and surprises us, or is it a more dependable way of being?” I asked. “For the two of you, joy seems to be something much more enduring. Your spiritual practice hasn’t made you somber and serious. It’s made you more joyful. So how can people cultivate that sense of joy as a way of being, and not just a temporary feeling?”
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Table of Contents
The Invitation to Joy ix
Arrival: We Are Fragile Creatures 11
Day 1 The Nature of True Joy 27
Why Are You Not Morose? 29
Nothing Beautiful Comes Without Some Suffering 43
Have You Renounced Pleasure? 51
Our Greatest Joy 59
Lunch: The Meeting of Two Mischievous People Is Wonderful 67
Days 2&3 The Obstacles to Joy 81
You Are a Masterpiece in the Making 83
Fear, Stress, and Anxiety: I Would Be Very Nervous 93
Frustration and Anger: I Would Shout 101
Sadness and Grief: The Hard Times Knit Us More Closely Together 109
Despair: The World Is in Such Turmoil 115
Loneliness: No Need for Introduction 125
Envy: That Guy Goes Past Yet Again in His Mercedes-Benz 135
Suffering and Adversity: Passing through Difficulties 145
Illness and Fear of Death: I Prefer to Go to Hell 159
Meditation: Now I'll Tell You a Secret Thing 171
Days 4&5 The Eight Pillars of Joy 191
1 Perspective: There Are Many Different Angles 193
2 Humility: I Tried to Look Humble and Modest 203
3 Humor: Laughter, Joking Is Much Better 215
4 Acceptance: The Only Place Where Change Can Begin 223
5 Forgiveness: Freeing Ourselves from the Past 229
6 Gratitude: I Am Fortunate to Be Alive 241
7 Compassion: Something We Want to Become 251
8 Generosity: We Are Filled with Joy 263
Celebration: Dancing in the Streets of Tibet 277
Departure: A Final Goodbye 291
Joy Practices 307
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
I just finished this book. This book has the makings to be a classic that we all could benefit one. I am definitely giving this as a gift to the readers in my family. I'd also recommend "When God Stopped Keeping Score" which takes tackles the difficult topic of God and forgiveness. I never cried so much reading a book because the words were so true from start to finish.
This book is very encouraging and uplifting to my spirit and it is a wonderful contrast to our strident political environment .
Uplifting lessons from two of the greatest people gracing our world. Truly well titled.
I read this book while going through a hard break up and it made me realize the importance of forgiving. It showed me how my pain and suffering diminishes when I focus on loving and giving to others. I loved it so much a purchased 3 copies to share with friends.
I just feel better after reading this book
A truly important book about how to face life's greatest challenges and still learn how to become a better person. I have bought at least seven copies of it so far to share with people in my life and all have felt that this book changed their lives.
I stayed up into the wee hours of the morning to finish this novel. I had intended to savor this novel, to read it slowly and reflect upon different sections as I read it but no, I couldn’t stop myself. Once I started reading, I was immersed into this wonderful reunion in which these two powerful individuals talked openly about humanity, they shared of themselves and the world around them. The reunion was held in the home of Dalai Lama and during their visit they also celebrated his 80th birthday. These two highly influential men have met a handful of times before and they were meeting for five days to discuss what true joy was, how to achieve it and what the Eight Pillars of Joy were. I enjoyed this novel tremendously, I enjoyed the humor and the tenderness that they shared between them. The way they joked with one another, the patting of each other after a humorous chuckle, the holding of each other’s hands and just waiting for the other person to speak, spoke volumes for the love and respect that they had for one another. It is a treasured friendship, one that is picked up immediately upon seeing one another and it brought smiles and laughs from the individuals that they were around including myself as I read. What I read intrigued me and enlightened me and I know that I will have to reread this novel to fully appreciate it. The reason this novel is so important now is that the world is hurting, in every part of the globe there are individuals who are struggling and need to find joy. There is no need for sorrow, they both agree on this. They both agree that individuals need each other to find joy and the concept behind joy. These great leaders go into great details, humorous at times, about these concepts and it was interesting, their ideas and the stories that they share, both personal and about others. Douglas probes them deeper into their thoughts about humanity exploring issues such as sadness, acceptance, gratitude, compassion and humility. There were lots of different subjects, stories and these leaders shared their views openly and I appreciated Douglas’ effort and the heartfelt responses that he received in return. My eyes started to cloud over, the tears streaming down my cheeks as the Archbishop gets ready to depart for the airport. Their time together is over for now. The jokes, the hand holding and the way that they smiled at one another is coming to an end. They are both fighting for peace, they are both getting up there in years, one is battling an illness, and one is restricted in where he can travel, who knows if they will ever see each other in-person again and they know this. This is a novel that should be read, one that should be reflected upon for there are many inspirations and views inside.
The author of this book does an excellent in writing the account of the several days with these two great figures. I found it was interesting that they were such dear friends. They have impish humor and delightful joy; their perspectives are humbling. This is a book that I will read time and again.
With humor and humility, Archbishop Tutu and the Dalai Lama discuss the pillars of true joy, providing insight and reflections for individual (and potentially global) happiness.