Do women generally categorize you as a “nice guy??”
Do they really now . . .
Okay, let me ask you something.
Is that “nice guy” tag helping to improve your social life, love life and/or sex life??
99.9% chance, I doubt it.
Many women SAY they want a “nice guy,” but realistically … don't believe the hype.
Women want a man who stimulates them ...
Intellectually . . .
Emotionally . . .
The #1 non-physical characteristic that enhances your sex appeal with a woman is a 'fearless' sense of self-confidence & self-assurance as well as straightforward honesty.
This is exactly what the principles of Mode One Behavior provide you with.
When you're afraid of being criticized by women, disliked by women, rejected by women, and/or indefinitely ignored by women ... guess what?? You will experience all of those miserable responses from women. Fear is essentially a self-fulfilling prophecy. When you 'fear' something, that means, subconsciously, you don't want it to happen, but you fully EXPECT it to happen.
What many men don’t consciously realize is, many women will pretend to have one set of desires, interests, and intentions, when in reality, they may have a totally different set of desires, interests, and intentions.
Let’s say you were in the company of a woman who “pretended” to only be interested in a serious, long-term, monogamous relationship, but in reality, she really wanted to engage in casual sex. How would you know the difference? If you were in the company of a woman who “pretended” to be sexually conservative and/or prudish, but in reality, was really, really erotically uninhibited and kinky, how would you know the difference? If you were in the company of a woman who wanted nothing more than to manipulate you, waste your time, and get you to spend money ‘wining & dining’ them, but they were “pretending” to have a genuine interest in you, how would you know the difference?
MODE ONE explains how you will almost immediately be able to distinguish the difference between genuine, non-manipulative women, and the more phony, manipulative, duplicitous type women.
Rejection by women is not your #1 enemy.
Subjective criticisms and/or opinionated insults are not your #1 enemy.
Wasting TIME and MONEY pursuing women who are not genuinely interested in you is your true #1 enemy.
What are you waiting for?? The paperback version and E-Book version of my book, Mode One: Let The Women Know What You're REALLY Thinking can be purchased RIGHT NOW. (And if you’re a woman reading this … many of those who have already read the E-Book version have been women! Women can exhibit Mode One Behavior to their benefit as well).
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
Alan really breaks some stuff down. I think women and men should approach reading the book as a learning tool!
I haven't read the paperback version yet, but if it is the same as the ebook version, then most readers should enjoy it. I thought this book might bash women, but the author does not. He is fair in his criticisms of men and women's manipulative behavior. I think women will enjoy reading this book just as much, if not more, than most men will.
Currie basically defines four modes of communication that men use to talk to women, all of which vary in their effectiveness and directness. His main premise is that men are most efficient and have the greatest success with women when they communicate via Mode 1, which means being strong and direct about their intentions. What I liked: It's a short read. He is realistic in his recognition that his methods are not magic and that rejection by some women is inevitable. He makes his points very clearly. If you are a frustrated ‘nice guy,’ you can benefit from heeding Currie’s advice. What I disliked: Too few examples of actual dialogue. This left me wondering about the details of his interactions with women. He didn't really touch on non-verbals. He only briefly touches on the root causes of poor communication. Some areas of the book are slightly repetitive. Overall, I like the premise of this book. It reads in a conversational tone and at some points, Currie even sounds a bit like a coach. If you're a man who feels reluctant to express sexual interest in women, this may help you. However, I got much more out of Models: Attract Women Through Honesty, by Mark Manson. He delves deeper into the causes of men's shortfalls regarding connecting with women and I personally felt that Manson did a better job of helping me come to useful conclusions. Models is more comprehensive than Mode One in terms of understanding attraction and breaking barriers that prevent sexual chemistry. Mode One is strictly about verbal communication, with a stress on being outwardly sexual (not a bad thing – just reporting the facts). Mode One is a good quick read that basically explains why men benefit from being upfront about their intentions with women. I enjoyed it. It's better than any PUA guide/routine/line or other indirect nonsense you will ever read.
Alan Currie's book Mode One is an excellent Model that can be applied far beyond relationships and seduction. The book is about conquering your fear of rejection or sucesss whatever that may be. In essence 'Mode One' encourages you to let it all hang and deal with the results of it. I recently finished 'The Alchemist' and although the books take different journeys the resounding 'bottom line' both use as prevailing themes is for an individual to go beyond boundaries that are man made. I'm especially glad that Mr. Currie doesn't give 'Pick Up Lines' or techniques because everyone can't walk up to a woman and say 'I'd like to have you for dinner,' without having a bowl of hot soup plastered across their face.....Instead it encourages you to be brutally honest within yourself of what you want whether it's sex from a woman or a promotion at work irregardless of what minor consequences may await.....Bravo Mr. Currie!