Compelled to Control: Recovering Intimacy in Broken Relationships

this exciting book breaks new ground in identifying the major cause of relationship failure as the need to control — in marriages and families, with friends and within organizations. Compelled to Control reflects Miller’s sweeping knowledge as a thinker, a speakers and a writer. Going far beyond “how to control a controller,” Miller speaks from the perspective of experience and personal change.

”When a controller has the sense of life being out of control,” he says, “he or she reacts with a...