Ultimate Guide to Fellatio: How to Go Down on a Man and Give Him Mind-Blowing Pleasure

by Violet Blue

Overview

In the best book on the art of the blow job, both beginners and experienced oral enthusiasts will find plenty of instruction and inspiration in The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio. Blue delivers details, encouragement, and every tip and trick for better oral sex while dispelling common myths and misunderstandings. In a straightforward and friendly tone, she explains how to make giving head enjoyable for both giver and receiver, how to keep your lipstick perfect, how to deep throat passionately and comfortably, and more. Additional information on positions, lubrication, shaving, anal play, fantasies, and sex toys make this the most well-rounded book on the subject of fellatio. This updated edition includes a foreword by Mary Roach, short erotic stories by Alison Tyler, and a new resource guide of relevant books, DVDs, and websites.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781573443982
Publisher:	Start Publishing LLC
Publication date:	08/03/2010
Series:	Ultimate Guides (Cleis)
Edition description:	Second Edition
Pages:	272
Sales rank:	687,595
Product dimensions:	6.94(w) x 11.28(h) x 0.73(d)

About the Author

VIOLET BLUE (tinynibbles.com) is a blogger, high-profile tech personality, award-winning bestselling author and editor of more than two dozen books in five languages, podcaster, reporter for Web TV show GETV, technology futurist, and sex-positive pundit in mainstream media such as The Oprah Winfrey Show, CNN and The Tyra Banks Show. She is the sex columnist for the San Francisco Chronicle, with a weekly column titled "Open Source Sex," and she runs a podcast by the same name with more than 8 million downloads and counting. Violet is also a Forbes Web Celeb and one of Wired's Faces of Innovation. She writes for media outlets such as Forbes; O, The Oprah Magazine; and the UN-sponsored international health organization RH Reality Check. Violet gives lectures to cyberlaw classes at UC Berkeley, human sexuality programs at UCSF, and tech conferences (ETech and SXSW), in addition to sex crisis counselors at community teaching institutions and Google Tech Talks. Her tech blog is at techyum.com, and she publishes DRMfree audio and e-books at DigitaPub.com.

Table of Contents

Preface Mary Roach ix

Introduction: A New View of an Everyday Sex Act xi

Chapter 1 More Than a Mouthful 1

So Nice to Get, So Nice to Give

Talk About It

When Your Lover Is Reluctant

Trying New Things

Chapter 2 The Anatomy of a Man's Pleasure 18

Appearance and Pleasure Physiology

His Sexual Response Cycle

High Tea

Chapter 3 For Him 36

A Prelude to a Kiss

How Do I Look?

Do Vegetarians Taste Better?

Erection Questions

Coming Too Soon

Masturbation and Fantasy

Head Etiquette

Staying Safe and Getting Off

Chapter 4 Know the Hard Facts: Health Considerations 59

Is Fellatio Risky?

STDs and Fellatio

Safer Sex

Safer Sex Made Easy: Gear

The Eroticism of Safer Sex

Chapter 5 Hair and Hygiene 77

His Pubic Hair

How to Shave or Trim

Razor Burn

Waxing-For Men?

Aromas and Flavors

A Taste of Honey

Close Shave

Chapter 6 Before You Go Down 92

Practice, Practice, Practice

Relaxation and Arousal

Using Your Hands

Male Genital Massage

Gauging His Response

Foreplay Games for Lovers

Don't Stop

Chapter 7 Giving Head 111

Your First Tastes

The Pierced Penis

Using Your Mouth and Hands

On Gagging

Rhythm: The Essence of a Blow Job

Bump and Grind: Pre-Orgasmic Body Language

Orgasm

Boys Will Be Boys

Chapter 8 Any Way You Want It 134

Positions

Jaw Cramp

Fellatio for Injured or Disabled People

Keep Your Lipstick Perfect

How to Co Down on a Strap-On

Back Alley Baby

Chapter 9 Deep Throat 151

The Anatomy of the Mouth and Throat

Tips for Avoiding Gagging

Practice First

An Aphrodisiac for the Orally Fixated

Taking Deep Throat Further

Oral Authority

Chapter 10 More Techniques 168

Sex Toys

Anal Penetration

Rimming

His Erotic Pressure Points

Cough Drops and Ice Cubes

The Flavored Penis

Chapter 11 To the Limit 193

Using Fantasy in Reality

Power Exchange

Gender Play

When a Little Pain Is Nice

Pain, Pain, Don't Co Away

Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down: Bondage

Men at Work

Chapter 12 Independent Study: Erotic Books and Videos 215

How to Watch Erotic Videos

How-To Videos

Recommend Reading

Chapter 13 Resources 231

Online and Mail Order

Retail Stores

Canadian Resources

Safer-Sex Resources

Sex Education Classes and Workshops: Organizations

Sex-Related Web Sites

Chapter 14 References 247

Books

Videos

About the Author 252