Table of Contents
Preface: This Is Important 9
Introduction: Read This First 11
Chapter 1 You Are Not Alone 17
Chapter 2 Don t Want to Be the Church Anymore 29
Chapter 3 Know What Disillusions You 35
Chapter 4 Let It Go 47
Chapter 5 The Road beyond the Broken Church 55
Chapter 6 Wise Counselor 63
Chapter 7 Lessons in How to Leave the Church and End Up Staying 73
Chapter 8 How Can We Go On Living? 83
Chapter 9 Withness 93
Chapter 10 Should I Stay or Should I Go? 113
Chapter 11 Church at Home, Church on the Road 121
Chapter 12 Your Grandmother's Church 133
Chapter 13 No One Owes You an Explanation 141
Chapter 14 Love Letter 159
Afterword: Where I Am Now 167
Beyond the Broken Church 169
Appendix A Resources for the Disillusioned 171
Appendix B Resources for the Local Pastor or Church Staff Who Serve the Disillusioned 181
Appendix C Resources for Denominational Leaders 213
Appendix D Resources for Parents and Family Members of the Disillusioned 215
Appendix E Fifty Things I've Learned about Forgiveness 111
Appendix F Resources for Learning More about Disillusionment 233
Acknowledgments 247
Notes 249