The Pathfinder: How to Choose or Change Your Career For a Lifetime of Satisfaction and Success

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Chapter 1

This Can Be Your Guide

Once, I was in the same situation you are facing today. It was time to decide what to do with my life. I committed myself to doing whatever was necessary to make a truly excellent career choice because I passionately wanted to wake up in the morning looking forward to going to work each day. This is the book I searched for then but did not find.

I remember an extraordinary, imaginary book that first framed my boyhood vision of what I hope The Pathfinder will be for you. Each month, Donald Duck's nephews, Huey, Dewey, and Louie would find themselves in the middle of a full-tilt comic book adventure. When things got completely hopeless, when the forces of chaos seemed sure to win, they always pulled off a miracle. Out of their knapsack came their infallible guide and problem solver, The Junior Woodchuck Handbook. It had an absolutely perfect, creative solution for every situation they stumbled into, no matter how obscure or difficult. It was the complete guide to life.

Since then I have passionately sought those rare volumes of chuckery that surface in the real world. Every once in a while one appears, the seminal guidebook to some aspect of life. Inspired by these wonderful books, The Pathfinder is intended to be one small chapter of The Junior Woodchuck Handbook: how to decide what to do with your life. Whether you are in midcareer change or are making career decisions for the first time, it is designed to get you successfully through the process of planning your future.

How can an intelligent person, committed to choosing a new career path, decide exactly which direction to pursue? That is a question I began asking many years ago. At the time I was restless and bored with my job. I ran a conservation and solar energy company on the coast of Maine. I had written and been responsible for the passage of legislation that saved thousands of beautiful historic houses from destruction and had recently been commended for excellence by the White House. My office looked out on a beautiful harbor where lobster boats and foghorns greeted the new day. Yet I had trouble getting through the workday. Even with an extensive background in psychology and Eastern philosophy, I had difficulty understanding why my workday left so much to be desired. How could it be that working on interesting projects in an idyllic setting and making a positive difference in the world and getting recognition could get boring? It was an absolute mystery to me.

I then searched all over New England to find a career coach to help me solve my problem. I called nearly every counselor in the region. I told them I was seeking to choose a new career where I would be able to wake up in the morning and look forward to work. I said I wanted to find a vocation that was challenging, creative, and that I would passionately enjoy, where I could use my talents to their fullest, doing something that mattered to me. None of them seemed to know what it took to have a really phenomenal career. In fact, I could tell from their voices that many of them didn't seem to love what they did either.

Finally, I took my problem to a wise old man who was a fellow member of my boat club. As it turned out, I was lucky enough to pick the ideal supporter, R. Buckminster Fuller. Many people have heard of Bucky because he invented the geodesic dome. The building at EPCOT Center that looks like a huge silvery ball is one of his many revolutionary designs. Bucky was much more than an architect. If you can imagine Obiwan Kanobe and Yoda combined in a real person who was at the same time a master futurist, scientist, engineer, architect inventor, mathematician, philosopher, and mystic, you get a little hint as to who he was. I struggled with my dilemma for what seemed like eons. Ultimately, with his encouragement, I decided to dedicate my life to tackling the very problem I had so much trouble solving myself. I founded an organization dedicated to developing more effective ways to help people make career and education choices.

Since 1980, that organization, Rockport Institute, has been a pioneer in developing programs that successfully guide clients through the process of career decision making. These programs consist of clear-cut steps that help clients choose a specific career that will be highly satisfying, give them the opportunity to reach their goals, use their talents at the highest possible level, and be practical and achievable. From the beginning we have been committed to developing the best tools to help people make the best decisions. Rockport Institute has helped many thousands of clients from all walks of life: young and old; rich and poor; professionals in career change; artists, students, and people reentering the workforce. We have had the opportunity to serve as personal career consultants to several national and global leaders, CEOs of Fortune 500 companies, senior policy makers of three presidential administrations, and people in nearly every field of endeavor. Our clients have one thing in common: a strong desire for a very fulfilling career.

For the last seventeen years, as Director of Rockport Institute, my single-minded passion has been to create methods that help intelligent, complex people like you choose the perfect career and stretch beyond the circumstances and perceived limitations that hold them back from living lives of deep fulfillment. I have written this book to, as closely as possible, duplicate the experience you would have if we were to sit together in the same room and work step by step until you reach your goal, knowing for sure what you will do with your life. In these pages you will find a pathway through the process of deciding what to do with your life that actually gets you to the goal line. For the first time you will have access to everything you need to reach your goal of picking an outrageously excellent new direction, choosing your first career, or tuning up your present path. By looking at the questions you have previously been unable to answer from new perspectives, you will finally have a chance to sort them out and get them answered completely.

You will also have an opportunity to look into areas of your life you may have never considered before. You will find some of these components absolutely critical to making the best possible career decision. The Pathfinder will help you to break everything important down into small bite-sized pieces and deal with them one by one. Far from being a generic, cookie-cutter approach, this book will enable you to customize your journey through the morass of questions and uncertainties to fit your own particular needs.

I will completely respect and appreciate you and your unique nature. At the same time, I won't pull punches or be too polite to give it to you straight. I don't mind at all if you jump up and down and curse me when you get frustrated. After all, I'm just a book. (Just make sure no one else sees you, or you may find that the men with butterfly nets are beginning to keep their eyes on you.)

The Pathfinder will escort you through an inquiry into every aspect of your life that relates to career. Designed to be a universal guide, it should work for you regardless of your age, background, education, point of view, and experience. If you are a recently deposed emperor, you won't be treated like a teenager. And if you are a teenager, don't worry, you won't be treated like a deposed emperor. Rather than just discussing theoretical ideals about career fulfillment, The Pathfinder is designed to actually take you to your goal of deciding exactly what you will do with your life.

You Can Do It!

The difficulties you may have faced, the times you have gotten stuck, and the less than perfect decisions you may have made previously do not signify in any way that there is something wrong with you or that the world of work must be a hard, dark, cold, dreary place. If you want to do something with your life that really sings and soars, all you need to do is to start your journey here. No matter what your situation, you can do it, if you go for it wholeheartedly, and keep going until you arrive at your destination.

Before you continue, please get a good notebook, one that you will use for deciding what to do with your life and for nothing else. A three-ring binder would be perfect. If you have a word processor, it will simplify working through some of the Inquiries in this book. You should print everything out as hard copy, so you will still need a notebook.

Copyright © 1998 by Nicholas Ayars Lore