The Crisis of Connection: Roots, Consequences, and Solutions

by Niobe Way, Alisha Ali, Carol Gilligan, Pedro Noguera

Overview

A collection of essays that examine the causes of and provide solutions to the widespread alienation and disconnection that beset modern society.

Since the beginning of the 21st century, people have become increasingly disconnected from themselves, each other, and the world around them. A “crisis of connection” stemming from growing alienation, social isolation, and fragmentation characterizes modern society. The signs of this crisis of connection are everywhere, from decreasing levels of empathy and trust, to burgeoning cases of suicide, depression and loneliness. The astronomical rise in inequality around the world has contributed to the critical nature of this moment.

To delve into the heart of the crisis, leading researchers and practitioners draw from the science of human connection to tell a five-part story about its roots, consequences, and solutions. In doing so, they reveal how we, in modern society, have been captive to a false narrative that takes individualism as a universal truth. The new story now emerging from across the human sciences underscores our social and emotional capacities and needs. The science also reveals the ways in which the privileging of the self over relationships and of individual success over the common good as well as the perpetuation of dehumanizing stereotypes have led to a crisis of connection that is now widespread. Finally, the practitioners in the volume present concrete solutions that show ways we can create a more just and humane world.
 

“This profoundly important book suggests that our innate human determination to bridge differences and live in vulnerable, loving relationships is the antidote to rising fear and anxiety.” —Lyn Mikel Brown, author of Powered by Girl

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781479867103
Publisher:	New York University Press
Publication date:	11/21/2023
Sold by:	Barnes & Noble
Format:	eBook
Pages:	392
Sales rank:	473,366
File size:	10 MB

About the Author

Niobe Way, Ed. D., is Professor of Applied Psychology in the Department of Applied Psychology at New York University. She is also the founder of the Project for the Advancement of Our Common Humanity (pach.org) and the past President for the Society for Research on Adolescence. She received her doctorate from Harvard University in Human Development and Psychology and was an NIMH postdoctoral fellow in the psychology department at Yale University. Way’s has been studying the social and emotional development of adolescents in cultures around the world for the past three decades. In addition to almost a hundred academic journal publications and dozens of blogs written for mainstream media outlets, Way has written numerous books that include her sole-authored: Everyday Courage: The Lives and Stories of Urban Teenagers (NYU Press, 1998); and Deep Secrets: Boys’ Friendships and the Crisis of Connection (Harvard University Press, 2011). Her co-edited or co-authored books include: Urban Girls: Resisting Stereotypes, Creating Identities (NYU Press, 1996); Adolescent Boys: Exploring Diverse Cultures of Boyhood (NYU Press, 2004). and her award-winning Growing up Fast: Transitions to Adulthood among Inner-City Adolescent Mothers (Erlbaum Press, 2001). Her research has been funded by the National Institute of Mental Health, The National Science Foundation, The William T. Grant Foundation, The Spencer Foundation, and by numerous other foundations. Way is an internationally recognized leader in the study of social and emotional development and adolescence as well as in the use of mixed methods.
Alisha Ali is Associate Professor of Applied Psychology at New York University and the co-director of PACH. She is co-editor (with Dana Crowley Jack) of Silencing the Self Across Cultures: Depression and Gender in the Social World.
Carol Gilligan is University Professor at NYU, where she initiated the Radical Listening Project and the co-founder of PACH. She isthe author of In a Different Voice and numerous other books including The Birth of Pleasure and Joining the Resistance.
Pedro Noguera is the Distinguished Professor of Education at the Graduate School of Education and Information Studies at UCLA and the co-founder of PAC H. His most recent books are: Excellence Through Equity and Race, Equity and Education.

Table of Contents

Introduction: The Crisis of Connection Niobe Way Carol Gilligan Pedro Noguera Alisha Ali 1

The Crisis of Connection in Human Development

1 Cartography of a Lost Time: Mapping the Crisis of Connection Carol Gilligan Annie G. Rogers Normi Noel 65

2 Boys' Nature, Boys' Culture, and a Crisis of Connection Judy Y. Chu 88

3 Staying Woke: Raising Black Girls to Resist Disconnection Janie Victoria Ward 106

4 The "Black Box": Identity Development and the Crisis of Connection among Black Adolescent Boys Leoandra Onnie Rogers 129

The Crisis of Connection in Society and Science

5 In Pursuit of Our Common Humanity: The Role of Education in Overcoming the Empathy Gap and the Crisis of Connection Pedro Noguera 151

6 Masculinity and Our Common Humanity: "Real" Men versus "Good" Men Michael Kimmel 173

7 Slut Shaming as a Crisis of Connection: Fostering Connections to Fuel Resistance Deborah L. Tolman 188

8 Humanizing the Scientific Method Alisha Ali Corianna E. Sichel 211

School-Based Solutions

9 Love Pedagogy: Teaching to Disrupt Lisa Arrastia 231

10 Empathy as Strategy for Reconnecting to Our Common Humanity Mary Gordon 250

11 The Listening Project: Fostering Curiosity and Connection in Middle Schools Niobe Way Joseph D. Nelson 274

12 The Courage to Care: Building Connection between Young Women and Men with Shakespeare Victoria Rhoades 299

13 Splitting the World Open: Connection and Disconnection among Women Teaching Girls Judith A. Dorney 322

14 I Want to Learn from You: Relational Strategies to Engage Boys in School Michael C. Reichert Joseph D. Nelson 344

Community-Based Solutions

15 "We Don't Come from the Same Background … but I Get You": Performing Our Common Humanity by Creating Original Theater with Girls Dana Edell 363

16 Letting Men Care: Supporting Engaged Fatherhood to Radically Disrupt the Gender Binary Gary Barker 380

17 Rehumanization through Communalized Narrative for Military Veterans Stephan Wolfert Alisha Ali 398

18 A New World: Youth, Voice, and Connection Khary Lazarre-White 414

19 Resisting "Us versus Them": Immigrants and Our Common Humanity Hirokazu Yoshikawa 428

20 Love, Actually: Reflections from Three Religions Rabbi Burton L. Visotzky Reverend Chloe Breyer Hussein Rashid 444

Afterword David E. Kirkland 467

Acknowledgments 475

About the Editors 477

About the Contributors 479

Index 485

Editorial Reviews

"For our own shortsighted reasons - protection, safety, greed, ignorance - we have perfected a dangerously disconnected and dehumanizing set of discourses and practices. This profoundly important book suggests that our innate human determination to bridge differences and live in vulnerable, loving relationships is the antidote to rising fear and anxiety and the best chance we have to solve the wicked problems before us."

Lyn Mikel Brown

"In creating a volume examining the crisis of human connection, the editors gathered an impressive list of interdisciplinary contributors … Written in an accessible style, the book is a must read for any scholar interested in the science of human connection. The volume is a particularly valuable tool for anyone interested in solutions to the current crisis of connection."

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"For our own shortsighted reasons - protection, safety, greed, ignorance - we have perfected a dangerously disconnected and dehumanizing set of discourses and practices. This profoundly important book suggests that our innate human determination to bridge differences and live in vulnerable, loving relationships is the antidote to rising fear and anxiety and the best chance we have to solve the wicked problems before us."

"In creating a volume examining the crisis of human connection, the editors gathered an impressive list of interdisciplinary contributors … Written in an accessible style, the book is a must read for any scholar interested in the science of human connection. The volume is a particularly valuable tool for anyone interested in solutions to the current crisis of connection."

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