This is the life-changing and groundbreaking international and New York Times bestseller that first introduced the term "commitmentphobia". Here’s the problem: Many men have an exaggerated fear of commitment. If you are a contemporary woman, there is a very good chance that you are going to be involved with at least one man who chooses to walk away from love. It may be the man who doesn’t call after a particularly good first date; it may be the ardent pursuer who woos you only to leave after the first night of sex; it may be the trusted boyfriend and lover who sabotages the relationship just as it heads for marriage, or it may be the husband who waits until after marriage to respond to the enormity of his commitment by ignoring your emotional needs and becoming unfaithful or abusive. Whenever it happens, chances are you are dealing with a man who has an abnormal response to the notion of commitment.
"The first book of its type to address the problems of courtship in today’s very complex world"
-- West Coast Review of Books
"Helpful...Well done."
-- Houston Chronicle
