Men Can: The Changing Image and Reality of Fatherhood in America

Fatherhood is evolving in America. Stay at home dads are becoming more commonplace; men are becoming more visible in domestic, caregiving activities. In Men Can, writer, teacher, and father Donald Unger uses his personal experiences, stories of real-life families, as well as representations of fathers in film, on television, and in advertising, to illuminate the role of men in the increasingly fluid domestic sphere.

In thoughtful interviews, Don Unger tells the stories of a half dozen families—of varied ethnicities, geographical locations, and philosophical orientations—in which fathers are either primary or equally sharing parents, personalizing what is changing in how Americans care for their children. These stories are complemented by a discussion of how the language of parenting has evolved and how media representations of fathers have shifted over several decades.   

Men Can shows how real change can take place when families divide up domestic labor on a gender-neutral basis.  The families whose stories he tells offer insights into the struggles of—and opportunities for—men caring for children. When it comes to taking up the responsibility of parenting, his argument, ultimately, is in favor of respecting personal choices and individual differences, crediting and supporting functional families, rather than trying to force every household into a one-size-fits-all mold. 

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Men Can: The Changing Image and Reality of Fatherhood in America

Fatherhood is evolving in America. Stay at home dads are becoming more commonplace; men are becoming more visible in domestic, caregiving activities. In Men Can, writer, teacher, and father Donald Unger uses his personal experiences, stories of real-life families, as well as representations of fathers in film, on television, and in advertising, to illuminate the role of men in the increasingly fluid domestic sphere.

In thoughtful interviews, Don Unger tells the stories of a half dozen families—of varied ethnicities, geographical locations, and philosophical orientations—in which fathers are either primary or equally sharing parents, personalizing what is changing in how Americans care for their children. These stories are complemented by a discussion of how the language of parenting has evolved and how media representations of fathers have shifted over several decades.   

Men Can shows how real change can take place when families divide up domestic labor on a gender-neutral basis.  The families whose stories he tells offer insights into the struggles of—and opportunities for—men caring for children. When it comes to taking up the responsibility of parenting, his argument, ultimately, is in favor of respecting personal choices and individual differences, crediting and supporting functional families, rather than trying to force every household into a one-size-fits-all mold. 

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Men Can: The Changing Image and Reality of Fatherhood in America

Men Can: The Changing Image and Reality of Fatherhood in America

by Donald Unger
Men Can: The Changing Image and Reality of Fatherhood in America

Men Can: The Changing Image and Reality of Fatherhood in America

by Donald Unger

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Overview

Fatherhood is evolving in America. Stay at home dads are becoming more commonplace; men are becoming more visible in domestic, caregiving activities. In Men Can, writer, teacher, and father Donald Unger uses his personal experiences, stories of real-life families, as well as representations of fathers in film, on television, and in advertising, to illuminate the role of men in the increasingly fluid domestic sphere.

In thoughtful interviews, Don Unger tells the stories of a half dozen families—of varied ethnicities, geographical locations, and philosophical orientations—in which fathers are either primary or equally sharing parents, personalizing what is changing in how Americans care for their children. These stories are complemented by a discussion of how the language of parenting has evolved and how media representations of fathers have shifted over several decades.   

Men Can shows how real change can take place when families divide up domestic labor on a gender-neutral basis.  The families whose stories he tells offer insights into the struggles of—and opportunities for—men caring for children. When it comes to taking up the responsibility of parenting, his argument, ultimately, is in favor of respecting personal choices and individual differences, crediting and supporting functional families, rather than trying to force every household into a one-size-fits-all mold. 


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781439900024
Publisher: Temple University Press
Publication date: 07/29/2010
Sold by: Barnes & Noble
Format: eBook
Pages: 240
File size: 358 KB

About the Author

Donald N.S. Unger is a Lecturer in the Program in Writing and Humanistic Studies at MIT.

Table of Contents

Acknowledgments 
Introduction: When You Comin' Home, Dad? 
1. Ángel Nieto: The Leading Edge of Change 
2. The Problem of Language: Can Fathers Mother? 
3. Tom Andrejev: The Matter of Trust 
4. TV Dads: One Step Forward and Two Steps Back 
5. Darryl Smith: Recovering Our Own Fathers 
6. Poppins versus Kramer: Dad, You Have Really Changed! 
7. Ronnie Huang: What If We Don't Put Him in Day Care? 
8. TV Commercials and the New American Family 
9. Kevin Knussman: The Trooper Dad 
Epilogue 
Afterword 
Appendix A: Comparative Word Frequency (2006 and 2009) 
Appendix B: AT&T Wireless Commercial, "Business Trip," Shot Sequence (Approximate) 
Appendix C: Comparative Word Frequency (2004 and 2006) 
Notes 
Selected Bibliography 
Index

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