Nanny Brenda says:
“All mothers are quite brilliant in my eyes and nine times out of ten don’t realize the sacrifices they undertake or the powerful contributions they make.”
“Little folk deserve a childhood that’s full of fun. It’s the single most valuable lesson in my eyes.”
“Everyone knows you simply can’t retire from love. Children leave you; you don’t leave children. That’s the natural order of things.”
“I have puzzled many times over the ingredients for a perfect recipe for a happy home. It needs to be a place with parents who worship their offspring. Throw in some stability, a dash of routine, and respect.”
|Publisher:||Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group|
|Product dimensions:||5.20(w) x 7.90(h) x 0.70(d)|
About the Author
Brenda Ashford is a graduate of Norland College, a world-famous institute for British nannies. For sixty-two years, she cared for more than one hundred children, making her Britain’s longest-serving nanny. She lives outside London.
Table of Contents
Chapter 1 Home is Where the Heart Is 7
Chapter 2 The Calling 31
Chapter 3 Nanny Boot Camp 49
Chapter 4 Caring for Sick Children 75
Chapter 5 Night, Night, Sleep Tight 93
Chapter 6 My First Family 127
Chapter 7 Yes, Your Ladyship 153
Chapter 8 Stolen Kisses 175
Chapter 9 War Nursery 209
Chapter 10 Saints and Sinners 247
Chapter 11 The Circle of Life 277
Chapter 12 Troubleshooting Nanny 303
Chapter 13 Coming Home 337
Author's Note 357
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
I honestly don't know where to begin. A book written by a 92-year-old woman who is still going strong? And she is a part of an online blog tour? And her book is available in e-book? All of these things are already amazing. And that was even before I began the book. I had a sense that this would be a great book, but I had no idea how inspiring and amazing it would be! This memoir is an unbelievable book that chronicles Brenda's 60-some years of being a British nanny. I have to admit that I cannot imagine doing these things at my age of almost 39, but to still be taking care of babies at the age of 80? Good grief! The woman is unbelievable. And she tells her story with honesty, humor, and heart. I found many gems in this story that I wasn't expecting. Child-rearing tips, practical wisdom, recipes, and even a few history lessons. Not much romance, but there is some to satisfy the romance-lovers amongst us. I won't spoil any of that for you. Brenda's memory is as sharp as a whip, and it makes me wish I had had her as a nanny when I was growing up. It even made me realize that I was probably sorely lacking in some of my mothering skills since I have tended to sometimes take the "easy" way out. But I'm not going to beat myself up over that. In short, this is a book that all women should read. I think everyone could take something from it. There are no bedroom scenes, and while anatomy is discussed, it is necessary--you'll understand. It is not inappropriate. As to profanity, I would not really call anything in the book "profanity." I call this clean. I was sent a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review. I was not financially compensated, and all opinions are 100 percent mine.
This was such an easy book to read. The words just flowed out of the pages. You could really feel the passion that Ms. Ashford had for those children in her care -- really all children. Reading the book, it was hard to picture a 90+ woman writing it, as the spirit and energy was of someone much younger. As you can see from the Pearls of Wisdom above, she is very honest and down to earth, and I don't know of anyone who would not benefit from some of her advice. About the first 1/3 of the book was dedicated to her own childhood and how she came about deciding she wanted to be a nanny, as well as her training at Norland Institute. For the most part, the rest of the book is dedicated to the time she spent with some of her charges and their families. From humor to tragedy, she has experienced it all. For some reason, and this is probably just the English flavor that the book had, but it reminded me of the books written by James Herriott and his experiences of being a vet. They just seemed to have the same rhythm and style and leave you with just a feeling of goodwill.
Brenda Ashford spent 62 years working as a Norland Nanny. When I saw this book my first response was “She was like Mary Poppins!” My love for that movie is what made me pick up this book for review and I will be buying my own copy on release day. Now at 91 years old, Ashford shares her life story with us readers and it is riveting. From the moment Ashford held her little brother David to hiding in the shelter with her charges while bombs explode around her, you will be sucked in. This woman has lived an amazing life and not only does she share the story with us, but she gives us recipes and advice on child rearing based on her own experience. A Spoonful of Sugar is one of those literary treasures that will stick with you the rest of your life. Sorry Marry Poppins, you had it easy! Although I admit, Brenda Ashford’s life had some magic in it amidst the hardship and heartache. This was how it really was back then. Thank you to Providence Book Promotions and Doubleday for the review copy. It in no way influenced my review.