Doing the Right Things for the Right Reasons

by Richard L. Bednar, Scott R. Peterson

Overview

Are you motivated by a desire to impress others? Do you find yourself overwhelmed by others' expectations? Are you running in circles trying to keep up and getting more and more miserable for all your trouble? If so, you may be doing the right things for the wrong reasons. And, according to authors Richard L. Bednar and Scott R. Peterson, that can be hazardous to our spiritual and emotional health. They explain why it is essential to our well-being to do the right things for the right reasons: "Imagine what life would be like if we did not fear others knowing who we truly are. By doing the right things for the right reasons, we become free of pretense, free of the need to avoid what we fear about ourselves because there is nothing to fear." Avoiding psychological jargon and using numerous examples from the lives of ordinary people, the authors explain: How faith in God works in a practical way to help you cope Why keeping secrets locked away is unhealthy Why the "white knuckle" approach to overcoming bad habits seldom works. How to confront your weaknesses and deepest concerns and turn them into strengths If you have ever felt victimized and misunderstood, been overcome by feelings of guilt and inadequacy, found it difficult to develop meaningful relationships, failed to feel rewarded by charitable acts, or chafed under a church assignment, there may be good reasons. This book will help you understand those reasons. Then it will help you change what motivates you. As your outward behavior becomes a natural expression of your righteous inward desires, your relationships will be enhanced, your productivity will be increased, your service will become more meaningful, and you will have a healthier, more positive outlook. As with most adventures in life, this kind of introspection can be a bit intimidating. But the thrill of discovering who you are is worth the risk.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781609084127
Publisher:	Deseret Book Company
Publication date:	11/16/2010
Sold by:	Barnes & Noble
Format:	eBook
File size:	168 KB

About the Author

Richard L. Bednar, a professor of psychology at Brigham Young University, has published widely in professional books and journals. A member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, he has served as a bishop and Sunday School teacher. He and his wife, Saundra, are the parents of three children; Scott R. Peterson was a training and development specialist with LDS Social Services for fourteen years before becoming a writer and producer of educational videos. Brother Peterson has served as Young Men’s president, counselor in a bishopric, and primary chorister. He and his wife, Lynne, have five children.