This book is designed to educate both people in the
PUA community and people who are interested in being
better at finding women and dating them. If you are
unfamiliar with the term PUA, it stands for Pick-up Artist,
and represents a community of people who are primarily
interested in the science of attraction and how to apply that
science "in the field", or in layman's terms, "at the club" (or
bar, or wherever they want to meet a women).
It would be stupid of me to say that the PUA
community offers nothing to men who want improve their
"game". Their scientific approach is definitely appealing and
enlightening, and you can get a lot of value from it. I tried it
myself, and I did have success.
But I didn't have the kind of success that I wanted. I
had women want me, but I didn't feel like I was being real,
and it really bothered me. All of the canned material, field
reports, creating an avatar, the whole thing felt weird. I
didn't like the idea of having to invent an avatar, develop a
specific look, or build a new personality just to meet women.
What's wrong with mine?