Table of Contents
Acknowledgments ix
Introduction 1
The Therapist as Teacher: Psychoeducation in Solution-Oriented Treatment 2
The Therapeutic Relationship: The Basis for Healthy Change 3
Solution-Oriented Treatment: Catching the Wave 4
How This Book Is Organized 9
Recommended Resources 11
Chapter 1 The Stress Solution: Tension as Motivation 13
Treatment Tips 17
A Toolkit of Metaphors for Treating Stress 25
Therapeutic Takeaways 26
Handouts 26
Recommended Resources 38
Chapter 2 The Anxiety Solution: Calming Irrational Fears 40
Treatment Tips 43
A Toolkit of Metaphors for Treating Anxiety 59
Therapeutic Takeaways 61
Handouts 62
Recommended Resources 73
Chapter 3 The Depression Solution: Beating the Blues 75
Treatment Tips 77
A Toolkit of Metaphors for Treating Depression 95
Therapeutic Takeaways 96
Handouts 96
Recommended Resources 106
Chapter 4 The Anger Solution: Giving Up the Grudge 108
Treatment Tips 110
A Toolkit of Metaphors for Treating Anger 125
Therapeutic Takeaways 127
Handouts 128
Recommended Resources 138
Chapter 5 The Procrastination Solution: Helping Your Clients Implement Good Habits 139
Treatment Tips 141
A Toolkit of Metaphors for Treating Procrastination 159
Therapeutic Takeaways 161
Handouts 162
Recommended Resources 172
Chapter 6 The Conflict Solution: Improving Problematic Relationships 174
Treatment Tips 177
A Toolkit of Metaphors for Conflict 190
Therapeutic Takeaways 192
Handouts 193
Recommenced Resources 205
Chapter 7 The Forgiveness Solution: Helping Your Clients Set Themselves Free 207
Treatment Tips 210
A Toolkit of Metaphors for Forgiveness 224
Therapeutic Takeaways 226
Handouts 227
Recommended Resources 237
Chapter 8 The Low-Self-Esteem Solution: Busting Core Irrational Beliefs 238
Treatment Tips 241
A Toolkit of Metaphors for Treating Low Self-Esteem 256
Therapeutic Takeaways 257
Handouts 258
Recommended Resources 268
Chapter 9 The Regret Solution: Moving Past Remorse 280
Treatment Tips 273
A Toolkit of Metaphors for Treating Regret 286
Therapeutic Takeaways 287
Handouts 287
Recommended Resources 295
Chapter 10 The Change-Resistance Solution: Flexibility for Personal Transformation 296
Treatment Tips 299
A Toolkit of Metaphors for Treating Change Resistance 313
Therapeutic Takeaways 314
Handouts 314
Recommended Resources 322
Chapter 11 Putting Solutions Into Practice: 10 Ultimate Therapeutic Solutions 323
1 Use Psychoeducation to Teach Clients in Almost Every Session 323
2 Start Each Session With a Mood Check 324
3 Start the Session by Clarifying Goals and Agenda 324
4 Use Creative Visualizations and Experiential Activities 325
5 Use Self-Help Assignments Between Sessions 326
6 Get in the Habit of Asking for Feedback 327
7 Use Metaphors to Unlock Emotion and Insight 328
8 Use Metaphorical Props 329
9 Using Role-Play Variations for Skill Building 330
10 Use Positive Psychology and Wellness Resources Available Through Social Media and the Internet 331
10 Ultimate Therapeutic Solutions Checklist 332
Bibliography 335
Index 343