Author Lady M presents this guide as a testimony resulting from circumstances surrounding her own relationships that were not in alignment with God's purpose and plan, but initiated by her own will, even years later after entering into a marriage that ended in divorce. During her separation, the Lord pressed upon her heart the inspiration to express the importance of seeking God in your friendship, courtship, and marriage.

So You Want to Be Married is aimed at the women and men who desire to be married, but only think about the hype of the wedding day, forgetting about the vows, the commitment, and the true meaning of marriage. It intends to minister to the heart of the Lord's people so they may receive the knowledge to wait for that special mate chosen by our Father, with testimonies throughout the book from brothers and sisters of the body sharing words of encouragement.