And Never Stop Dancing: Thirty More True Things You Need to Know Now

And Never Stop Dancing: Thirty More True Things You Need to Know Now

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by Gordon Livingston M.D.
     
 

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In Dr. Gordon Livingston’s follow-up to his national bestseller Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart, he offers thirty more true things we need to know now. Among the fresh truths he identifies and explores in this book, which has sold more than 50,000 copies in hardcover, are: Paradox governs our lives. Forgiveness is a gift we give ourselves.

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In Dr. Gordon Livingston’s follow-up to his national bestseller Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart, he offers thirty more true things we need to know now. Among the fresh truths he identifies and explores in this book, which has sold more than 50,000 copies in hardcover, are: Paradox governs our lives. Forgiveness is a gift we give ourselves. Marriage ruins a lot of good relationships. We are defined by what we fear. We all live downstream. One of life’s most difficult tasks is to see ourselves as others see us. As we grow old, the beauty steals inward. Most people die with their music still inside of them.

Dr. Livingston’s sterling qualities are in evidence again: a clear and deep understanding of the hidden hypocrisies, desires, evasions, and emotional tumult that course through our lives; an unerring sense of what is important; and his own ability to persevere—to hope—in a world he knows is capable of inflicting unjustifiable and lifelong suffering.

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Publishers Weekly
A physician and psychiatrist, Livingston follows up on his Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart: Thirty True Things You Need to Know Now with this compendium of useful humanistic advice for getting through life with grace and a sense of joy. In "Marriage Ruins a Lot of Good Relationships," the author notes that a relationship is in trouble when it depends on scorekeeping: how much am I giving, how much am I getting? Livingston advocates instead choosing a partner to love as much as we love ourselves, one who is kind and has a willingness to extend him or herself. Livingston also believes too many psychiatrists are prescribing medication rather than helping their patients "take responsibility for [their] lives and cope with the inevitable mood changes that are a part of living." Extrapolating from his ideas about the good life to broader issues, Livingston argues that our need for "insatiable consumption" is directly related to our abuse of the environment and our need to wage war. In "You Can Change Who You Are Without Rejecting Who You Were," Livingston, a West Point graduate, discusses his love for the Point and his growing opposition to the war in Vietnam, where he served as an army doctor. His public protests against interrogation techniques ended his military career. This slender volume is full of wisdom and written with a generous spirit that will appeal even to those who don't usually read self-help books. (Apr.) Copyright 2006 Reed Business Information.

Product Details

ISBN-13:
9780738212494
Publisher:
Da Capo Press
Publication date:
10/06/2008
Edition description:
First Trade Paper Edition
Pages:
192
Sales rank:
279,245
Product dimensions:
4.60(w) x 7.00(h) x 0.70(d)

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Meet the Author


Gordon Livingston, M.D., a West Point graduate and Vietnam veteran, has been a physician since 1967. An op-ed writer for several newspapers, his other books are Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart and Only Spring. He lives in Columbia, Maryland.

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And Never Stop Dancing: Thirty More True Things You Need to Know Now 3.7 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 3 reviews.
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I stumbled upon Dr. Livingston's book and found a real gem. His realism is refreshing and I never felt like he was 'preaching'. Each chapter is an opportunity for his stories to either strike a chord in your heart or make you think about why you feel resistance to what he's saying. After finishing I also read his 'How To Love' and 'To Soon Old, Too Late Smart' and I recommend them all.