Why Don't You Just Talk to Him?: The Politics of Domestic Abuse

Why Don't You Just Talk to Him?: The Politics of Domestic Abuse

by Kathleen R. Arnold


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Why Don't You Just Talk to Him? looks at the broad political contexts in which violence, specifically domestic violence, occurs. Kathleen Arnold argues that liberal and Enlightenment notions of the social contract, rationality and egalitarianism — the ideas that constitute norms of good citizenship — have an inextricable relationship to violence. According to this dynamic, targets of abuse are not rational, make bad choices, are unable to negotiate with their abusers, or otherwise violate norms of the social contract; they are, thus, second-class citizens. In fact, as Arnold shows, drawing from Nietzsche and Foucault's theories of power and arguing against much of the standard policy literature on domestic violence, the very mechanisms that purportedly help targets of domestic abuse actually work to compound the problem by exacerbating (or ignoring) the power differences between the abuser and the abused. The book argues that a key to understanding how to prevent domestic violence is seeing it as a political rather than a personal issue, with political consequences. It seeks to challenge Enlightenment ideas about intimacy that conceive of personal relationships as mutual, equal and contractual. Put another way, it challenges policy ideas that suggest that targets of abuse can simply choose to leave abusive relationships without other personal or economic consequences, or that there is a clear and consistent level of help once they make the choice to leave.

Asking "Why Don't You Just Talk to Him?" is in reality a suggestion riven with contradictions and false choices. Arnold further explores these issues by looking at two key asylum cases that highlight contradictions within the government's treatment of foreigners and that of long-term residents. These cases expose problematic assumptions in the approach to domestic violence more generally. Exposing major injustices from the point of view of domestic violence targets, this book promises to generate further debate, if not consensus.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780190262280
Publisher: Oxford University Press
Publication date: 09/01/2015
Pages: 280
Product dimensions: 9.30(w) x 6.40(h) x 1.10(d)

About the Author

Kathleen R. Arnold is Visiting Assistant Professor of Political Science at DePaul University.

Table of Contents

Introduction: Why Don't You Just Talk to Him? The Politics of Domestic Abuse
Chapter 1: The Politics of Abuse and Realism
Chapter 2: The Context of the Problem
Chapter 3: Domestic Abuse and the Limits of Communication (Foucault, Habermas and Beyond)
Chapter 4: The Enlightenment and Violence
Chapter 5: Conclusion

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