The Pegging Book: A Complete Guide to Anal Sex with a Strap-On Dildo

by Cooper Beckett, Lyndzi Miller

Overview

In the beginning, there was no name for it.The act was lumped in with general anal sex and general strap-on sex. But perhaps seeing a hole that needed filling, an online contest was held to name the act. When the dust had settled, the word was clear and the world was changed.Pegging: A sex act in which the pegger anally penetrates the pegee with a strap-on dildo.Authors Cooper S. Beckett and Lyndzi Miller tackle all you've ever wanted to know about pegging. How do we do it? What are the right tools for the job? Does it actually feel good? I'm a straight guy, will pegging make me gay? They answer these questions and also talk about safety, male anatomy and the health benefits of being pegged.Beckett and Miller guide you through your experimentation with this most excellent act in a friendly and conversational fashion, showing you an in-depth look between the cheeks.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781990869006
Publisher:	Thornapple Press
Publication date:	10/14/2022
Sold by:	Barnes & Noble
Format:	eBook
Pages:	216
Sales rank:	904,188
File size:	2 MB

About the Author

Lyndzi Miller has been a sexual educator at The Tool Shed: An Erotic Boutique since 2012, and is its current assistant manager. She established the Milwaukee Poly Group in 2008, facilitating discussion and support group meetings every month since. She also hosts the bi-weekly podcast Polyamory Uncensored, on which she interviews ethically non-monogamous folks on their polyamorous journeys.

Queer, non-monogamous writer Cooper S. Beckett began his writing career as a podcaster as host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast and a speaker in the sexuality education community. He wrote My Life on the Swingset, a memoir of his first five years in non-monogamy, then followed that up with two novels, A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching the Swingularity.

Table of Contents

Foreword: Welcome to the Revolution Introduction: New Book, Who Dis? Content Notes What Is Pegging? Why Call It Pegging? Other Verbiage Anatomy An Owner’s Guide to the Male Reproductive System The P- Spot vs. the G- Spot Why Pegging Is Awesome Benefits of Exploration What If It Makes Me Gay? Role Reversal: Understanding Different Points of View What If I Don’t Like It? Is Pegging a Kink? The Prostate Orgasm It Won’t Stop: The Epic Prostate Orgasm Other Thoughts on Prostate Orgasms The Leaking Prostate But What About …? Social Stigma Media Representations of Pegging Internalized Misogyny and Fragile Masculinity The Anal Shame Effect Physical Limitations Easing In Communication External Prostate Massage Spit Is Not Lube On Your Back Address the Anus Go for Insertion And Now…Pegging What of the Penis? Best Pegging Positions Aftercare Health Benefits Safety and Comfort Does It Hurt? Hugs, Not Drugs Do You Dig My Flare? Shit Happens Safer Sex What’s in It for Me? Beyond the Peg Tit for Tat Mistress Peggy Fucking Pleasure What If They Don’t Come? Best Tools for the Job Where to Buy Harnesses/Straps Dildos Lubes Positioning Aids The Giving Revolution Index

What People are Saying About This

sex and cultural critic - Ella Dawson

“The Pegging Book is more than a sex guide. It’s a smart and compassionate exploration of pegging as a cultural and sexual practice. Cooper and Lyndzi hold the reader’s hand through an intimidating sexual act with the kindness and tact of a cool friend. This book will reframe your entire concept of what sex should look and feel like beyond PIV penetration. It tackles every question a beginner might have: What does a prostate orgasm feel like? What kind of strap-on should I buy? And, gasp, does getting pegged make you gay? The Pegging Book is a necessary addition to every sex-positive reader’s library.”

writer, podcaster, and kink educator - Rebecca E. Blanton

“The Pegging Book is a wonderful addition to sex ed literature! As an act, pegging has gained popularity among people of all genders, sexual orientations, and ages. It is great to finally have a single resource which teaches how to peg as well as gives it cultural context and history. Beckett and Miller have done justice to a topic which goes so much deeper than a titillating headline! In addition to great content, the book is beautifully illustrated and provides readers with a solid understanding of anatomy and pleasure centers. This is a must-buy for any person looking to understand how to peg or the act’s cultural significance.”

sex educator and author of The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren’t Having - JoEllen Notte

"Cooper and Lyndzi have created the smart, fun, accessible guide to pegging that we needed. Whether you are curious or already a pegging pro, this is a worthwhile addition to your sex ed book collection."

Editorial Reviews

The Pegging Book is a wonderful addition to sex ed literature! As an act, pegging has gained popularity among people of all genders, sexual orientations, and ages. It is great to finally have a single resource which teaches how to peg as well as gives it cultural context and history. Beckett and Miller have done justice to a topic which goes so much deeper than a titillating headline! In addition to great content, the book is beautifully illustrated and provides readers with a solid understanding of anatomy and pleasure centers. This is a must-buy for any person looking to understand how to peg or the act’s cultural significance.”

writer, podcaster, and kink educator - Rebecca E. Blanton

"Cooper and Lyndzi have created the smart, fun, accessible guide to pegging that we needed. Whether you are curious or already a pegging pro, this is a worthwhile addition to your sex ed book collection."

sex educator and author of The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren - JoEllen Notte

The Pegging Book is more than a sex guide. It’s a smart and compassionate exploration of pegging as a cultural and sexual practice. Cooper and Lyndzi hold the reader’s hand through an intimidating sexual act with the kindness and tact of a cool friend. This book will reframe your entire concept of what sex should look and feel like beyond PIV penetration. It tackles every question a beginner might have: What does a prostate orgasm feel like? What kind of strap-on should I buy? And, gasp, does getting pegged make you gay? The Pegging Book is a necessary addition to every sex-positive reader’s library.

sex and cultural critic - Ella Dawson

"A thoughtful, thorough job at exploring all the nuance and complexity (and fun) this kind of sex has to offer, in a way that’s sex-positive, holistic, and very accessible, like talking to a couple of friends who also happen to be experts." —Tristan Taormino, author of The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women and other books, sex educator, and creator of Sex Educator Boot Camp

"Cooper and Lyndzi have created the smart, fun, accessible guide to pegging that we needed. Whether you are curious or already a pegging pro, this is a worthwhile addition to your sex ed book collection." —JoEllen Notte, Sex educator and author of TheMonster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren’t Having

"This is a must-buy for any person looking to understand how to peg or the act's cultural significance." —Rebecca E. Blanton, Writer; podcaster; kink educator

"A smart and compassionate exploration of pegging as a cultural and sexual practice, The Pegging Book is a necessary addition to every sex-positive reader’s library."—Ella Dawson. sex and cultural critic 

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