Biff: Quick Responses to High-Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Em

We live in an age of rapid change and instant communication. We also live in a Culture of Blame and Disrespect…

Has anyone ever told you:
“It’s all YOUR fault!”
“You should be ashamed of yourself!”
“You’re a disgrace to your _________________!”
[family][community][country][team][profession][party][you fill in the blank]

“What’s the matter with you? Are you crazy? Stupid? Immoral? Unethical? Evil?”

And then were you told everything that’s “wrong” with you and how you should behave?

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