Passive-Aggression: Understanding the Sufferer, Helping the Victim, 2nd Edition

Contrary to what is implied in the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition (DSM-5), and what some practitioners have believed in recent years, new thinking points to passive-aggression being a full disorder. A counterrevolution is now occurring, with some of the most centrist of authors participating in a concerted drive to bring back the diagnosis as being one of the fundamental personality disorders—indeed, a disorder that describes individuals with a distinctly troublesome personality. In this new book, Martin Kantor—a Harvard-trained psychiatrist and noted author of numerous medical texts—takes a new look at passive-aggression and passive-aggressive personality disorder (PAPD) that precisely and scientifically defines it in terms of description, causality, and therapeutic intervention, all based on recent theoretical findings.

Kantor makes a powerful argument that passive-aggression can only be reliably identified by answering three fundamental questions, the answers to which define the disorder: why these patients get so angry; why these patients cannot express their anger directly; and what anger styles they employ to express their aggressions. His examination of passive-aggression, which involves two people enmeshed with each other, logically takes two distinct points of view: that of the passive-aggressive individual, and that of his or her "victim" or "target." Specific clinical observation is presented to clarify theory. The book explains how passive-aggression can develop into a complex dyadic interaction in which it is difficult to determine who is doing what to whom, who started it, and what path to take to deescalate; and how using mutual understanding and healthy empathy plus compassion can preclude getting involved in sadomasochistic mutual provocation. The author also suggests ways for those who suffer from passive-aggression to be less hypersensitive, and to express what hypersensitivity they can't help feeling more directly, rather than via the various unhealthy anger styles that constitute the passive-aggressive modus operandi.

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Passive-Aggression: Understanding the Sufferer, Helping the Victim, 2nd Edition

Contrary to what is implied in the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition (DSM-5), and what some practitioners have believed in recent years, new thinking points to passive-aggression being a full disorder. A counterrevolution is now occurring, with some of the most centrist of authors participating in a concerted drive to bring back the diagnosis as being one of the fundamental personality disorders—indeed, a disorder that describes individuals with a distinctly troublesome personality. In this new book, Martin Kantor—a Harvard-trained psychiatrist and noted author of numerous medical texts—takes a new look at passive-aggression and passive-aggressive personality disorder (PAPD) that precisely and scientifically defines it in terms of description, causality, and therapeutic intervention, all based on recent theoretical findings.

Kantor makes a powerful argument that passive-aggression can only be reliably identified by answering three fundamental questions, the answers to which define the disorder: why these patients get so angry; why these patients cannot express their anger directly; and what anger styles they employ to express their aggressions. His examination of passive-aggression, which involves two people enmeshed with each other, logically takes two distinct points of view: that of the passive-aggressive individual, and that of his or her "victim" or "target." Specific clinical observation is presented to clarify theory. The book explains how passive-aggression can develop into a complex dyadic interaction in which it is difficult to determine who is doing what to whom, who started it, and what path to take to deescalate; and how using mutual understanding and healthy empathy plus compassion can preclude getting involved in sadomasochistic mutual provocation. The author also suggests ways for those who suffer from passive-aggression to be less hypersensitive, and to express what hypersensitivity they can't help feeling more directly, rather than via the various unhealthy anger styles that constitute the passive-aggressive modus operandi.

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Passive-Aggression: Understanding the Sufferer, Helping the Victim, 2nd Edition

Passive-Aggression: Understanding the Sufferer, Helping the Victim, 2nd Edition

by Martin Kantor MD
Passive-Aggression: Understanding the Sufferer, Helping the Victim, 2nd Edition

Passive-Aggression: Understanding the Sufferer, Helping the Victim, 2nd Edition

by Martin Kantor MD

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Contrary to what is implied in the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition (DSM-5), and what some practitioners have believed in recent years, new thinking points to passive-aggression being a full disorder. A counterrevolution is now occurring, with some of the most centrist of authors participating in a concerted drive to bring back the diagnosis as being one of the fundamental personality disorders—indeed, a disorder that describes individuals with a distinctly troublesome personality. In this new book, Martin Kantor—a Harvard-trained psychiatrist and noted author of numerous medical texts—takes a new look at passive-aggression and passive-aggressive personality disorder (PAPD) that precisely and scientifically defines it in terms of description, causality, and therapeutic intervention, all based on recent theoretical findings.

Kantor makes a powerful argument that passive-aggression can only be reliably identified by answering three fundamental questions, the answers to which define the disorder: why these patients get so angry; why these patients cannot express their anger directly; and what anger styles they employ to express their aggressions. His examination of passive-aggression, which involves two people enmeshed with each other, logically takes two distinct points of view: that of the passive-aggressive individual, and that of his or her "victim" or "target." Specific clinical observation is presented to clarify theory. The book explains how passive-aggression can develop into a complex dyadic interaction in which it is difficult to determine who is doing what to whom, who started it, and what path to take to deescalate; and how using mutual understanding and healthy empathy plus compassion can preclude getting involved in sadomasochistic mutual provocation. The author also suggests ways for those who suffer from passive-aggression to be less hypersensitive, and to express what hypersensitivity they can't help feeling more directly, rather than via the various unhealthy anger styles that constitute the passive-aggressive modus operandi.


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781440837913
Publisher: ABC-CLIO, Incorporated
Publication date: 10/03/2017
Sold by: Barnes & Noble
Format: eBook
Pages: 273
File size: 1 MB

About the Author

Martin Kantor, MD, is a Harvard-trained psychiatrist who has been in full private practice in Boston and New York City and active in residency training programs at hospitals including Massachusetts General in Boston, MA, and Beth Israel in New York, NY.

Table of Contents

Acknowledgments ix

Introduction: An Overview xi

Part 1 Description

Chapter 1 Making the Diagnosis 3

Chapter 2 Differential Diagnosis 19

Chapter 3 Anger Triggers: Reasons Why Passive-Aggressives Get So Angry 29

Chapter 4 More Reasons Why Passive-Aggressives Get So Angry (More Anger Triggers) 43

Chapter 5 Reasons Passive-Aggressives Can Only Express Their Anger Indirectly 63

Chapter 6 Anger Styles 89

Chapter 7 Other (Nonsyndromal) Anger Styles: Tactical, Cognitive-Behavioral, Interpersonal, and Biological Features 109

Chapter 8 Pseudopassive-Aggressives 125

Part 2 Victims of Passive-Aggressives

Chapter 9 Pseudovictims 133

Chapter 10 More Interactions Between Passive-Aggressives and Their Victims 139

Chapter 11 Sadomasochism 149

Part 3 Treatment

Chapter 12 Introduction to Treatment/Psychoanalytically Oriented Psychotherapy 161

Chapter 13 Cognitive Therapy 171

Chapter 14 Interpersonal Therapy 181

Chapter 15 Transference and Counter transference Issues 193

Chapter 16 Victims of Passive-Aggression 207

Chapter 17 Helping Passive-Aggressives Become Less So 233

Chapter 18 Anger Management 243

Notes 251

Index 263

What People are Saying About This

Scott Wetzler

“The second edition of Dr. Kantor’s well-researched book helps to rescue the concept of ‘passive-aggression’ from the rubbish bin to which DSM-5 has relegated it. As Dr. Kantor demonstrates, Passive-Aggressive Personality Disorder is a serious clinical syndrome that causes significant distress to individuals with such problems as well as to people involved with them.”

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