The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus: How to Go Down on a Women and Give Her Exquisite Pleasure

by Violet Blue

Overview

The complete self-help book on cunnilingus for everyone who would like to enjoy cunnilingus—women and men!

Sex educator Violet Blue tells you all you need to know to give and receive exquisite oral pleasure:

* For all women—heterosexual, lesbian, bisexual—and men who desire hot oral encounters
* How to introduce cunnilingus into your sexual repertoire
* How to negotiate oral sex with a reluctant partner
* Clear, illustrated guide to women's anatomy
* Helpful tips on preparation and hygiene—including shaving and waxing
* Building trust and talking about your desires
* Advanced positions and techniques
* Toys, games, fantasy and power play
* Complete guide to helpful resources—videos, books, and websites
* Plus, explicit stories of women enjoying cunnilingus by best-selling erotica author Alison Tyler

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781573445511
Publisher:	Start Publishing Llc
Publication date:	11/01/2010
Sold by:	Barnes & Noble
Format:	eBook
Pages:	200
File size:	2 MB

About the Author

Violet Blue is the bestselling author of four sex instruction books: The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio, The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus, The Ultimate Guide to Adult Videos, and The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy; the editor of five erotica collections: Sweet Life, Sweet Life 2, Taboo, Best Women's Erotica 2006, and Lips Like Sugar; and the editor of the nonfiction collection Best Sex Writing 2005, all published by Cleis Press. Violet also writes about erotica, pornography, and sexual pleasure and health for various magazines, and she is the creator of the popular podcast Open Source Sex. Violet Blue has appeared in dozens of publications and radio and TV programs; the following is a selected list. Violet has been interviewed and quoted by national and international magazines including O, The Oprah Magazine, Newsweek, Cosmopolitan, Esquire, Jane, First for Women, Glamour, Grace Woman, Maxim, Marie Claire, Men’s Health, Men’s Fitness, Blender, Penthouse, Redbook, Wired, and more; TV appearances on The History Channel’s Sex in History series and Playboy TV’s Sexcetera; radio interviews including The Dr. Laura Berman Show, The Sunday Night Sex Show with Sue Johansen, and a regular monthly guest appearance on Sirius OutQ Radio’s Derek and Romaine Show; and selected websites including CBS Healthwatch, Jane’s Guide, and Salon.com. She has been the subject of feature articles in the San Francisco Bay Guardian, SF Weekly, San Jose Mercury News, and the Wall Street Journal and has been quoted extensively in several books including 365 Days of Sensational Sex by Lou Paget and The Guide to Getting it On! by Paul Joannides. Violet is a trained sex educator and lectures to human sexuality students at San Francisco State University, UC Berkeley, and to trainees at the national sex crisis and information hotline San Francisco Sex Information. She lives in San Francisco. Visit her at www.tinynibbles.com. The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Sex Toys "A very useful introduction to the many different types of toys currently available. Packed with practical advice, this should be required reading for new retail staff." —Erotic Trade Only Advance praise: "No longer are toys solely for solo pleasure. Violet's vast research and expertise in this area can guide both novice and toy-experienced couples." — Lou Paget, author of The Great Lover Playbook

Table of Contents

Foreword Margaret Cho ix

Introduction xi

Chapter 1 One Act, Many Pleasures 1

Receiving

Giving

Increasing Intimacy

Enhancing Lovemaking

Chapter 2 How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love Getting Head 10

The Four Fears

Building Blocks for Great Sex: Masturbation and Fantasy

Getting Connected

Being a Great Lick-ee

The Oral Sex Double Standard

Working Late

Chapter 3 Anatomy for Pleasure 31

Female Anatomy 101

The Sexual Response Cycle

The G-Spot and Ejaculation

Chapter 4 Health Considerations 45

Is Cunnilingus a Risky Behavior"

Is Rimming Risky"

Safer Sex

Flavored Vulvas

Air Embolism

Episiotomy

The Eroticism of Safer Sex

Chapter 5 Tastes and Textures 61

Hair: Velvet or Velcro"

Smell and Taste

Beard Burn

Menstruation

The Sweets of San Francisco

Chapter 6 Cunning Linguistics: Getting Started 76

Cunning Strategies and Suggestions

Foreplay Games for Lovers

Chapter 7 Oral Seduction 86

First Taste

Helping Hands

Female Genital Massage

Starting Licks

Tongue Techniques

What Your Mouth Can Do

Strokes and Combinations

Rhythm

How to Be a Mind Reader (Well, Almost)

Blue Denim Pussy

Chapter 8 As You Like It 108

Positions

Cunnilingus Positions for Injured or Disabled People

Tongue and Jaw Cramp

Penetration and Sex Toys

G-Spot Stimulation

More

Chapter 9 Tricks or Treats: Advanced Techniques 124

Erotic Pressure Points

Fire and Ice

A Little Pain

A Lot of Pain

Exercising Restraint

Rimming

Anal Penetration

Extreme Sports

The Party

Chapter 10 Independent Study: Erotic Books and Videos 149

Recommended Reading

Sex Guides

Erotic Videos

How-To Videos

Chapter 11 Resources 162

Online and Mail Order

Retail Stores

Canadian Resources

European Resources

Safer-Sex Resources

Sex Education Classes and Workshops: Organizations

Sex-Related Web Sites

Chapter 12 References 175

Books

Videos

Illustrations

1 One Act, Many Pleasures 2

2 Take a Look 13

3 External Anatomy 33

4 Internal Anatomy (Front View) 35

5 Internal Anatomy (Side View) 38

6 Safer Sex 53

7 Shaving 64

8 Cunning Strategy 78

9 First Taste 88

10 Orgasm 103

11 Doggie-Style 111

12 Enhancing Orgasm 126

13 Heightening Sensitivity 127

14 Increasing Pleasure 127

Editorial Reviews

"The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus by Violet Blue is a comprehensive resource for all things cunnilingus. She doesn't talk about anything but cunnilingus and she doesn't just focus on techniques. Most of the book reveals information that will make you not only a better cunnilingus giver and receiver, but a better lover overall." -All Sex Reviews--Reviews

From the Publisher

"The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus by Violet Blue is a comprehensive resource for all things cunnilingus. She doesn't talk about anything but cunnilingus and she doesn't just focus on techniques. Most of the book reveals information that will make you not only a better cunnilingus giver and receiver, but a better lover overall." -All Sex Reviews

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