The national liberation army of certified psychologists, and thousands of science fiction books written by them: "How to overcome poverty, low self-esteem, and become meaningful, which means happy," all of them focus on the main question: "How to learn to make the right decisions? " Maybe the question was initially asked incorrectly? If we put the question differently, namely: "How to become a person capable of making the right decisions?" then, soon, we will discover an amazing secret, and we will understand that this is impossible. The problem of the human race cannot be solved by any number of books explaining how we need to live. We need strength, to do what we do not have the strength to do. "Since my life changed its course, and helping homeless and suffering people became its meaning, I began to collect stories of mutilated fates. Conducting sociological surveys in places of their accumulation, I asked myself with one single thought: "Why? Why did what happen? How did a once beautiful woman with a high level of intelligence find herself on the street and sell herself for a dose of drugs or a meal? " These stories were "waiting in the wings", while one "random" moment led to the writing of this book, which would have more questions than answers. Our life consists of such small moments, and I want my reader to see this simple and clear moment, which can become crucial for him ... This book is compiled from the sayings of different people who have fundamentally influenced my life. I am very grateful to my teachers and mentors for their spiritual and intellectual experience, which they were able to convey to me. Their analytical studies and wise advice for practical life seem so useful that I consider it my duty to share this experience with people who are eager for radical changes. Having summarized these "pearl thoughts", I supplemented them with observations and episodes from my life, and wrote them down in a logical narrative. "After all, knowledge is a good gift of hospitality offered to other people" I have traveled the cruel path of "loneliness together", experienced rejection, betrayal and poverty. And the aimless existence of a person burning a life without meaning and purpose is perhaps the greatest of all possible tragedies. This is not just black ink on white pages, but the real facts reflected in the mirror with bitter reality. This is the story of a tormented soul who realized that Happiness Is! "