Table of Contents
Part 1 Up Close and Personal (All about Sex)
1 What Is Great Sex? 1
2 Let's Get Medical (How Sex Works) 11
3 Let's Get Frisky! The Sexual Response Cycle 24
Part 2 The Three Components of Great Sex
Physical Pleasure
4 Mind the Gap! 41
5 Going Back to Square One 50
6 Ladies First (All about Orgasm) 58
7 When Sex Isn't Working 75
Emotional Companionship and Closeness
8 The Greatest Need 89
9 Sex Sorta Begins in the Kitchen (But Not Why You Think) 100
10 Let's Get Romantic 110
Spiritual Intimacy and Oneness
11 Making Love, Not Just Having Sex 121
12 When Sex Seems Ugly 128
13 Is Sex a Need? 136
14 You Don't Need That Fix 147
15 Beyond Bouncing Your Eyes 163
16 Adding Some Spice 174
Part 3 Putting It All Together
17 When You Want More 187
Final Thoughts: The Truck Stop and the Five-Star Restaurant 202
Appendix 1 Getting Ready for the Honeymoon 205
Appendix 2 Discussion Questions 221
Acknowledgments 227
Notes 231