Table of Contents
Introduction 12
Chapter 1 Why Have a Micro Wedding? 15
What Is a Micro Wedding? 17
1 You Can Focus On What's Important 17
2 You Can Personalize Your Wedding 18
3 You'll Save Money 23
4 You Can Help the Environment 29
5 You Won't Have to Wait 31
Chapter 2 The Wedding Date and Tone 33
Telling Your Families 35
Announcing Your Micro Wedding 38
Choosing a Date 40
Setting the Tone Early On 45
Budgeting a Micro Wedding 46
Consider a Wedding Planner 48
Chapter 3 The Guest List 53
Set a Maximum Number 55
Who to Invite (and Who Not to Invite) 57
The Wedding Party 60
Virtual Attendees 61
Invitations 64
How to Handle Those Left Out 77
Chapter 4 The Venue 79
Finding the Perfect Venue 81
Event Venues, Mansions, Hotels, and Restaurants 82
Vacation Rentals 87
Public Spaces 88
Backyard Weddings 93
Destination Weddings 97
Plan for Rain 103
Chapter 5 The Ceremony 105
Traditional or Personal? 107
LGBTQIA+ Wedding Ceremonies 115
The Officiant 117
Including Family and Friends 119
Chapter 6 Wedding Style 123
What to Wear 125
Traditional or Personal Style? 132
Attendant Style 134
Flowers and Other Decor 135
Signage 145
Chapter 7 Food Beverages, and Music 149
Your Menu and Catering 151
Wedding Cake and Other Desserts 158
Beverages 159
Rental Options 163
Ceremony Music 165
Reception Music 168
Chapter 8 Photography, Videography, and Online Wedding Components 173
Photography 175
Videography 185
Adding an Online Component 186
Social Media 190
Chapter 9 Showers and Other Parties 193
Engagement Parties 195
Wedding Showers 195
Bachelor and Bachelorette Parties 206
Rehearsal Dinner 206
Welcome Reception 207
Wedding Day versus Wedding Weekend 209
Morning-After Brunch 213
Additional Wedding Receptions 214
Chapter 10 DIY Ideas for Every Part of Your Wedding 215
Stationery Items and Signage 217
Flowers and Decor 222
Food and Drinks 226
Vows 231
Music 234
Photography 235
Appendix: Wedding Planning Checklists 239
Budgeting Your Micro Wedding (Chapter 2) 241
Invitation and Insert Wording (Chapter 3) 244
Catering Checklist (Chapter 7) 250
Floral Design Worksheet (Chapters 6 and 10) 252
Beer and Wine-Only Bar Checklist (Chapter 7) 258
Index 260